Hello! Call me Matt.

I'm looking for someone to shower with affection (not just someone to shower naked with). I want to be the one who's friends are all jealous(but happy for) because of my amazingly cute relationship (for once). *Affection not required immediately upon meeting.

I'm really geeky, I'm a bit cheesy sometimes, and I'm usually pretty comfortable to be around.

As far as geeky goes... I LARP (live action role play), I've beta-tested some MMO's, and I'm also a horror movie fanatic.

Also, I always score ENFJ (Extraversion, iNtuition, Feeling, Judgment) on the Myers-Briggs personality test
Explanation of ENFJ:
You(me in this case) are warm, empathetic, responsive, and responsible. You(again, me) are highly attuned to the emotions, needs, and motivations of others. You find potential in everyone, and want to help others fulfill their potential. You may act as a catalyst for individual and group growth. You are loyal, and are responsive to praise and criticism. You are sociable, facilitate others in a group, and provide inspiring leadership. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
Famous people with your same ENFJ personality include: Abraham Lincoln, Ronald Reagan, Dick Van Dyke, Diane Sawyer, Peyton Manning, Pete Sampras, Johnny Depp, and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

ENFJ types account for about 2–5% of the population.

I am delightfully ominous, geeky, and lovable

I have some "club" activities, but its probably not the type of club you're thinking of. I'm involved with a group called The Mind's Eye Society.

I'm a server at a brew pub. That means I have weird hours, but I always find time for the people I care about, and the people I want to meet.

I'm also dieting and trying to incorporate more healthy things into my life. I was 220lbs in January, and I've managed to make the scale say 175lbs with me on it finally!

Scaring the crap out of people.. on accident. I'm stealthier than I mean to be. Also, falling over because of absolutely nothing while on the phone.

Most of my friends comment on my smell. Positively, that is. I always smell really nice, apparently. I also have really thick, dark hair that gets the girls jealous.

Personality wise, I'm very outgoing. Its apparently very noticeable.

Sometimes I wear outrageous costumes. Like the the pic I have up with me wearing a giant top hat. I assume in those cases, the first thing people notice is probably the top hat.

books
His Dark Materials series, So You Want to Be a Wizard, The Mortal Instruments, Sweep... a lot of series.

movies
Anime, Horror, Comedy, Adventure, SciFi.
Favorites are Nausicaa, Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, and Child of Men.

I saw "Were the World Mine" December 2010 and LOVE it ^_^

music
Avril, Pink, Creed, 3DoorsDown, Red Hot Chilli Peppers... a lot. I have a MP3 full of stuff. Really, anything but Rap, Country, or Polka. I even make some exceptions in those. I'm really not a fan of Gaga either.

food
A lot of types. Usually, anything that doesn't have Green Bell Peppers. I don't like coffee either. I know, I'm weird. I'll go with someone for 'coffee' if the place also has tea or hot cocoa.

TV Shows
American Horror Story, The Big Bang Theory, Lost Girl, Doctor Who, Merlin, Sanctuary, 2 Broke Girls, The Exes, Hot in Cleveland, Buffy, Charmed, Bleach, TrueBlood, Supernatural, Scrubs, Family Guy, Simpsons, American Dad, Caprica, Legend of the Seeker... and I'm sure there are more. I don't have TV, but I watch lots of stuff online.

Games Grand Fantasia(MMO I beta-tested), Final Fantasy(all of them), and Kingdom Hearts... etc

My friends
My Laptop
Music/books
Laughter
Geekery
Social time

Settling down a little. I've had a very fast paced, extreme sort of life. Its not to say I'm exhausted with adventure, but I'd like to feel a bit more secure/safe.

Either hanging with friends or wishing I was.

Looking for someone to go on a date with/grab drinks

Sometimes working.

Sometimes I'm gaming. I play a lot of LARP games, MMO's, and video games as well.

Most of these also contain generous amounts of booze.

I'm heavier than I want to be.
Up in the about me, I've got more info, but I'm feeling better than I used to about myself.

*you are easy going (not dull though), so don't be afraid to say hey. In fact.. If you are afraid (or perhaps just shy), I actually encourage you to message me. The worst that'll happen is that I'm not interested. I'm not going to talk down to you.

*you wouldn't mind going on a date with me. If the date went well, maybe another? After a few AWESOME dates (because they will be), maybe consider something more.

I'm not really interested in Fuzzies(or Furries), drag Queens, or Bears(as far as dating goes). Unless you're ok with someone who isn't into your particular kink in those areas, I'm probably not your guy. I'm not trying to hate, just trying to save time. I don't mind a moderate amount of body hair, as long as its groomed. I do like a challenge though and sometimes things change my mind or I find the shinning exception.