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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:22pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

My face is finished, my body's gone.
And I can't help but think standin' up here
in all this applause and gazin' down
at all the young and the beautiful.
With their questioning eyes.
That I must above all things love myself.

ALSO: Poly, Genuinely trying to make the world a better place via better communication. Will interesting and good art and music and language help? I don't know, but I hope so, and I'm not hurting anyone

And I guess this is as good as any place for me to share that I no longer drink socially. What I mean is that while I will certainly make time to get completely fucked, the payoff and price ratio of a light buzz no longer seems worth it. So lets grab coffee together! Or get completely smashed! Or lets not drink anything together, because who needs that anyway. Whatever.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I do a lot of catalog photography. I do A LOT of catalog photography.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drinking coffee, making coffee, Brazillian JiuJitsu, doing dishes, Small group talking.

I really know my way around a Wacom tablet and Photoshop.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My aura, generous personality or wave of intensely titillating pheromones.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tom Waits, Patti Smith, Radiohead, Nick Cave, Gogol Bordello, Wu-Tang Clan

In terms of books, I love the great American assholes- Hemingway, Bukowski, Kerouac, maybe a couple others.

Nabokav, Joyce Carole Oates, more into Tolstoy than Dostoevsky, I've read all of Murakami, and UPDATE: Just finished Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins: brb, practicing immortality, need company.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Important life items being:

Pesto and cheese
Warmth, from people.
Extremely sharp set of kitchen knives (for kitchen things)
Cast iron pans
Still image recording device(s).
Film for said still image recording device(s).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Light, aesthetics, and what makes good art.

Does this require more butter and garlic?
This probably requires more butter and garlic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've been staying in a lot lately, but that could be because of the harsh winter. I know I'm much more inclined to go to gallery openings and weird mixed media performance events when it doesn't involved bundling up and the coat check.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
PETA still sends me spam from that one time I may have clicked on an advert about mistreated dogs. I mean, I fucking love dogs but yo, quit that shit, yo.
You should message me if
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You feel generally good about non exclusivity.

If you have a big chip on your shoulder for a lot of social and societal norms.