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IlovemyIan

43 M Huntington Park, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on law school
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My friends will tell you my "personality alone could bring electricity to a small village in a developing country." O.k., they don't say that, I just came up with it, but I bet they would love to say it if they knew it. But I am the biggest goof ball you will ever meet. You will never laugh as much. I will make you laugh even when things don't go your way...or warn me you'll pee if I don't stop making you laugh. ;-)

But I'm not an immature man. In fact, life made me acquire a strong sense of maturity and responsibility at a very young age. Being a smart ass made it easier to get up and dust myself off each time adversity kicked me in the balls...Unless...Wait! What if adversity kicked me in the balls for being a smart ass??? ;-)

I am very romantic (...o.k., sometimes) I like to serenade the special women in my life but I cannot sing at all. (Warn the neighbors so they don't call the cops when I serenade you.)

I love to travel, workout, go hiking, snowboarding, kayaking, and biking. I rode a bike from San Francisco to LA for charity once and would love to do it again. But I want to do it all with an adventurous, funny woman...unless she just wants to relax and veg-out on the couch with a movie on weekends. ;-)

I have an 11 year-old son whom I adore with all my heart. I became a true man the day he was born.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making history; challenging the man.

Being the best father a man can hope to be.

Challenging myself continuously. As a kid, I used to sell fruit and shine shoes in the streets of Mexico; two years ago I was recognized by the White House for my work protecting the environment. (You will love the story about the Secret Service not letting me into the White House because of my ill repute.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ruining a good song with my voice and guitar;
Saying what everyone is thinking but no one wants to say;
Dropping "f" bombs (Warn your parents);
Dancing. Seriously! I can dance almost anything, but salsa, cumbias, merengue are my fave.
I can cook really good Mexican food, but I think my home made pizzas are always something to write home about.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When they see me: my eyes-- I have two!

When they hear me: my intriguing yet sexy accent; my laugh--very loud and I laugh for just about anything; my wit and humbleness. ;-)

When they read my profile: lots of things. Someone here once told me she does not "date crusaders." (I don't know what she meant but that's one of the best compliments I have ever received.)

When I'm driving: People who drive next to me usually notice I am the lead singer of a band where I play air drums...or I'm running late!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love anything that makes me laugh until my head hurts like a Viagra hangover. (Ok. you will love this story about the time I tried a Viagra pill.)
The Colbert Report and The Daily Show were my only two TV addictions when I had TV. (Seriously bummed Colbert will leave his show and persona to host CBS's "Late Show."Seriously.

I love most music genres in English, Spanish and world music. I like to attend live shows at small venues. But I do attend concerts. The last two I attended where Ricardo Arjona and Enanitos Verdes.

Lately I have been listening a lot of classical music while studying. That Yo-Yo Ma really knows how to get me inspired. But my roots run deep; a mariachi band will always make my heart want to jump out of my chest, and salsa and cumbias will move my feet until the day I die.

I'm a foodie...O.k., I don't really know what that means, but everyone on OKcupid says it. So if it has to do with loving all the "T" foods (tacos, tortas, tostadas, tamales, taquitos), weird, spicy foods and street foods, I'm it. I never visit chain restaurants. When I travel I will go out of my way to find a local, mom and pop spot. I definitely love to experience the local culture through its cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only six???
The usual suspects: Love, Family, Friends. (Mark those as one, please.)
Energy and passion to fight the fights I fight for the causes I care about. (Can these count as one too?)
A guitar, vihuela, jarana or charango (No, they are not STDs, they are string instruments from Mexico and Latin America; also count them as one, please.)
Smart phone
Coffee in the mornings
Health
Spicy food...and toilett paper. (You know these two count as one, especially when in another country, right? Hahahaha!)
Fuck, that's still more than six. Who set the limit at six?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...family, work, social justice.
Who will win the Brazil 2014 World Cup???
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...avoiding getting arrested and deported? ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not a private person but I want to save all the juicy stuff for when we meet. ..and my book. I'll just share this: I have never seen the Shawshank Redemption!!! (Sorry, I had to say it.) And since we are on the subject, I think all those guys here who say they love it are a bunch of lairs. I do love to watch the Golden Girls, however. Hey, don't judge. ;-)
You should message me if
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You will not stand for discrimination and injustice against the voiceless. You believe in humanity but have the maturity to be irreverent and laugh at it all when things don't go OUR way...or you won't mind if and when I do.

You want to explore the world with a dreamer while we make it a better place for the less fortunate. (Yeah, I know this is so corny, but I had to say it. That's just how I rolls.)

You are a polite woman with grace and sensuality who likes to be treated like a queen, but you are not afraid to tell a dirty joke or drop an "F" bomb.