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24 F Cambridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love life. I have taken my share of lumps, but I'm one of the happiest people I know. I dream big and fall hard, but I wouldn't change if you paid me. I am stubborn, yet completely open-minded. I am a shy person with a lot to say. I am sensitive to a fault and fiercely logical.

Yup. I'm your standard, living, breathing contradiction. It must sound intimidating, but it's the truth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach ESL (English as a Second Language) to adults and children, mostly one-on-one. It's awesome. I talk to people from all over the world of different ages and backgrounds about pretty much anything they want to discuss. Surprisingly [or maybe not], common topics include: evolution, Masshole drivers/how the Boston city layout is like a practical joke, racism/prejudice, socialized anything, and how to order the drink you actually want from Starbucks.

UPDATE: I also now work for a mental health organization, revamping their resource helpline. I'm basically building a [very broad] database of mental-health-related resources so that when people call us we can tell them where to go for help :)

When I'm not working, I'm probably doing some kind of art, cooking/baking, volunteering, or trying to finish my Peace Corps. application.

Eventually, I want to work with people in a multitude of ways. I want to teach, learn from, motivate, listen to, and inspire people of all sorts. Currently cooking up a few schemes on how to accomplish these verbs.

All I really want to do is help people. I want to help people live the best possible life they can given what they have to work with...and I want to help them believe that such a reality is possible. I want to talk to as many people as possible about their ideas so that I can put people with similar ideas together and get shit done.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... listening
... cooking, though I'm more of a baker
... looking at the bright side :)
... losing pens :(
... breaking technology :[
... creating [and maintaining] awkward situations
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that girl air-guitaring?, that's definitely air-bass.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Okay, let's see...

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Tao of Pooh, The Tipping Point, Dandelion Wine, The Illustrated Man, Cat's Cradle, A Man For All Seasons, A Separate Peace, The Importance of Being Earnest, Ender's Game, I Am A Strange Loop, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland

I read a lot of philosophy texts, journal articles, and non-fiction.

All right, all right...I know. A Song of Ice and Fire is an epically awesome series...I'm reading A Game of Thrones now [UPDATE: I'm like 35% through Storm of Swords...which means I might just catch up by the time Martin publishes the 7th]

What About Bob?, Fight Club, 10 Things I Hate About You, Good Will Hunting, Almost Famous, Dead Again, Everything Is Illuminated, Garden State, Ferris Beuller's Day Off, Disney/Pixar Films (Fantasia is my favorite), Benny & Joon, Labyrinth, Star Wars (IV, V, VI), LOTR trilogy

I wish I was more into movies. Honestly, I usually fall asleep when I'm sitting still for that long.

Psych, Doctor Who, Scrubs, Friends, Firefly, BBC's Sherlock, NCIS, Dexter, It's Always Sunny, Clone High, Arrested Development, How I Met Your Mother, Spaced


I once asked my metalhead roommate if liking Alice In Chains and Nirvana meant that I was into grunge...he might have told me to move to Seattle are the highlights:

Nirvana, GOLDFISH, Foo Fighters, Modest Mouse, PAUL SIMON, Elliott Smith, CHILI PEPPERS, Alice In Chains, BECK, Incubus, Radiohead, Metric, Bowie, Sufjan Stevens, Third Eye Blind, VAST, The Clash, The Shins, The Strokes, The Ramones, Weezer (fuck yeah, I still like the Blue Album), Tool, The Cranberries, JONI MITCHELL, Days of the New, BRMC, Kyuss, Clapton (in any manifestation), Röyksopp, Spoon, the Cardigans, the Flaming Lips, El Ten Eleven, Zero 7, and so much more!

I have been known to enjoy jazz, classical, metal, bad 90's, worse 80's, and most classic rock.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Laughter
2. Vision
3. Music
4. Paint
5. Trees
6. Water

In browsing profiles on this site, I've seen a few things on other people's lists I wish I had thought of myself:

1. Four distinct seasons
2. Google
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How we as individuals are so loosely connected to a shared reality... but I was a philosophy major, so it's not that weird

What to do next...I'm talking small and large scale here...this means I'm a scatterbrain with multiple to-do lists

How [and where] to build the perfect tree house

Why the word "palindrome" isn't a palindrome, why the word "lisp" has both an /l/ and an /s/ in it, and other similar conundrums (re: palindromes:

The ultimate 'two truths and a lie'...I'm a camp counselor and I always will be!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I live with most of my close friends, so I'm probably hanging out with them, catching up on some art and/or lesson plans, or curling up with my kindle and a stein full of tea...Boston's cold, yo!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I truly believe that I have a spiritual connection to Vincent Van Gogh.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You like to write letters and/or make mix CDs
-You can introduce me to new music
-You care about life and you care about people
-You always find the pool table at a bar

I'm interested in friendship as much as I am romance, possibly more.

UPDATE: Haven't been on OKC in a while. Not sure what I'm looking for right now, but don't be shy :)