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47 / F / straight / Single

Visalia, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am one-of-a-kind, affectionate, and fun& free spirited;).

My Self-Summary

“I'll take an order of funny, attractive and intelligent... to go”
:)

Okay, you, a big attraction for me is a guy that can be BRIGHT, but I also like a man that can be silly at times, make me laugh and giggle, even if it's just once in awhile. Not into bad boy types...I'm secure with myself and don't need that. I am separated and do not have children. Hopefully you are openminded and not too politically conservative or that religious and please be within my age range.

But mostly what really gets my attention is a SWEETHEART kind of guy. I love thoughtfulness, manners, tenderness and ah, sensuality - and he will get it back from me in return - and I really want to. This will keep me thinking about him for DAYS and DAYS. Just dream with me a moment....imagine if you will, if we were to meet and hit it off and on and on, we could share real romance, special and intimate times together, being there for each other, sharing affection, holding hands, kissing and cuddling, being supportive and understanding, and smiling so much cause we both finally found each other...

What I’m doing with my life

Many things, trying to make others feel good I think is a pretty good way. Life's a journey, but it would be nice to have a freakin' compass once in a while!

I’m really good at

Being silly, arranging paperclips in a neat pile :), reading restaurant menus, sticking my foot in my mouth, daydreaming, adjusting the room temperature, smiling and just doing nothing!

Okay, I suppose I'm also good at reading directions, listening with an open heart, keeping openminded, being my own person, good at forgiving and giving others more than one chance, being a sucker for charm, making the best of a situation, appreciating my life, and focusing on the best in others.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm not sure what people notice about me. Hopefully notice my good nature, smiling a lot :), that I'm conscientious, and down-to-earth!?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love reading fiction and non-fiction books, Time Magazine, Newsweek and Psychology Today.

Too many movies seem to fall into that highly commericalized trap and not too inventive. But my favorite kinds of movies are one that make me think or those I can't easily figure out or predict. But I also love that rare great comedy (:

Enjoy most music and love classic rock, can't get enough of 70's and 80's, some alternative, pretty much all classical, piano music, jazz, hiphop, Disney tunes and songs lol!

Food choices are more mainstream but know how to cook and bake and enjoy various restaurants and love atmosphere and even intimate dining :)

The six things I could never do without

1. Loved ones...#1
2. Water
3. Someone making me laugh
4. Hugs, kisses and all kinds of affection from my partner!
5. My own free time.......and daydreaming
6. Seeing others smile
.....come OKCupid, I can't list more than 6?!?!

Editors

I spend a lot of time thinking about

....what I should be thinking about ;)

and ah, any good e-males out there??

"Think of all the beauty still left around you and be happy."
~Anne Frank~

....and I also think about this: T r u e l o v e means making your partner first in your life.

On a typical Friday night I am

- thrilled it's Friday!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

You can't make me put anything here, you just can't Okcupid!!

Okay, okay, okay, you tickled me enough, I give in....Uncle! Sheesh!

Once we really get beyond the initial stages of getting to know each other and meetings, etc. how much YOU AND I can enjoy one another in a sensual and passionate way ....

You should message me if

......if we are a CLOSE PERCENTAGE MATCH on here, send me a message and if seems we are wanting the same kinds of things, then WOW, what in the heck are you waiting for...CONTACT ME!

.......if you are a non-smoker/non-drug user, at least somewhat active :)

........if you think I get lots of responses, please still contact me as I probably still haven't met the right one yet and you might very well be him, so what are you waiting for?! :)

But I'm warning you, I will judge you on how you parallel park!