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61 M Southwick, MA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm not quite sure what I am looking for at this stage in my life. I'm Trying to find myself while trying to find the one. Maybe
"The one" is meant to be the "many" and maybe dating while waiting for the love lightning to strike is where I am destined to be at this point in my life....(I'm a writer so I tend to express things in many ways including palindromes and metaphors). One is only as old as one feels. I don't lie about my age here or post really old photos because that would be a waste of everyone's time once you meet the first time...DUHHH! I have posted some old photos of plays I have done over the years but the profile photo is pretty accurate.
I don't just look at profiles in my own age bracket, but in a wide range of ages and interests. One never knows where one will meet the one they are meant to be with. I think I have been trying too hard to find the right person. Maybe just "Going with the flow" is the way to go. (Rhyme not intended but acknowledged as funny!)
What I’m doing with my life
At my age just enjoying the summer, the garden, the pool, reading, Getting my diet back on track...( Not an easy train to board for one who cooks Mussels Fra Diavolo by the way !), Working... A good thing in this economy and I am VERY grateful that I am! Watching "Food network" whenever I can (I learn something new every day and I have been cooking for over 40 years).
I’m really good at
Stage actor for over 35 years, poet, singer, bard, gourmet cook...(Ask any of my friends LOL). Love to dance. sing, and sing while cooking.. I can make my own pasta, bread, jams, Italian cooking is my forte (which is weird because I'm not Italian. I have however Been told that I do channel a 1/2 Italian 1/2 Jewish mother who believes the following outcome is inevitable.... that Somewhere between "Do you want more" and "NO"...the food will be on your plate). Hey it's funny but accurate!
My home made pizza is......WOW!!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
How friendly I am, my smile, my ability to start a conversation
with anyone like in a grocery line or at a public event. My passion
for all that I believe in. I've been told I have nice eyes (hazel..
green brown not blue brown).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Star Trek novels, Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Robert Ludlum anything suspenseful like John Grisham.

ANY Sci Fi ( Newest Star Trek was the BEST), anything with Queen Latifa , Harry Potter (ALL), Mel Brooks comedies, Mel Gibson (Until a couple of years ago when he went a bit coo coo LOL). Anything by Harrison Ford ( except maybe that Amish one... just a bad choice as an actor I guess) ANYTHING directed by either Clint Eastwood or Ron Howard....They just don't make no junk! Any movie that moves me to think, cry, be happy, or sad, or feel as a human being, (My actor side I guess).

2 and 1/2 men, Jeopardy ,Sunday night cartoons... HEY come on admit it you watch the Simpsons and Family Guy too! News, Food Network, football ( EVERY WEEK THE PATRIOTS PLAY... It's the only sport I follow and it is non negotiable...Well maybe a little bit negotiable at halftime LOL!,

Iz, Guster, Sade, Green Rovers, Michael Buble', Old Rock
(Meatloaf "Bat Out of Hell"), Van Morrison..."One Irish Rover", Bob Marley, "No woman no cry" ... About his country NOT his girlfriend, Fleet-wood Mac, STEVIE!!!, Jethro Tull, Anything with meaning ( "God bless the USA") or ("This land is your land"...Woodie Guthrie ...Those who know...know!)

WOW! Alfredo, Good Al Dante' home made pasta, Veal parm or Marsala, Home Made bread, ANY great seafood, Oysters on the half...with Horseradish sauce a squeeze of fresh lemon PLUMP Blue points... AHHHH...DROOOL... Homer. I don't do Doughnuts though!
Calamari ala Joseph.... You'll just have to ask now right?? LOL. My home made Raspberry jam, Calamatta olives, Roasted or grilled Veggies , Oven roasted tomatoes with olive oil and fresh basil (Better than sun dried!!! Trust me!), Seafood Bernardi .
( I stole it from a really good seafood restaurant in Worcester MA but I changed it enough to make it my own recipe... What cooking is really all about. The Recipe consisting of a shrimp and scallop dish with summer veggie, garlic, and broth made from the shrimp shells, onion, garlic, carrot, and old bay reduced after removing the solids to a med thick consistency and the shrimp sauteed in this broth. No oil... No greasy taste NO FAT! A touch of white wine here finishes...but I digress! LOL ).

Crab cakes from MD. THE BEST...although I make a nice attempt to duplicate the taste. I never met a bivalve I didn't like... Clams, mussels, oysters, little necks, steamers, Shrimp from the LA gulf coast (Coming back after Katrina. Most you buy are from Indonesia or Asia... Freshness is EVERYTHING when it comes to seafood but it gets harder and harder to find head on prawns...AGAIN Those who know...know.).
The six things I could never do without
Pasta ( make it home made when I can) ,Bread (I bake my own!), Burgers, good wine, laughter, cooking for friends and family, .......pie! OK I KNOW IT'S SEVEN.....But it's ....pie!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my life, my feelings, my future, my blessings (Thank you Bing that's an Inside thought.... those who were here then know what I mean!). A world at peace,...( Thank you to all who serve their country and at least TRY to create one).
A world in ruins from our own wish as human beings to destry ourselves any way we can, ....WOW Heavy stuff, but it is Balanced by....See my blessings above.

I like an intelligent, logical and informative debate on any of the above but be prepared as I am very informed on many things and I do not believe in rhetorical nonsense not backed up with facts. Intelligence in a partner is very important in order to communicate.
On a typical Friday night I am
chillin out at home. Movies, Relaxing ( My job is physically very demanding and by Friday night I just want to chill). Pizza and beer or a nice Merlot, Chinese food with a good Mai Tai, Grillin, games with friends (Jeopardy, Trivial pursuit, Taboo, Scattergories, Etc.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Once dressed as a woman.......OK it was Shakespeare and it was a riot! Flute/Thisby in "Midsummer Nights Dream"You should have seen the 44DDD bra and the honeydew melons! Blonde fright wig...Bright red lipstick... and a full beard! Got a laugh on the entrance EVERY time LOL! ( Show ran 4 weekends and the honeydews were kept in the fridge to make them last the run....Rubbed those babies for an hour before each show to prevent NHOs...Ask and I'll tell you LOL!)

ALSO... I have to admit I have a Cold Stone Creamery Jones!!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are looking for LTR or just want to have fun while waiting for the same. You love to be romanced. Some of us never forgot what manners and being a gentleman means. I open doors for ladies and I believe in having manners ( No matter what your sex) and that chivalry is not dead. My momma raised me right. If you feel that these are chauvinistic traits then you and I will probably NOT be a good match. If you enjoy good food and good conversation then we will get along just fine I'm sure.