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I am tricksy, monkeyful, and a Bukowski valentine

Ibineth

29 / f / straight / Seeing Someone

Austin, Texas, United States

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Ethnicity Undeclared

Height 5' 2" (1.57m).

Looking For New friends, Activity partners

Smokes No

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs Sometimes

Religion Buddhism but not too serious about it

Sign Gemini and it's fun to think about

Education Working on college/university

Job Artistic / Musical / Writer

Income N/A

Kids Has 1 child

Pets Owns dogs and Owns cats

Languages English (Fluently), Vietnamese, Spanish

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My self-summary

Yeah, yeah, we're all modest yet unique snowflakes who can't be reduced to a few sentences.

I am mean, lazy, insecure, judgmental, hypocritical and inconsistent, but I try not to be. I love people, but sometimes it's hard to be loving. I have an embarrassing obsession with onomastics which I hide behind a more general and acceptable interest in linguistics. I'm more concerned with where we're going than where we've been. I think adequate food and health care are human rights. I feel guilty and irresponsible for having helped bring a new being into existence, but also excited at her potential. I use the word "but" a lot, probably because I find it difficult to commit to something at the expense of all other options. I'm ok with that.

What I'm doing with my life

Stuff. I have finally figured out that doing stuff is more fulfilling than not doing stuff.

More specifically, I make my living as a scavenger and am finally indulging my desire to pursue hard science academically after years of selling myself short due to an imagined lack of math ability. I also make things, from clothes to cookies to robots. Ok, not robots. Yet.

I'm really good at

Making people cry, though I'm working on achieving that more through the "tears of happiness" route these days. It's more challenging than my old method of sensing a person's deepest insecurities and tearing them apart. I do still slip up sometimes, due to fear or laziness.

I'm also pretty good at selling comic books, though I no longer do so professionally.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I've decided this question is lame. People like or dislike the same things for different reasons. I like things that assault my senses in some way, so there's a touch of the surreal to most things I enjoy, including food. We can talk about what we like and why, but I'll be happier to discuss books or movies/television than music. Musical preference is almost like religion, and we're not likely to convert each other.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The revolution. Also, my nipples.

On a typical Friday night I am

That would be telling.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

I once aspired to be a tragic Southern literary figure. Thus far, I'm still not quite an alcoholic lesbian and I lack a fatal chronic disease or any writing talent whatsoever, so that's not working out, but I still love Flannery O'Connor, Carson McCullers, etc.

You should message me if

You are Spider Jerusalem. If you're not, use your own best judgment. I will not cyber with you and I do not have a cam. Furthermore, just because we are both deemed kinky doesn't mean we are compatible. I have to actually like you to fuck you, and if you don't share that philosophy it's probably not going to happen.

Also, I'd be interested to hear from someone who doesn't think of himself as a writer. Not that I don't want to hear from writers, it would just be refreshing to find someone who doesn't identify as a writer even though he's never published anything and rarely manages so much as a blog post. I just realized I want to hear from Spider Jerusalem, but not from writers. Please refer to my admission of inconsistency in paragraph 2.

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