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I_am_as_I

32 / M / Straight / Available

Newark, Delaware

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Self summary...interesting. I am the musician behind nolongerhuman, the music can be described as EBM/Goth Industrial, with maybe a touch of punk. I am also a chef, mostly specializing in French, German, and Eastern European. I love to read, travel, cook (obviously) talk, listen, I tend to prefer the better things in life when at all possible, though I am equally at home watching a good movie, or stomping my ass off in a club, and I will try anything once. I am as quirky as I am nerdy. I value politeness, kindness, and love over anything else in life, and have a terribly inappropriate sense of humor. I just moved to Delaware from New York, and as of yet I don't know many people, mostly because I am just amazingly shy. I am that guy who will see someone I want to talk to and just occasionally glance over, trying to work up courage to go and talk to you, but, I won't be able to, then I will go home and kick myself for it.

I am insanely sensitive to whomever I am with, and am the guy who will wake up before you just so I can make you breakfast, the person who will take a day off work, just because you need someone to hold. The downside, I need you to be the same. I am tolerant of almost anything except animal abuse of any kind (including neglect, and lack of proper care.)

I value aesthetics, both mine and the people that I am around, maybe it is shallow, but, if you don't care what you look like, why would anyone else?

I like alt. aesthetics, tattoos, piercings, odd hairstyles, I have a cockroach tattoo covering the majority of my lower arms, and gauged ears, I suppose the only thing keeping me from doing more is the wonderful economy. I generally don't like the normal version of anything. I have an obsession with the post apocalyptic aesthetic. I will be wrought to tears if you truly believe politicians aren't just bobble heads in $4,000.00 suits. I feel mostly the same about religion, if it makes you a better person, good, we need more of those. If you use it to alleviate personal accountability, stay away from me.

A favorite quote you say? Sure, why not.

"I shut my eyes and all the world drops dead;
I lift my lids and all is born again.
(I think I made you up inside my head.)"

So, I guess that's more than enough about me, if you would like to know more, ask anything. I am an open book.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I am working two jobs, trying to establish where it is in life I want to be. I am working on meeting people, having gotten stuck here, I know very few people beyond random "club friends" I don't know if I plan to stay in the area or go, and I won't for some time, I am restarting...and I spend alot of time alone, which is not at all my preference.
I’m really good at
I have an interesting stage persona, that is much different than I myself am, which I suppose is a talent. I am amazing at being shy...so, if I add you or some such, I am not trying to be creepy, just amazingly shy. I can cook pretty much any meal you can think of, and will enjoy doing it. I am extremely tolerant, and am a good speaker, as well as a good listener. I like to do whatever I can for others, and rarely consider myself in the process. I think of this a strength, not a weakness. Cruelty is not attractive, neither is self obsession.
The first things people usually notice about me
Generally, my hair, or my lips, so I am told, if not that, the tattoo's, or maybe just the fact that I am screaming into a microphone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books, hrm, anything Post Apocalypse, anything sociological, but authors themselves, Rand, Orwell, Lovecraft, Dazai, Kafka, Palahniuk, Koontz, King.

I am obsessed with Fallout 3, anything zombie related, Bioshock, 50's music, old, old blues music, pretty much anything with heart, and depth.

Movies, that can be almost anything, I was never a huge fan of buddy movies or silly comedies, though I do like a few (Anchorman, The invention of lying) I like horror, period pieces, some Sci Fi, Dexter, Lie to Me, X-Files, House, Millenium, Twlight Zone (black and white)

Foods, I can be quite a snob. I won't turn down a good burger from time to time, but, I generally like to eat healthy, and generally prefer the freshest possible ingredients, regardless of price, I am not a vegetarian, but was for a long time, and prefer the lifestyle, it just became impossible, when cooking for others.
The six things I could never do without
Oh, I would say...love, trust, companionship, and physically, cigarettes, my computer, and my music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Song lyrics, where my old friends ended up, new recipes, healthy ways of cooking unhealthy things, not wanting to go to work, heh, procrastinating working out but doing it anyway, what color contacts I want to get next, if I really need an iPad, what the next random city I will end up playing a show in next will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching movies, in some random state playing a show, or, working. Tonight is Friday. Hm. I am watching The Outer Limits, and sitting here, wondering at what point a singles site became an acceptable way to spend my time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry, usually at the drop of a hat, over silly things, like the end of green mile, or, or when brooks hanlon died. Yea. Really.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 20–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You are interesting, open to alternative lifestyles and sexuality,
open to new things, and fun to talk with :-)
Oh, and you are good at open ended statements...nothing is more frustrating than trying to respond to someone who always uses closed ended sentences, I feel like I am trying to solve some inscrutable riddle.