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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:54am
Straight, Heteroflexible
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm looking for healthy non monogamous relationships and friends to activity with. Drinking, sporting, loving, and park and art and media consumption / creative friends/lovers sought and welcomed!

I'm allergic to grass and lobster. When I sit on grass, I itch. When I eat lobster, my mouth goes a bit numb. But it doesn't stop me from rolling around in grass and eating the hell out of lobster.

LSD and Brazillian Jiujitsu changed my life, but seperately.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I photograph people and things

Tryna find the right ratio of profundity to banality to live by. I like I immortal poets and artists, but also sometimes I want to sit around and play video games while eating icecream.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drinking coffee, making coffee,
getting better at scheduling and not double and triple booking my face off.

I really know my way around a Wacom tablet and Photoshop.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My aura, generous personality or wave of intensely titillating pheromones.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All Along the Watchtower- Jimi Hendrix
Summertime- Janis Joplin
No Pussy Blues- Nick Cave/Grinderman
American Wedding- Gogol Bordello
Thunder Road- The Boss
Because the Night- Patti Smith
In an Aeroplane Over the Sea- Neutral Milk Hotel
Parades Go By- The Magnetic Fields

The Windup Bird Chronicle
On the Road
The Flowers of Evil
East of Eden

The Act of Killing
Cool Hand Luke
The Dreamers

Marina Abramovic
Pina Bausch
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pesto and cheese.
Warmth, from people.
Well loved and cared for kitchen ware.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I can never decide between irreverence and earnesty. So nowadays I'm mostly earnest with bouts of irreverence.

Light, aesthetics, is this good art?

Does this require more butter and garlic?
This probably requires more butter and garlic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rest up for weekend shoot
Fighting the good fight.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You know that one vignette in American gods where this one guy is fucking some goddess or whatever and it's great and he's like oh god my bottom half is melting(in a good we melt together way) and then he notices that his ENTIRE LOWER HALF is getting sucked up into her vagina but it's okay because it's feels great and then soon after he's completely consumed and she curls up and takes a after devouring a human sex nap?

Yeah that was kind of hot for me.
(Not something that I would actually like to try though FYI)

I'm afraid of dying.
You should message me if
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You feel generally good about non exclusivity.

You want to talk about the chip on your shoulder for society.

You want to get some museum / gallery action on.