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27 • Emeryville, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:33pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and has cats
I shall cover you with it, like
a white sheet that has blown all day in
the sun, like a mountain lake
filled with spring, it shall slip over you...
-Diane di Prima
I've spent my life traveling the world, looking for things and leaving things behind. I'm waiting, now, unhurriedly, for the right sort of something simple. For those who teeter, longingly, on the precipice of letting go: a safehouse of vulnerability. I will bring you back to stillness, read to you, spoil you with my ways. You know who you are, little one, and if all this sounds right.
On hiatus from the intense BDSM. Most things, really, have fallen away. I am just a loving dominant.
Alternately, if you are a cat who has learned how to use the internet. We can be friends. If you're a cellist or a harpist. If you're fascinated by life. If you can just be. Here. Now. I can show you how. Be quiet with me.
Know that silence isn't awkward and that awkwardness is fun. Know that communication and listening are the cornerstones of a healthy relationship, and be willing to talk about problems until they're resolved - even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard!
If you're different from the rest.
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