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36 M Chicago, IL

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
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Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
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My self-summary
Thank you for checking me out. My self-summation/ explanation I have been living in Milwaukee since December of 2012 acting as my dad's caretaker, but I "live" in a condo in Chicago. My dad was really ill for all of 2012 and passed away recently. I am in Milwaukee winding up his affairs and cleaning out his house. It is going to take sometime. I go back and forth between Milwaukee and Chicago. These days I'm not sure which place feels more like home.
I am a dynamic person with a sense of humor about life. I am very observant and empathic. I like good food and wine. I buy vinyl records when I really like the MP3. I always have more then 1 book going at a time. I try to make it to the gym regularly. I consider myself to be a progressive moderate; I really don’t understand what has happened to Wisconsin politics since I’ve been gone. Sometimes I'm too nice and other times I'm brisk boarding on abrasive. Most of the time I'm looking for puns and malapropisms.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an attorney, I have a JD/MBA.
This is my second career. I was a chef for about 6 years. I like to cook but at a certain point I realized how hard it is to have a family as a chef. I salute anyone that is able to make a go of it, but I made the right choice for me. (But that should explain why I like to cook and why a chef's knife in mentioned in my things I can't do without.)) I'm looking to start my career. But that being said I am financially stable. I am on a board to promote neurological medical research.
I’m really good at
I am a good cook. I've mentioned it a couple times so I'm not going to expand. I'm good with people. I'm good with planning. I like to find interesting things to do. I'm a good listener that probably has a good book recommendation or some new music.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m a big broad shouldered guy. Homeless guys are always like, “Hey, big guy” and I’m like “Me?”.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Proportionally I read about 90% non-fiction and 10% fiction. When I get a book, I consume it. I thought getting the Kindle App on my Ipad would reduce the amount of books but now I have a backlog on my Ipad to match the backlog on my floor.

Music. I listen to vinyl and podcasts. If I had to describe my most recent music trends it would be digging up influential but overlooked musicians prior to 1975. I probably need help updating. What I am most excited about is that D'Angelo is coming back, I can NOT wait for that album!

I go to farmer's markets on a regular basis. But I should say my day to day meals vary in complexity from heating up a bag of food from Trader Joes to homemade gnocchi. Get on my good side and ask what I made for dinner. I don't drink soda and I try to be pretty good about the junk food. I sincerely don't remember the last time I ate something from McDonald's. I do eat meat, but vegetarians don't give up hope on me.
The six things I could never do without
There is no order here:
1-Single Malt Scotch
3-I’m starting to feel like that with my Mac products which I hate myself for.
4-Chef's Knife, (apparently this raises some red flags for some of you. It isn’t like I sleep with a knife under my pillow. I just use it every day.)
5-Peanut Butter
(7-My record player)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can be more present in my life.
What does this world want from me?
Why women on OKC highlight sarcasm as a strength? Isn't it a defense mechanism?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Personally, if I had to take someone to a Chicago place to share something about me, it would probably be the Shedd. I always walk away in awe of the diversity of life on this planet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-->I'd prefer to meet sooner then later. I understand that could come off as forward but we are all dynamic people working off of static profiles so meeting quickly resolves a lot of questions.