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IfNotNow_When

28 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

Austin, Texas

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am sweet, silly, and a big dork.

My Self-Summary

I should probably start out with the fact that I live with my wonderful, nerdy boyfriend and we have a monogamous relationship. I joined to take fun tests, fill (the ever dwindling amount of) bored time, and see who my friends are interested in.

I love making new friends, cooking, eating, movies, and learning.

I like listening to other people, and people watching. I guess I am interested in psychology, because I really enjoy trying to figure out why people do the things they do and are the way they are. I like to pick brains.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I have a job that I love, a boy that I love, and two gorgeous cats. Life is pretty good, and very busy. I am always looking for new friends that are as crazy and as silly as I am.
I dropped out of college, but I'd like to eventually go back and become a teacher. I haven't figured out what level I'd like to teach at, but I'm sure it'll work itself out. Life always does.

I’m really good at

... making people smile. Making people laugh, usually at me. Being mean, but remaining nice. Being way too nice to the wrong people. Lots of other things that you just won't know about until you're my friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

I honestly don't know. Pessimistically I would say my breasts. Optimistically I would say my smile or my curly hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love Ayn Rand, e.e. cummings, and J. D. Salinger.

Movies = everything and anything. There is definitely more than one guilty pleasure in my list. Favorties are: Chasing Amy, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Pretty Woman, Donnie Darko, The Devil Wears Prada, Princess Bride, Pi, the Wedding Singer, Hedwig and the Angry Inch...

*I have no idea how I left out music when it is so important to me.
Magnetic Fields, Rilo Kiley, Stavesacre, Starflyer 59, Mos Def, Jurassic 5, Shakira, Brandtson, Death Cab For Cutie, Adele, Fiona Apple, AVAIL, Bad Religion, Rancid, NIN, Sebadoh, Ben Folds (Five), Born to Lose, Cat Stevens, Depeche Mode, Dwight Yoakam, Johnny Cash, Los Fabulosos Cadillacs, Otis Redding, OZOMATLI, Portishead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Say Hi, The Beastie Boys, Weezer

Food = Mostly Mexican and Asian. For a (mostly) white girl, I can make a mean spring roll. I also love to make and eat sushi.

The six things I could never do without

good friends, good food, good music, computer/interwebs, my cats, my family

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future. I'm a planner. I like to be in control, so I plan things. My first plan doesn't always pan out, so I guess I'm impulsive sometimes. I think about stupid shit that doesn't make any sense to anyone but me. My brain knows no limit to tangents.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either working or with my boyfriend.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

eh, I'm not a very private person. If you have a question, just ask. But be prepared for the answer (which may include "That's none of your business").

You should message me if

you think we could be friends without the sexual tension. You make up songs about what you are doing. You get caught dancing in grocery store isles. You like to people watch. You don't take yourself too seiously. You know the difference between your/you're and there/their/they're.