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IlovemyIan

43 Huntington Park, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 37–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of law school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My friends will tell you my "personality alone could bring electricity to a small village in a developing country." O.k., they don't say that, I just came up with it, but I bet they don't mind that I speak for them.

I am the biggest goof ball you will ever meet. You will never laugh as much. I will try to make you laugh especially when things are not going your way. But I'm not an immature man. In fact, life gave me a strong sense of maturity and responsibility at a very young age. Being a smart ass just made it easier to get up and dust myself off each time adversity kicked me in the balls. Wait...unless adversity was kicking me in the balls for being a smart ass. Oops!

I am very romantic (...o.k., sometimes) and I would love to serenade you on your birthday. (Warn the neighbors so they don't call the cops if and when I do because I cannot sing for shit.)

I love to travel, workout, go hiking, snowboarding, kayaking, and biking. I rode a bike from San Francisco to LA for charity once and would love to do it again. But I want to do it all with an adventurous, funny woman...unless she just wants to relax and veg-out on the couch with a movie on weekends. ;-)

I have an 11 year-old son whom I adore with all my heart. I became a true man the day he was born.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to unfuck the world to make it a better place for those less fortunate. I have a degree in cultural anthropology and a grad degree in management of non-profits that help young people. But I've always been an organizer working on social issues: environment, immigration, workers' rights, etc.

Growing, challenging myself continuously. As a kid, I used to sell fruit and shine shoes in the streets of Mexico; two years ago I was recognized by the White House for my work protecting the environment and improving California's air quality. (You will love the story about the Secret Service not letting me into the White House because of my ill repute.)

Hoping I can be the best father a man can hope to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ruining a good song with my voice and guitar;
Saying what everyone is thinking but no one wants to say;
Dropping "f" bombs (Warn your parents);
I can cook really good Mexican food...actually, my cooking skills are limited to just Mexican food, but I bet you'd love my beef in salsa verde burritos, pork tostadas and vegetarian potato tacos...or your money back. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When they see me: my eyes-- I have two!

When they hear me: my intriguing yet sexy accent; my laugh--very loud; my wit and humbleness. ;-)

When they read my profile: lots of things. Someone here once told me she does not "date crusaders." I don't know what she meant but that's one of the best compliments I have ever received.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love anything that makes me laugh until my head hurts like a Viagra hangover. (Ok. you will love this story about the time I tried a Viagra pill.)
The Colbert Report and The Daily Show are my only two TV addictions. I have a very short attention span, so I don't like anything that requires me to stay hooked on, like TV series. I read a lot of political, world and science news.

I love most music genres in English, Spanish and world music. Lately I have been listening a lot of classical music . That Yo-Yo Ma really knows how to get me inspired. But my roots run deep; a live mariachi band makes my heart want to jump out of my chest, and salsa and cumbias make my feet want to dance even in my I sleep.

I'm a foodie...O.k., I don't really know what that means, but everyone on OKcupid says it. So, if it has to do with loving all the "T" foods (tacos, tortas, tostadas, tamales, taquitos), weird, spicy foods and street foods, I'm it. When I travel I will go out of my way to find a local, mom and pop spot. I definitely love to experience the local culture through its cuisine. (If you love good Mexican food you will love hanging out with me. ;-) )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only six???
The usual suspects: Love, Family, Friends. (Mark those as one, please.)
Health, energy and passion to fight the fights I fight for the causes I care about. (Can these count as one too?)
A guitar, vihuela, jarana or charango (No, they are not STDs, they are string instruments from Mexico and Latin America; also count them as one, please.)
Smart phone
Coffee in the mornings
Spicy food...and toilett paper. (You know these two count as one, especially when in another country, right? Hahahaha!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...family, work, social justice, the future.
Human behavior; a trained anthropologist, I love reading profiles, and trying to figure people out . I think I'm really good at it.
Climate change impacts on our already limited water resources, especially in developing nations (and why are people still wasting it to water lawns???)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...avoiding getting arrested? ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not a private person but I want to save all the juicy stuff for when we meet. ..and my book. I'll just share this: I have never seen the Shawshank Redemption!!! (Sorry, I had to say it.) And since we are on the subject, I think all those guys here who say they love it are a bunch of lairs. I do love to watch the Golden Girls, however. (Please, don't judge me. ;-) )
You should message me if
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You are a liberal woman who will not stand for discrimination or injustice against the voiceless, or anyone, for that matter.

You believe in humanity but have the maturity to be irreverent and laugh at her absurdity, and the sense of humor to lol out loud when things don't go your way...or you won't mind if and when I do.

You want to explore the world with a dreamer while we make it a better place for the less fortunate. (Yeah, I know this is so corny, but I had to say it. That's just how I rolls.)

You are an intelligent, polite woman who says "thank you" to the people who serve your food, but you are not afraid to tell a dirty joke or drop an "F" bomb.

You will not mind if I make Mexican food the first time I cook for you.