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34 M Nutley, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:09am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Used up
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, Turkish, Persian, French, Arabic

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My self-summary
I'm too busy fending off women who are only interested in my gorgeous looks and athletic body. Ladies, please stop objectifying me because I have a wonderful personality. For example, I'm very humble.

When I'm not busy protecting my manly chastity, I work on my Ph.D. dissertation, write stuff for media outlets and my blog, and try not to get too gloomy about the state of the world.

I also like to make my friends laugh. My accents and impersonations come in handy.
What I’m doing with my life
Transitioning out of academia and moving into a life of think-tanking and talking-heading...
I’m really good at
- listening to people
- making them laugh
- cooking
- embarking on new adventures, which frequently involves travelling
The first things people usually notice about me
are all my accents, which I use to keep them guessing about where I'm from.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
--- This is a very short list ---

* Amartya Sen, Development as Freedom
* Melvyn P. Leffler, For the Soul of Mankind
* Joseph Heller, Catch-22 (I read it while I was in the Army - made perfect sense)
* William Shakespeare, Macbeth & Othello
* James Lyon, Kiss of the Butterfly
* Vivien Shotwell, Vienna Nocturne (James and Vivien are my friends - I cannot recommend their books enough!)
* Tom Clancy novels (Don't judge)
* Me, My Dissertation (work-in-progress)

U2, Frank Sinatra, Bobby Darin, Annie Lennox, Coldplay, Samantha James, movie soundtracks

Inside Amy Schumer, Band of Brothers, House of Cards (I'm partial to the BBC version actually), Coupling UK, Archer!

Bond...James Bond, Bourne...Jason Bourne, Godfather (I-II *and* III - if you can ignore Sofia Coppola in III, it's not half-bad - SC's a great director but a horrible actress), Notting Hill, Love Actually, The Notebook, Wedding Crashers, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Day of the Jackal, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Valkyrie, The Hunt for Red October, Kingdom of Heaven, Tropic Thunder, Invictus, Gladiator, Hitch, Layer Cake, Gravity

A category of its own:
Star Trek - something about the idea that, some day, humankind will become so enlightened that it will enter into a political union with extra-terrestrial species and attempt to discover the mysteries of the universe...

Balkan, Mediterranean, Middle Eastern, Indian, Mexican
The six things I could never do without
- awesomeness
- handsomeness
- modesty
- family & friends
- coffee-tea-alcohol
- travelling to exotic places
- books
- movies
- my math skills
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the state of the world and protecting my manly chastity
On a typical Friday night I am
either out with friends or at home watching a movie/Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
We're all just passing through here
at the speed of light (Google it!)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're up for some witty and funny banter.

(NB: I live in North Jersey but go to NYC for work.)