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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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By nature, I am both Curious, and Adventurous -- I love exploring, deepening, and discovering new things.

I love to learn and grow; and I'm a very passionate guy . . . .about a great many things, and every thing I do.

Being in nature brings my spirit alive. This is where I feel most balanced, secure, comfortable.

I'm an interesting mix of intellect and adventure, playfulness and contemplative, epathetic and witty. Above all, I prefer deep connection and fun-loving playfulness.

I'm grounded, and enjoy being around what I call, 'earthy' people. Calm. Quiet. Still. Fun-loving. Flexible. Open. Curious. Compassionate. Warm.

As for activity, I greatly enjoy mt. biking and mt. climbing, cycling, hiking, snowshoeing, snow camping, kayaking, soccer, and also working out in the gym! I'd love to have a partner who can enjoy these outdoor activities with me.

On the more domestic side, I very much enjoy cooking, gardening, and cuddling with my woman while watching a movie.

Relationally, I'm very much into self-other awareness, empathy, reciprocity, getting to know and understand each other, building intimacy, and depth of connection. My two primary love languages are: Quality Time, and Physical Touch, and I'm very affectionate, romantic, and know what chivalry is.

I’d really like to find a partner who enjoys being active, and athletic, exploring, cuddling/down time together, and enjoys sharing/experiencing social activities together, while also sharing an agreed upon amount of time apart for our own growth.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work f/t as a marriage and family therapist, and p/t at Saint Mary's College, as faculty for the graduate counseling program.
I consider my 'work' as ministering into others lives, through expressing my God-given gifts (Wisdom, Mercy, Teaching), and living out who I was created to be. I'm passionate about the people I work with, and what I do, and I get a Lot of energy and Joy from what I do!
I’m really good at
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Loving Deeply! Kissing. Connecting. Being both Playful and Passionate. Sharing my thoughts, dreams, feelings, and seeking to understand yours. Cooking. Gardening. Anything outdoors, or athletic. Empathy. Having fun/being playful. Adventure. Being Curious.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and enthusiasm for life, playfulness, and desire to go deep with people, and truly connect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Plenty of each! I have many varied tastes and enjoy all of the above.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A great many things, and sometimes have to remind myself to shut off the brain, and simply enjoy the moment . . . . .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical
You should message me if
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You've read my profile and it resonates; and you've seen my pics and like what you see.