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28 Emeryville, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:13am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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"Come to my quietness
I shall cover you with it, like
a white sheet that has blown all day in
the sun, like a mountain lake
filled with spring, it shall slip over you..."

-Diane di Prima

I grew up in four continents. The Marines brought me to California, and naïve ambition brought me to the Bay. Isn't this place funny? It's like the of human beings. This is my product description. Did I do a good job? There used to be an 'awards' feature which was basically a system for posting reviews on profiles, but everyone spammed them out to garner favor, and it was removed. Now we just rate each other with small yellow stars. This whole experience is kind of a beautiful social commentary if you let it be. Most things are beautiful if you let them be.

I like the Bay Area. It's full of smart and interesting people. I try to be kind, especially when it's hard, which I think is more important than being smart or interesting. If you are all three then you should message me.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Vonnegut, Palahniuk, and Bukowski, of course! Just kidding. Crystal Castles, Modest Mouse, Joanna Newsom, Röyksopp, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Fountain, Star Wars (IV-VI), and yes, I like books too. They smell good. Lately I've been alternating between Star Wars novels and books about zen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This question is fantastic. I love arbitrary hypothetical questions. Let me ask you this: What if we were all made of cheese? What then.

A: Then we would never be able to do without Culture.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How damn fucking beautiful it all is, and how impermanent, rushing past and oh god I can't cheapen it with words, in awe, fuck, I can only be silent and empty and still.
You should message me if
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If you are a cat who has learned how to use the internet. If you're a solitary creature yet also need a healthy amount of attention and support. If you're a cellist or a harpist. If you want a big brother.

Recognize the humor in everyday things. Be playful. Know that silence isn't awkward and that awkwardness is fun. Know that communication and listening are the cornerstones of a healthy relationship, and be willing to talk about problems until they're resolved - even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard!

There are good and selfless and wonderful things in me, and I'd like to be with someone who can see and value them without effort.

Occasionally I’ll meet someone and touching them feels like electricity and when they step away it feels like an ethereal rubber band has just become more taut, and we are pulled together, and they look into my eyes and look at me and they are helpless, because they see something there that frightens and excites them. That is what I want.

If you're different from the rest.