So we are going to start out with a little about me then go into what I'm looking for
As far as my self-worth goes, it is quite high. I am going to be one of the most intelligent people you will ever meet, but that doesn't define my life. I'm a capable athlete, writer, and gamer. (I'm an ENTP in the purest sense). Sounds arrogant, I know... If you want to know my credentials just ask. Honestly, that's the last you'll hear about any of that, I actually tend to forget I've done those things because my future plans are so much greater.
I've got an electrical engineering degree with a focus in robotics which I plan on using once I get out of the army and I am about to buy my first house and I already have saved up money and have investments, so if financial reliability and all round mature badassness is your thing, I've got that in spades.
I just got back from a year in Korea that resulted in the death off most of my friendships, so I'm looking for something to do on the weekends, whether that's hanging out, hooking up, or dating. I'd prefer to find a longer term girlfriend but it takes a while for me to feel comfortable going steady, less of a commitment issue, more of "been engaged and when the ring was on the finger I saw some true colors" issue.
As far as dating goes I'm really attracted to intelligent women that can be serious at times and playfully cute at others, a woman with goals and the drive to pursue them, and a woman that knows what she wants. As far as physical features I'd say eyes, but not color, more like the ability to be expressive with them, and I do appreciate a healthy body. Being a gamer or at least someone who wouldn't mind downing a bottle of wine with me as I play would be a bonus.