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42 Groton, CT Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19, 2013
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm lively and witty, a bit of a social butterfly. I make people laugh, and I can be charming. I'm an idealist. I play well with others and what you see is what you get. I'm a pet magnet. I try to keep an open mind, but I'm intransigent when it comes to my values. I am active and try to stay fit. I love to do anything outdoors, skiing, climbing, kayaking, camping... Of late, I've been playing golf... and I'm surprised at how much I enjoy it, 'cause I never pinned myself as the type.
What I’m doing with my life
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Saving the world one ocean chemical profile at the time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, skiing, purchasing sexy shoes that I rarely find an occasion to wear, laughing, conjugating, mixing party drinks, talking nerdy, making people feel at ease, science.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A warm smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Name of the Rose, Umberto Eco, anything by Steinbeck, Dickens, The Shipping News
The Big Lebowski, Blade Runner
The Wire
Lucinda Williams
The NY Times
NPR (Fresh Air, especially)
The Daily Show
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, my laptop, outdoor activities, good friends, fruits and vegetables, my bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
boyz, what to eat for dinner, where I'd like to travel to, that I should not drink so much coffee at work because I can't fall asleep at night, social justice, how history repeats itself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy hour drinks, dinner with friends, drinks and chit chat on the porch...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My dog snores...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are curious, generous, kind, a good conversationalist. You think dogs are awesome. You can laugh at yourself. You think we might have that intangible connection called chemistry...