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31 F Oregon City, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–48
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  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Nov 29, 2005
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Not at all
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmm, well, let me see. I'm something of an artist. Previously I did a lot of writing, but my thoughts have been too chaotic for the type of writing I did to be a useful outlet. Now...I do other things. I'm decorating my lamp, for instance, and working on making Hooker Barbie and Middle-Aged Mother Barbie. I'm also studying HTML. Sometimes I draw, and I often walk around the house singing. I just like to create. Like? Perhaps need.

I'm a philosopher. I love ideas. Sometimes, when it's two in the morning and I'm still lying awake in bed, I think I love them a bit too much. I became an existentialist before I ever read Kierkegaard or Nietzsche, and picking up their books for the first time was like coming home. I'm also an agnostic, which makes being a Christian a little interesting, because I'm that as well.

In the physical realm, I'm a climber. I adore rock climbing, and hiking and camping, too, which is useful since they can all generally be done in the same areas. I also like to ski, but I haven't been in a few years due to lack of money.

I tend to be passionate about things � beauty and pain both move me deeply. I like to observe. Sometimes I think I could ride the bus all day long, just watching people. A lot of the time I feel like a child; I still enjoy silly games, and there are moments when I'm more than a little in awe of...everything. I really enjoy people with a dark, satirical sense of humor; mine tends to be flat morbid.

I am philosophical, complex, and silly

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going back to school this quarter! I'm very excited. School makes me happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't really know what I'm really good at. I'm pretty good at a number of things. Writing, analysis, cooking...I'm fairly creative no matter what situation I'm in. I'm good at being me, which is too complex to explain fully.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. Almost always.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Oh, God, what a question! Um, let me go peruse my bookshelf and I'll send you a twenty-page Word document...Well, um, I adore C.S. Lewis. Brilliant, funny, insightful...Tolkien would be next. The Hobbit was the first non-picture book my mother ever read to me, and it sort of overshadowed my childhood, adding depth to everything I saw and thought. Then there's Madeleine L'Engle, Jaqueline Carey, Peter Beagle, Dostoyevsky, Nietzsche, Sartre...yes, those are authors, but listing their books would take too long.

Movies: Well, I really love Amelie because it's clever, and The Last Samurai, because it was well executed, and Big Fish because...well, it's Tim Burton -- he's generally playfully ironic. The Waking Life was awesome.

Music: My favorite band is a little Aussie folk-pop group called Sodastream. Sad, gorgeous. Just now I'm adoring the band Sigur Ros that my friend Daniel introduced me to. I really like indie music...well, really anything but most rap/hip hop. Some of that I find decent, but not a lot.

Food: Pretty much anything that doesn't incorporate a lot of dairy and can be easily ordered without meat. Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Mediteranean...just to name a few.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, my books,, I think, and philosophy. Perhaps God. But I wouldn't have much integrity if I thought my life would change drastically if it could be proved he didn't exist. I want what I want because I want it, not because anyone told me to. I don't want to do without Shak, my sweet Australian boy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. No, seriously. I'm massively indecisive, to the point where it often interferes with everyday life. I'm way too good at seeing all sides of an issue, leaving me frozen with indecision. I've never understood how listing pros and cons can help people make decisions. I just keep thinking of more and more...until eventually the time for decision has passed or I have exactly equally weighted reasons for both. Oh, and philosophy. The point of life. Ethics. Whether ethics exist. Whether objective ethics exist. Words and their meanings (or lack thereof). And what other people think about all those things. Or if they think about them at all...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home, reading or writing. Sometimes hanging out with friends at a coffee shop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was sexually abused by my father, and later in an emotionally abusive relationship with my first boyfriend. I like to admit these things up front since they've done a lot to influence who I am and what I'm afraid of. I'm also currently dealing with depression and anxiety attacks. Hence why I haven't been in school.
You should message me if
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You want to. And, ha, I've blocked woos. I hate woos. If you're going to send me a woo you probably don't actually care enough to have a conversation with me. Or you're an introvert. In which case I understand but still would prefer a real conversation starter, as I too am an introvert.