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BartlettInFC

47 San Mateo, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:07pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have a small patch of gray hair over the right side of my forehead, kinda the reverse image of what Jay Leno used to have. I get tons of compliments on it... some people even ask if I do it on purpose. To be honest, I never really took to it and have even colored it on a few occasions, but if people say it looks good, who am I to question?

I moved back here not long ago after 17 years working in L.A. and I’m so glad to be back where I grew up. I'm witty, easy-going and a lot of fun to be with... or so they tell me.

I lead a laid-back existence. Live on my own, just me and my cat. No children, no drugs, no weirdness, no extreme rock climbing or training for triathlons on weekends, no dungeons with whips or chains, no lingering ex's and no crazy family drama or train wreck friends. That's how I like it. I keep my fridge stocked with drinks and good food so I can enjoy relaxing, watching movies, listening to music, home projects and working on whatever whenever. Simple.

I love baseball and am still riding my Giants World Series high! I'm tossing around the idea of a multi-city ballpark tour this summer. I enjoy live music in small places, barbecued hamburgers and love trying new restaurants. Why are there no good delis up here?! Cooking can be interesting - I'm no gourmet but I can make just about anything I want... or at least give it an honest shot.

I'd like to use my camping gear again. Vegas is always a fun getaway and I'm comped anytime at the Las Vegas Hilton or whatever they're calling it these days. I've always had a thing for staying in hotels. I think it's because they make the bed for me. If I had to choose between an all-inclusive beach resort or backpacking through Europe, hands down I'm heading to the beach.

I'm a major nightowl -- I'm always up too late for my own good though my favorite part of the day is crawling into my comfy bed at the end of it. If the knowledge is trivial and useless I probably know it but am definitely capable of having an intelligent conversation. I have a lot of good friends in L.A. and I try to get down there often.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
One of my life's ambitions is to watch every movie on AFI’s Top 100 of All Time list. I still have a ways to go.

I've already had my dream job so I’m thinking on what to do next, though I will never give up getting back to it someday. A volunteer job I was doing recently turned into a real part-time paying position so that’s keeping me out of trouble for now. I own my own home and have myself pretty well set up for the future.

Here are some of the things I am NOT doing with my life...

*Planning my next exciting trip to Columbia and Madagascar.

*Considering living in Nepal for an indefinite amount of time.

*Backpacking through Indonesia.

*Swimming the waters off the Greek islands.

*Jumping on a plane to Tanzania at a moment's notice.

*Rappelling down the Great Wall of China, kayaking the Panama Canal or any of the other myriad adventures so many people on here have planned for this summer including everything I listed above.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a great listener. I think I give pretty good advice and care a lot about the people in my life. I'm the one who always remembers birthdays and anniversaries. If you happen to casually mention a candy bar you really like, you can bet the next time you come by I'll have one for you. I like doing that kinda thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't know why there's so much animosity towards this section. This one's my favorite! This is where you really see what you have in common.

Books... I always have a book going (Thanks, Mom!). Mostly biographies and non-fiction. I love reading about history, especially early American. I buy more books than I can read. I just finished a book about how the JFK administration might have played out had he not been assassinated and decided I needed something lighter next so I picked up Rob Lowe's autobiography. He's pissing me off because he's dishing a lot of good gossip but not naming any names! I subscribe to way too many magazines and am a lifelong newspaper subscriber. Yup, I still get the Chronicle delivered every day -- the actual paper newspaper.

Movies... The original Star Wars movies, Godfathers I & II, most of the John Hughes movies, Shawshank, Almost Famous, 40 year-old Virgin, Kill Bill, Apollo 13, The Natural, Major League, No Country For Old Men, Fools Rush In, A Bronx Tale, so many others. I have a warm spot in my heart for old silent films. There's a cool little silent movie theater in Fremont I'd love to take you to.

Shows... I love documentaries and news specials, Deadliest Catch, Big Bang Theory, Childrens Hospital (funniest 15 minutes on TV), Blue Bloods, Californication, Louie (best half hour on TV), Survivor and anything about Hoarding (it makes me want to clean out a drawer immediately). I still miss West Wing, ER and NYPD Blue. New faves include Nashville, Married and You're the Worst. I really like the show Episodes on Showtime -- it's the most accurate depiction I've ever seen of how TV really works behind the scenes.

Music... 80's New Wave is still my favorite. Stones, Petty, Stan Ridgway. Jackshit is my favorite live small band (It's Elvis Costello's band playing Rockabilly in character - they're awesome! They only perform at one small club in L.A. and I go down to see them every time they play), Chili Peppers, the real Van Halen and of course -- Springsteen! Saw him three times on the most recent tour! I wish I could follow him on the road like people used to follow The Dead.

Food... I'm up for pretty much anything except seafood and sushi. (That's not a typo -- I don't like sushi) Give me a cheeseburger and fries (or onion rings) anytime and I'm a happy boy. I dug bacon before it was cool. I love comfort food (I do a great brisket and meatloaf -- sorry, vegans), Mexican, Italian, Chinese and Round Table Pizza! I'm always on the lookout for a good BBQ joint. Pesto makes just about anything better. Breakfast is typically my favorite meal of the day and I traditionally cook myself a nice big breakfast on Sunday mornings. How do you like your eggs?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...whatever happened to cooking something at home together or ordering a pizza, popping in a DVD and simply enjoying each other's company for an evening? There's so much to be said for just hanging out. Sure, I love to travel and go to other places, but not all the time! So many people on here seem to feel that if they stop moving for five minutes they’re going to dry up and die.

...if I've been wrong all these years about the Sun being bigger than the Earth.

...why so many women on here are lawyers ...if there are simply a whole lot of really tall women out there or if they're all just on this site ...and when exactly did everybody become a Buddhist?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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None of these are really all that private... just random stuff to admit... Feel free to comment.

I find women who have no tattoos at all to be fascinating. These days there's more of a story behind why you don't have any as opposed to what "that one" means.

I worked in television production when I lived in L.A. and put together a pretty decent IMDB page. I have lots of good stories if you're interested in that kinda thing.

I don't get up early on Saturday morning to bike ride to the farmers' market for fresh produce. More accurately I drive over to Safeway on Saturday afternoon to pick up some lettuce.

This two-minute video sums up precisely why I hate smart phones -- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OINa46HeWg8

Here's another good one... https://screen.yahoo.com/buzzfeed/real-photos-prove-society-doomed-181135942.html

In my spare time I don't rock-climb/bungee-jump/sky-dive/hang-glide/zip-line/base-jump/moon-walk/pole-vault/X-Game or Tough Mud. I just don't believe people do all the things they SAY they do on here. Are we really out discovering new hiking trails every weekend? Really?!
You should message me if
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The fact that I own a TV doesn't scare or repulse you.

You keep a clean car, fridge and bathroom. Want to instantly learn about your date? Check out the inside of their car, fridge and bathroom. If you're not initially horrified then they might be a keeper.

You live close by. You have a warm smile. You own a car. You're a Giants fan and will go to games with me. When you tell someone "I'll call you later" you actually DO IT!! Reliability is huge with me. You think the most important part of a relationship is being together and being there for each other, not what you do or where you go. You don’t bash anyone’s politics in your profile. Your days of using "party" as a verb are behind you and you're looking for something a little more grown-up. You like holding hands at a movie. You like holding hands anytime!

Thanks for reading this far... If you did, treat yourself to a cookie.