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StoriesWithCats

27 Emeryville, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:33pm
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Come to my quietness
I shall cover you with it, like
a white sheet that has blown all day in
the sun, like a mountain lake
filled with spring, it shall slip over you...

-Diane di Prima

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I've spent my life traveling the world, looking for things and leaving things behind. I'm waiting, now, unhurriedly, for the right sort of something simple. For those who teeter, longingly, on the precipice of letting go: a safehouse of vulnerability. I will bring you back to stillness, read to you, spoil you with my ways. You know who you are, little one, and if all this sounds right.

This. (http://imgur.com/a/IVlo8)

On hiatus from the intense BDSM. Most things, really, have fallen away. I am just a loving dominant.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Click these! Crystal Castles, Modest Mouse, Joanna Newsom, Röyksopp. The Royal Tenenbaums, The Fountain, Star Wars (IV-VI). I like books, too. They smell good. Lately I've been reading a lot of Timothy Zahn.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Occasionally I’ll meet someone and touching them feels like electricity and when they step away it feels like an ethereal rubber band has just become more taught, and we are pulled together, and they look into my eyes and look at me and they see something there that both frightens and excites them. Those are the people I date.

Alternately, if you are a cat who has learned how to use the internet. We can be friends. If you're a cellist or a harpist. If you're fascinated by life. If you can just be. Here. Now. I can show you how. Be quiet with me.

Know that silence isn't awkward and that awkwardness is fun. Know that communication and listening are the cornerstones of a healthy relationship, and be willing to talk about problems until they're resolved - even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard!

If you're different from the rest.