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43 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Recent transplant to the DC area. (Actually I just got here on New Year's eve!) I am the biggest goof ball you will ever meet. You will never laugh as much. If you are ok with it, I will try to make you laugh especially when things are not going your way. But I'm not an immature man. In fact, life gave me a strong sense of maturity and responsibility at a very young age. Being a smart ass just made it easier to get up and dust myself off each time adversity kicked me in the balls. you think adversity was kicking me in the balls for being a smart ass? Oops!

I am very romantic (...o.k., sometimes) and I will serenade you on your birthday. (Warn the neighbors so they don't call the cops because I cannot sing for shit.)

I love traveling, working out, hiking, snowboarding, kayaking, and biking. I rode a bike from San Francisco to Los Angeles once and would love to do it again. I'm also a good dancer...well, maybe an ok dancer. (Salsa, merengue, or cumbias, anyone?) But I want to do it all with an adventurous, funny woman. I'm not an adrenaline junkie, however, so if you just want to relax and veg-out on the couch with a movie on weekends I'm fine, too. ;-)

I have an 11 year-old son whom I adore with all my heart. I became a true man the day he was born.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Growing, challenging myself continuously: As a kid, I used to sell fruit and shine shoes in the streets of Mexico; two years ago I was recognized by the White House for my work protecting the environment (you will love the story about the Secret Service not letting me into the White House because of my ill repute), and just became a U.S. citizen yesterday (12/19/14).

I'm a very passionate advocate for social issues: environment, immigration, workers and women's rights, etc. I just moved to DC for a position at an international social, environmental and economic justice organization where I will address U.S. policies that further exacerbate poverty in developing nations and migration to the U.S.: my dream job!

It broke my heart to leave my son in California (he lives with is mom). But I still hope I can be the best father a man can dream to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Forgetting names;
Ruining a good song with my voice and guitar;
Dropping "f" bombs (Warn your parents);
I can cook really good Mexican food...actually, my cooking skills are limited to just Mexican food, but I bet you'd love my beef in salsa verde burritos, pork tostadas and vegetarian potato tacos...or your money back. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes-- I have two!

My intriguing yet sexy accent--people say I sound like "the most interesting man in the world." People who know me will tell you that my personality could provide electricity to a small village in a developing country. ;-) O.k., they don't really say any of those things, but I bet it made you take a second look at my pics (if you hadn't), right? ;-)

Someone here once told me she does not "date crusaders." I don't know what she meant but that's one of the best compliments I have ever received.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love anything that makes me laugh until my head hurts like a Viagra hangover. (Ok. you will love this story about the time I tried a Viagra pill.)
The Colbert Report and The Daily Show are my only two TV addictions. I will miss The Colbert Report, it kept me laughing during the dark Bush II era. I have a very short attention span, so I don't like anything that requires me to stay hooked on, like TV series.
I love to read politicy, world and science news.

I love music! I try to play a few instruments. (Don't be fooled, "try" is the operative word here.) I love most music genres in English, Spanish and world music. Lately I have been listening a lot of classical music . That Yo-Yo Ma really knows how to rock the cello. But my roots run deep; a live mariachi, grupo norteño, or banda sinaloense makes my heart want to jump out of my chest and sing like it's 1999, and salsa and cumbias (cumbias andinas and sonideras are the bestest) make my feet want to dance even in my sleep.

I'm a foodie...O.k., I don't really know what that means, but everyone on OKcupid says it. So, if it has to do with loving all the "T" foods (tacos, tortas, tostadas, tamales, taquitos), weird, spicy foods and street foods, I'm it. When I travel I will go out of my way to find a local, mom and pop spot. I definitely love to experience the local culture through its cuisine. (If you love good Mexican food you will love hanging out with me. ;-) )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only six???
The usual suspects: Love, Family, Friends. (Mark those as one, please.)
Health, energy and passion to fight the fights I fight for the causes I care about. (Can these count as one too?)
A guitar, vihuela, jarana or charango (No, they are not STDs, they are string instruments from Mexico and Latin America; also count them as one, please.)
Smart phone
Coffee in the mornings
Spicy food...and toilett paper. (You know these two count as one, especially when in another country, right? Hahahaha!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game., work, social justice, the future.
Climate change impacts on our already limited water resources, especially in developing nations.
Why does OKCUPID send me profiles of fugly dudes? WTF? What would happen if I liked those dudes' profiles and sent them messages like "Hey, how u doin'?" Jajajaja!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...avoiding getting deported? ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not really "admitting", more like making you feel at ease: I am a US citizen, so I'm not here to find someone who can help me get a greencard...or am I? ;-)
You should message me if
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You are a liberal woman who cares about social issues. You will not stand for discrimination or injustice against the voiceless, the less fortunate, or anyone, for that matter.

You believe in humanity but have the maturity to be irreverent and laugh at her absurdity, and the sense of humor to lol out loud when things don't go your way...or you won't mind if and when I do.

You want to explore the world with a dreamer while we make it a better place for the less fortunate. (Yeah, I know this is so corny, but I had to say it. That's just how I rolls.)

You are an intelligent, polite woman who says "thank you" to the people who serve your food, but you are not afraid to tell a dirty joke or drop an "F" bomb.

You will not mind if I make Mexican food the first time I cook for you.