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43 M Concord, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am a SF east bay native, and I love all this area has to offer! There are so many wonderful places to explore, for eating, hiking, shops, biking, culture, and more!
By nature, I am Very adventurous, and enjoy pushing myself -- whether it's intellectually, spiritually, physically, or geographically, I am curious, and love exploring.
As often as I can, I Love getting out on a bike and being outside, in nature. Riding, for me, is a completely focused/unfocused time -- sometimes, I'm 100% focused on the trail, the road, my pedal rhythm, my body, heart rate, things going on in life, prayer, etc, and other times, I'm completely void of thought and 100% in the moment. I love both! And it’s a great way to get in some good, solid, social time as well.
I greatly enjoy mt. climbing, snowshoeing, snow camping, kayaking, and soccer. I love to hike, and also working out in the gym! And doing any and all these activities, with my partner/significant other, is Wonderful!
On the more domestic side, I very much enjoy cooking, gardening, and cuddling with my woman while watching a movie.
Relationally, I'm very much into self-other awareness, empathy, reciprocity, getting to know and understand each other, building intimacy, and depth of connection. My two primary love languages are: Quality Time, and Physical Touch.
I’d really like to find a partner who enjoys being active, and athletic, exploring, cuddling/down time together, and enjoys sharing/experiencing social activities together, while also sharing an agreed upon amount of time apart for our own growth.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work f/t as a marriage and family therapist, and p/t at Saint Mary's College, as faculty for the graduate counseling program.
I consider my 'work' as ministering into others lives, through expressing my God-given gifts, and living out who I was created to be. I'm passionate about the people I work with, and what I do, and I get a Lot of energy from what I do!
I’m really good at
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Cooking. Gardening. anything outdoors, or athletic. Empathy. Having fun/being playful. Adventure. Being Curious.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and enthusiasm for life, playfulness, and desire to go deep with people, and truly connect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Plenty of each! I have many varied tastes and enjoy all of the above.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A great many things, and sometimes have to remind myself to shut off the brain, and simply enjoy the moment . . . . .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical
You should message me if
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