Ok some basic about me part:
Favorite Color: Blue & Black
Favorite Food: Italian and Mexican
Favorite Music: Anything with a great Guitar Riff
Favorite Movie: I don't have just one but to name a few - The Lost Boys, Armageddon, Hudson Hawke, What dreams may come
Favorite Actor: Robin Williams
Weirdest Thing about me: I have small feet (and trust me the myth isn't true ;-) )
Here is what I am and am not looking for
- I am looking for someone who believes a relationship is 50/50
-Please want something serious. Don't think you do then when it starts going that way you get scared and run away.
-Please be over your ex. I don't have a problem if you want to work it out with your baby's father, I respect that but don't go looking for a relationship if you think you might want to try to work it out.
-If you have cheated more then once, i'm not the guy for you. I have never cheated and I never will. It's messed up when you do and just crushes someone
-If you run at the signs of any problems in a relationship. I'm not the Guy for you. Relationships take work and arguments are going to happen. I believe that you have to argue in a relationship for it to be healthy and work out. Not arguing will just build up resentment.
-I'm not a big partier, I used to be when I was younger then I had my daughter. Life is not about drinking and partying all the time so please dont be a huge partier. Going out once a week or something is ok with me but not all weekend every weekend or day.
-I would like to have more kids but have come to terms that it might not happen. Seems to be a lot of ladies that are getting their tubes tide.
-I would like someone who will call me out on something and will get mad at me and yell but still love me afterwards hence the not runaway at signs of a problem.
-I tend to go for thicker women
-Auburn or similar hair color will always catch my eye or nice legs too.
-Please don't be hood. I'm not against women that are but chances are i'm not your type. I'm not a big fan of rap, I don't like to fight unless I have too (because if it leads to fighting and I do fight I black out and it scares the crap out of me when I do so I avoid it at all cost)
-Be open, if your not interested in me after we meet tell me even if I ask. It annoys the crap out of me when I ask and you say you are then you ignore me. I'm here to meet someone I can be with so why waste your time and mine by telling me you are. I put effort into getting to know someone.
-I'm a nice guy and will do things for friends and family so dont be a user. I find out your using me i'm out for life. Don't talk don't call me.
-I will not just meet anyone without talking on the phone first. Past experience has taught me better to get to know someone by talking first because its possible you wont get along.
I am not your typical guy. I like to cuddle. I like PDA and I dont mean making out I'm talking the small stuff kissing holding hands holding each other. I'm very affectionate, saying I love you at random (when relationship is at that stage), kissing and hugging just walking by, Touching. I want the same thing to. Stuff like that makes me feel the person I'm with cares about me. I have never cheated and cheating means going to the arms of someone else not just sleeping with them. If a relationship gets rocky to the point that someone feels they need to do that I want to talk about it. I'm all about communication.
I'm been through alot and i'm starting to rediscovery myself. I guess you have to break before you can rebuild. I've loved and lost. I've been insecure but i've finally found myself again. And I'm so glad I have.
Well this is turning into a book so I will stop here. Hope to hear from you please feel free to message me if you would like to know anything else. or just want to chat. Could always use more friends. :-)