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53 M Pilot Mountain, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:11am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
A little about me ...
I want to put a smile on your face. Laughter is an instant vacation so I cut up and joke around quite often. I have a serious side as well.
I tend to look at the bright side of things after all, isn't the glass is always half full?
I try to keep an open mind. This does not mean I agree that anything goes.
I have many, many interests. I list a few. I have more and I am open to and want to try new things with you.
I especially enjoy boating and the lake. I want to live there one day.
I want to play golf more. (I'm not very good) I need a partner! Do you play?
I have a skillet and not afraid to use it. LOL Yes. I can and actually like to cook.
I have an eclectic musical taste (but no rap for me). There are way too many songs and artists to list but I have to mention Norah Jones.
I do not smoke and it really is deal breaker for me. No offense...not's just me. .
I have been blessed so far with good health and can keep up with the best of them.
I don't hunt, I own no camouflage or 4 wheeler.(No offense to those who do)
I can build or fix just about anything around the house. You might say I'm pretty handy.
I'm respectful and I exercise manners. I try to use proper grammar most of the time and I know the difference between "their", "there", and "they're".
I guess I'm a little old-fashioned. You know...door opener.
I have a few harmless quirks. I hope you have a few of your own.
We all tend to become a little more "set in our ways" as we get older but I am not completely stuck on too many of those kinds of things. I have learned not to sweat the small things. I'm far from perfect and I don't expect you to be perfect either. I promise not to try to change you.
I'm a one woman man. Not a player at all. I'm not on this site to play games or find hook ups.

What am I looking for ...
Someone fairly close by. (Within about an hour or so?) I want to spend time with someone more than once or twice a week.
Someone who wants to be paid attention to, listened to, admired and respected. (I know. I know. That's what they all say. But I truly mean it.)
Someone who wants to do lots of things together, whatever it is, and someone who doesn't mind a little pampering.

Go ahead and send me a "Hi". I might even tell you what Iajoatbmon means. LOL

Thanks for reading and good luck with your search.
What I’m doing with my life
Just trying to enjoy it. It doesn't take a lot to make me happy. I want to enjoy whatever it is I am doing. Translation: I want to enjoy it with someone.
I’m really good at
I am really good at not bragging about what I am really good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my hair! LOL But that's okay. Then, maybe my eyes, my sense of humor?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read a lot. The last one was about leadership. I know I know. Borng. LOL
Movie: Comedies. Suspense Thrillers.
Show: Modern Marvels It's a show about how things are made. Anything educational.
Music: Tough one. I'm not a huge country fan. Absolutely no rap!! Other than that, it really depends on my mood. Just about anything live is good. I like a lot of 60's and 70's and lots and lots of other. Did I mention Norah Jones?
Food: Probably Italian
The six things I could never do without
Sense of humor/laughter
Art. From God and man made too
Iphone LOL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My children.
Projects for the home.
And how wonderful it would be to get off dating sites. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends. Winding down from the work week. Maybe doing something with my children, maybe just "chillaxing". (Got that from my teenagers).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Seems to be an oxymoron kind of question but here goes...
I'm jealous of couples who hold hands in public.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 43–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to be with someone who wants to pay a lot of attention to you. Not in an overbearing way. I'm a little old-fashioned but in today's time I don't see anything wrong with a lady contacting a gentleman via online dating.