How about we change the paradigm, and you message me first? I think far too many people expect guys to do that, and honestly, it isn't the 1950's. Additionally, the guys who do message, generally are not going to be the somewhat shy, meek, friendly, wanting to get to know you type. They are far more likely to be the creepy irritating stalker dude who doesn't read your profile, he just sees that you are female and live somewhere near him (or often not.) That's kind of how it works it seems, so, lets change it up. If you wanna chat, message me. I am quite friendly, and about as non threatening as they come.
So then, self summary...Hmm.
Well, I am the musician behind nolongerhuman; the music can be described as EBM/Goth Industrial, with maybe a touch of punk.
I am also a chef, mostly specializing in French, German, and Eastern European.
I love to read, travel, cook (obviously) talk, and listen.
I tend to prefer the better things in life when at all possible, though I am equally at home watching a good movie, or stomping my ass off in a club.
I will try anything once.
I am as quirky as I am nerdy.
I value politeness, kindness, and love over anything else in life, and have a terribly inappropriate sense of humor.
I just moved to Delaware from New York, just before that I lived in California, just before that I lived in Portland, Oregon. As of yet I don't know many people, mostly because I am just amazingly shy. I am that guy who will see someone I want to talk to and just occasionally glance over,trying to work up courage to go and talk to you, but, I won't be able to, then I will go home and kick myself for it.
I am insanely sensitive to whomever I am with, and am the guy who will wake up before you just so I can make you breakfast, and the person who will take a day off work, just because you need someone to talk to.
The downside, I need you to be the same. I am tolerant of almost anything except animal abuse of any kind (including neglect, and lack of proper care.)
I value aesthetics, both mine and the people that I am around. Maybe it is shallow but, if you don't care what you look like, why would anyone else?
I like alternative aesthetics: tattoos, piercings, and odd hairstyles.
I have a cockroach tattoo covering the majority of my lower arms, and gauged ears, and most recently a banksy work on my upper left arm.
I generally don't like the normal version of anything.
I have an obsession with the post apocalyptic style..
I will be wrought to tears if you truly believe politicians aren't just bobble heads in $4,000.00 suits.
I feel mostly the same about religion. If it makes you a better person, well good; we need more of those.
However, if you use it to alleviate personal accountability, stay away from me.
Cruelty is not attractive, neither is self obsession.
A favorite quote, you say? Sure, why not.
"I shut my eyes and all the world drops dead;
I lift my lids and all is born again.
(I think I made you up inside my head.)"
So, I guess that's more than enough about me, if you would like to know more, ask anything. I am an open book.