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26 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:50am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Keeping it playful, hustling.

Annnnd to put it out there sooner than later: I'm in a
non-monogamous relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I photograph people and clothes and people wearing clothes. And things. Do you have a thing? Want it photographed? Give it here.

Learning to say yes to things that probably won't kill or permanently damage me.

Just a ratchet motherfucker lookin for my ratchet bitch.
I’m really good at
Drinking coffee, making coffee, Brazillian JiuJitsu, doing dishes, talking.

I really know my way around a Wacom tablet and Photoshop.

Also, I can toss a frisbee pretty well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Windup Bird Chronicle, On the Road, Popeyes fried chicken, Bukowski, Hemingway, PATTI SMITH, Steinbeck, Radiohead, Asaf Avidan, great american novels. Tom Waits. Nick Cave.
The six things I could never do without
Important life items being:

Pesto and cheese
Warmth, from people.
Extremely sharp set of kitchen knives (for kitchen things)
Cast iron pans
Still image recording device(s).
Film for said still image recording device(s).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Light, aesthetics, and if this is good art.

Does this require more butter and garlic?
This probably requires more butter and garlic.

On a typical Friday night I am
Dance parties.

Party parties.

Art opening parties.

Sometimes I'm found at the bar with my super close super important group of friends.

But most of the time: Staying in, cooking, movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
PETA still sends me spam from that one time I may have clicked on an advert about mistreated dogs. I mean, I fucking love dogs but yo, quit that shit, PETA.

I'm extremely good at driving. Or I think I would be, once I've had more practice.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You're cool with this non monogamy stuff. (That would be rad)

-I would absolutely appreciate any easy Crockpot recipes you may have.

-You're into the jiu jitsu or some other kind of grappling

-If you're a writer of contemporary magical realism

-If you like art and new experiences and shit.

-if you want to teach me how to drive. (And once you do go on long drives with me)