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IlovemyIan

42 M Huntington Park, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on law school
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a very flawed man, but I am the first to apologize and admit when I am wrong and always learn from my mistakes. Just bear with me, I've made too many, so I have a lot of catching up to do. :-)

All my life experiences, good and bad, made me very proud of the man I have become. However, I know when to be humble and recognize my flaws. I must confess, however, I don't think I have many flaws, so I find it hard to be humble. ;-)

I am the biggest goof ball you will ever meet. You will never laugh as much. I will make you laugh even when things don't go your way or warn me you'll pee if I don't stop making you laugh. ;-) My friends will tell you my "personality alone could bring electricity to a small village in a developing country."

But I'm not an immature man. In fact, life made me acquire a strong sense of responsibility at a very young age. I just found it easier to get up and dust myself off if I was a smart ass each time adversity kicked me in the balls...Unless...Wait! What if adversity kicked me in the balls each time I was a smart ass??? ;-)

I am very romantic (...o.k., only sometimes) I like to serenade the special women in my life but I cannot sing at all. (Warn the neighbors so they don't call the cops when I serenade you.)

I love to travel, work out, go hiking, snowboarding, kayaking, biking. I rode a bike from San Francisco to LA for charity once and would love to do it again. But I want to do it all with an adventurous, funny woman...unless you just want to relax and veg-out on the couch with a movie on weekends. ;-)

I have an 11 year-old son whom I adore with all my heart. I became a true man the day he was born.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying, volunteering, being the best father a man can hope to be.

Challenging myself continuously. As a kid, I used to sell fruit and shine shoes in the streets of Mexico; two years ago I was recognized by the White House for my work protecting the environment here in the U.S. (You will love the story about the Secret Service not letting me into the White House because of my ill repute.)

I established a career in environmental justice advocacy. I led campaigns on ground breaking legislation and regulations to reduce chemicals from cosmetic and consumer products, and made it to many a polluter shit list. But I put it on hold to pursue a doctorate in environmental law.
I’m really good at
Ruining a good song with my voice and guitar;
Saying what everyone is thinking but no one wants to say;
Dropping "f" bombs (Warn your parents);
Dancing. Seriously! I can dance almost anything. Salsa, cumbias, merengue are my fave.
The first things people usually notice about me
When they see me: my eyes--they are gorgeous...and I have two!

When they hear me: my intriguing yet sexy accent; my laugh--very loud and I laugh for just about anything; my wit and humbleness. ;-)

When they read my profile: lots of things. Someone here once told me she does not "date crusaders." (I don't know what she meant or noticed but just I took it as a compliment.)

When I'm driving: People who drive next to me usually notice I am the lead singer of a band where I play air drums...or I'm running late!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love anything that makes me laugh until my head hurts like a Viagra hangover. (Ok. you will love this story about the time I tried a Viagra pill.)
The Colbert Report and The Daily Show were my only two TV addictions when I had TV. (Seriously bummed Colbert will leave his show and persona to host CBS's "Late Show."Seriously. He helped many of us survived the dark Bush years. :-( But I digress. I love anything that makes me LOL out loud.

I love most music genres in English, Spanish and world music. I like to attend live shows at small venues. But I do attend concerts. The last two I attended where Ricardo Arjona and Enanitos Verdes.

Lately I have been listening a lot of classical music while studying. That Yo-Yo Ma really knows how to get me inspired. But my roots run deep; a mariachi band will always make my heart want to jump out of my chest, and salsa and cumbias will move my feet until the day I die.

I'm a foodie...O.k., I don't really know what that means, but everyone on OKcupid says it. So if it has to do with loving all the "T" foods (tacos, tortas, tostadas, tamales, taquitos), weird, spicy foods and street foods, I'm it. I never visit chain restaurants. When I travel I will go out of my way to find a local, mom and pop spot. I definitely love to experience the local culture through its cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Only six???
The usual suspects: Love, Family, Friends. (Mark those as one, please.)
Energy and passion to fight the fights I fight for the causes I care about. (Can these count as one too?)
A guitar, vihuela, jarana or charango (No, they are not STDs, they are string instruments from Mexico and Latin America; also count them as one, please.)
Smart phone
Coffee in the mornings
Health
Spicy food...and toilett paper. (You know these two count as one, especially when in another country, right? Hahahaha!)
Fuck, that's still more than six. Who set the limit at six?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...school, family, work, social justice.
How to figure my finances to move close to the ocean.
How to stop thinking about all this shit and focus on school and more important things.
How did OKC come up with the personality it describes about me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Avoiding getting deported. ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a private person but I want to save all the juicy stuff for when we meet. ..and my book. I'll just share this: I have never seen the Shawshank Redemption!!! (Sorry, I had to say it.) And since we are on the subject, I think all those guys here who say they love it are a bunch of lairs. I do love to watch the Golden Girls, however. Hey, don't judge. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You will not stand for discrimination and injustice against the voiceless. You believe in humanity but have the maturity to laugh at it all when things don't go OUR way...or you won't mind if and when I do.

You want to explore the world with a dreamer while we make it a better place for the less fortunate. (Yeah, I know this is so corny, but I had to say it. That's just who I am.)

You are an intelligent, independent woman, but you won't mind if and when I try to act "manly" to protect you when I think you need help...or open your door when I have a chance, or walk on the right side of the street...or if I treat you like my queen.

You are a polite woman with grace and sensuality who likes to be treated like a queen, but you are not afraid to tell a dirty joke or drop an "F" bomb.