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  • Ages 30–50
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5' 9" (1.75m)
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Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Full-time knowledge-fiend, part-time musician, quarter-time eremetic, I seek the low-key, the intense, the ridiculous, and the sublime on equal terms ( a typical Aquarius I suppose).

I enjoy ephemera of all kinds, but I seem to have a knack for interests that are now ridiculously commonplace; po-mo analysis, "good" bad movies, musical colonialism, etc. To be honest, I'm kind of tired of it, mostly because it renders the things that I've cultivated and cared about for years somewhat moot: "I'm so far ahead of you I'm behind you" as the one guy behind the other guy once said.

I guess the bone-basic core of a personal "summary" for me is best iterated by a wayward OKCupid Bodhisattva whose profile caught my attention:
"I want to start a revolution. In the mean time...I drink."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Saving up for the the future, both monetarily and intellectually;
Reading about people who lived a long time ago in far away places; Making/updating/deleting humorous sonic creations as time permits (but not uploading them as much lately), and pondering entrance/exit strategies for various hypothetical scenarios.
Y'know, the usual shtuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Major-raging on the four stringed motherfucker.
Edutaining folks with random information, usually involving people who lived a long time ago in far away places.
Singing harmony (even when it's not in my range)
Being honest to the point of discomfort (usually mine, but sometimes others')

Oh yes, making soup. I love soup...mmmm...
(I almost forgot, making basil pesto as well... mmmm...)
(...and two more things: elipses and parentheticals, I'm good at those too...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Art ("The Arts") are a real big part of my life, and they have been since I was a wee lad first bonking my fingers on a piano at age 4. This being said, I am both picky and tolerant; Having been around "creative types," I can see both the passion and the exclusivity when it comes to appreciating music/film/etc. When you "create," it can be difficult for the non-creative to "get" what you're doing, but at the same time, the social factor of being "an artist" can go to your head, and lends itself to being a fucking asshole. If it comes down to the personal, then I can say that I always gravitated towards things that were a little "different" (or usually A LOT different) than the norm but I also am grounded in a base of memory that lends itself to comfort and familiarity, especially with music. I love TONS of art, and it's all based on MY reaction to it. I don't need to wear a uniform or assign myself to a mode of "I must look this way so I must like this kind of music" (Lookin' at you all you "Rockabilly" folk; you're just as redundant as the "Swing" fuckers back in the late '90's). If you like it, you like it, right? I may ask why, but it's really just a matter of taste, emotional response, and connection that you have (which I'd hope would be strong)
Instead, I'll just post shit that interests me in the moment (or personal long-time favorites), and hopefully you may or may not enjoy it: movies, music, random BS, etc.
For your pleasure:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hot water
toilet paper
"the arts" (music, visual arts, film, etc.)
my ability to think and feel
and of course, a good hoppy ale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
and this
I don't spend too much time thinking about this unless I'm looking at some (update: almost ALL) of your profiles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmm... I'll have to get back to this one since my Friday night dynamic has changed quite a bit.
You should message me if
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If you wanna hang out and play/make music, talk about people who lived a long time ago in far away places, or perhaps do both at the same time? Or maybe if you just wanna hang out and discuss the weirdness that is goin' on.

Oh yes, and as always, if you like the cut of my jib (or topgallant or lateen...). I almost forgot to mention chess, beer, discussion of "what-if" scenarios, gardening strategies, and anything pertaining to food and food making. I love to learn; I love to teach...