Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden
where all the flowers are dead.
Looking for friends and lovers, friends who become lovers and
lovers who can become friends. Companionship in the little hours,
and people who drive me to distraction and back, and helps me find
the little important things in life that I sometimes miss. Seeking
kindhearted compatriots who know the value of a simple kindness,
and with lives full enough that taking joy in the little places we
fit together is enough.
I have a partner. She is amazing, wonderful and fantastic. If we
get along well enough, I would love to have you meet her.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading. Studying. Taking circus classes. After some years working
in construction and solar electric, I decided to go back to college
to improve my life and get one of those degrees everyone talks
about. Back from a year studying abroad in London, I'm going into
my final year at school in Economics, after which I intend to get a
non-evil job in finance, and if those don’t exist, I’ll create
I adore dance and theater, and cooking is my stress relief and
passion. I mainly date queers - but I believe that that can include
people who are almost straight, but have queer tendencies and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking - I believe in good housekeeping and being a good
Giving massages and back rubs. Okay, that sounds skeezy, so let me
explain - I’ve had professional training and almost chose massage
as a career, but now I’m just happy to have the skillset so I can
help my friends unwind.
Taking care of my friends and lovers.
Getting the party started.
I’m also told I’m pretty damn good at - well, you’ll have to buy me
a drink first.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I take pride in my appearance and have a definite sense of style,
so sometimes it’s the hair or the waistcoat. Sometimes its the
seersucker suit, sometimes its that skirt that everyone mistakes
for a kilt. And shoes. I REALLY love shoes.
My left eyebrow has a life of its own. Seriously, sometimes it goes
to parties without me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Currently reading Piketty's Capital. Fairly dry stuff, but
offers a pretty unique perspective on the current financial
situation. Grew up loving scifi and fantasy, but haven't had much
time to read it lately. Mostly focusing on texts that will help me
find careers and develop myself. Looking forward to getting back to
more fun reading after this year.
Movies: I love eye candy. Superhero and scifi flicks are some of my
favourites, but I also really adore strange art films and
conceptual pieces. Can't watch movies or shows where people are
horrible or embarrassing to each other. Makes my skin crawl.
Romcoms, the office, Always sunny and so forth are right out. A
friend of mine coined a term "Sympathetic Embarrassment". You know
those scenes where you know the character is about to do something
really stupid that they should avoid, but they have to do it anyway
to drive the drama and storyline? Yeah. That shit makes my gut run
out of the room with its twisting, pulling me along with it.
Music: A little bit of everything. Recently listening to a lot of
ambient and electronica, but I love Jazz, world, some rap and
country, classical and many others. Its about the quality and
passion in the work.
Food: I'll try anything. I love to cook, I've been working on my
indian cuisine lately, and one of the many things I love about
Portland is how many new and interesting things there are to try.
Let me know if there is something special you love!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Access to a kitchen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it means, in this mean and messed-up world, to be a good man,
and a good human being. How to better myself and support those I
care about in doing the same. Macroeconomics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out in the big communal houseshare I live in, perhaps
having an impromptu dance party, cooking a roast dinner for ten
people, or out adventuring in glitter eye-makeup.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don’t have a lot of secrets. I go in for honesty and ethics in
and out of the bedroom. I have a wonderful primary partner. That
doesn’t mean I don’t have room in my life for other close friends
and lovers. If it didn't, I wouldn't be on here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You’re doing your best to be a decent human.
You’re looking for pleasure and adventure.
You’re kind and creative and passionate.
You’re a dancer in need of a partner. Seriously. You want to do a
jazz class? Let's go.
Who are you looking for?
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