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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:13pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden where all the flowers are dead.
-Oscar Wilde

Looking for friends and lovers, friends who become lovers and lovers who can become friends. Companionship in the little hours, and people who drive me to distraction and back, and helps me find the little important things in life that I sometimes miss. Seeking kindhearted compatriots who know the value of a simple kindness, and with lives full enough that taking joy in the little places we fit together is enough.

I have a partner. She is amazing, wonderful and fantastic. If we get along well enough, I would love to have you meet her.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading. Studying. Taking circus classes. After some years working in construction and solar electric, I decided to go back to college to improve my life and get one of those degrees everyone talks about. Back from a year studying abroad in London, I'm going into my final year at school in Economics, after which I intend to get a non-evil job in finance, and if those don’t exist, I’ll create one.
I adore dance and theater, and cooking is my stress relief and passion. I mainly date queers - but I believe that that can include people who are almost straight, but have queer tendencies and temperament.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking - I believe in good housekeeping and being a good host.
Giving massages and back rubs. Okay, that sounds skeezy, so let me explain - I’ve had professional training and almost chose massage as a career, but now I’m just happy to have the skillset so I can help my friends unwind.
Taking care of my friends and lovers.
Getting the party started.
I’m also told I’m pretty damn good at - well, you’ll have to buy me a drink first.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I take pride in my appearance and have a definite sense of style, so sometimes it’s the hair or the waistcoat. Sometimes its the seersucker suit, sometimes its that skirt that everyone mistakes for a kilt. And shoes. I REALLY love shoes.
My left eyebrow has a life of its own. Seriously, sometimes it goes to parties without me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Currently reading Piketty's Capital. Fairly dry stuff, but offers a pretty unique perspective on the current financial situation. Grew up loving scifi and fantasy, but haven't had much time to read it lately. Mostly focusing on texts that will help me find careers and develop myself. Looking forward to getting back to more fun reading after this year.

Movies: I love eye candy. Superhero and scifi flicks are some of my favourites, but I also really adore strange art films and conceptual pieces. Can't watch movies or shows where people are horrible or embarrassing to each other. Makes my skin crawl. Romcoms, the office, Always sunny and so forth are right out. A friend of mine coined a term "Sympathetic Embarrassment". You know those scenes where you know the character is about to do something really stupid that they should avoid, but they have to do it anyway to drive the drama and storyline? Yeah. That shit makes my gut run out of the room with its twisting, pulling me along with it.

Music: A little bit of everything. Recently listening to a lot of ambient and electronica, but I love Jazz, world, some rap and country, classical and many others. Its about the quality and passion in the work.

Food: I'll try anything. I love to cook, I've been working on my indian cuisine lately, and one of the many things I love about Portland is how many new and interesting things there are to try. Let me know if there is something special you love!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My wardrobe
Hair pomade
Access to a kitchen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it means, in this mean and messed-up world, to be a good man, and a good human being. How to better myself and support those I care about in doing the same. Macroeconomics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out in the big communal houseshare I live in, perhaps having an impromptu dance party, cooking a roast dinner for ten people, or out adventuring in glitter eye-makeup.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don’t have a lot of secrets. I go in for honesty and ethics in and out of the bedroom. I have a wonderful primary partner. That doesn’t mean I don’t have room in my life for other close friends and lovers. If it didn't, I wouldn't be on here.
You should message me if
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You’re doing your best to be a decent human.
You’re looking for pleasure and adventure.
You’re kind and creative and passionate.
You’re a dancer in need of a partner. Seriously. You want to do a jazz class? Let's go.