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Imadifferent1

20 / F / straight / Single

Cincinnati, Ohio

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
—
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am shy/passive, fun, and compassionate.

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My Self-Summary

I have anxiety, and say dumb things when I get nervous. People think it's funny. I think it's embarrassing and annoying.

I have a lot of emotional baggage. I've dealt with family stuff that would make Jerry Springer cringe, so I need someone who is strong, and sensitive. I'm quirky, and I'm a klutz. I don't like big parties, but will go with the right people. I LOVE the fall, storms, camping, cuddling, good live music, and am ultimately looking for a strong friendship that will build into something. I bond strongly. If you can't handle that, keep looking.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm starting my sophomore year just after Christmas. Everything is kind of a mess right now, but I know what I want out of life. Right now, my main focus is family. My sister is currently raising four kids solo, and my OTHER sister moved in with her to help. They are a huge part of my life.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at helping people. I was born and raised by a mom who started and runs a food pantry that I've been working at since I could answer a phone. I love kids, and animals of all kinds. I'm a great listener, but one thing I can't seem to stop is putting everyone else ahead of myself. I don't think I'll ever change that. Everyone tells me that it's something I need to work on, but I honestly don't think it's a bad trait as long as it doesn't truly interfere with my life.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know what others first notice, but what I think they'd notice first is that I'm weird. I'm quirky. I'm short, with long red hair, and I hope they see that I'm nice. I'm one of the good kids. Please don't think I'm a perfectionist... I'm sloppy, and I like to wear hoodies and sweat pants around the house. lol

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Oh boy.. Books and movies include anything romance, comical, dramatic, or action. I never watch/read horror. I like various types of music except rock, metal, or rap, but I'll listen to it. Can't handle spicy food, but I love Italian, Chinese, Indian, Thai, or good old American food.

The six things I could never do without

my cell. I text like crazy, so if you have Verizon, let me know... also, the internet. I am online WAY too much. I could never be without my dog, I treat him like a son. I rely on my friends too, they are few, but they define me, along with my family. (moreso my sisters and my oldest sister's children). That would only be five, but I can't think of anything else.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what-ifs. I always wonder about choices I make the effects on my life. I also spend a lot of time day-dreaming.

On a typical Friday night I am

Many different things. Either hanging out with friends, family, or at home chilling, reading a good book.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I put a lot of stock in things, I get my hopes but I expect the worst so I am not disappointed. I am clingy, but it's something I'm consciously working one. I think it is almost unrealistic to say that sex should come after marriage, but I do believe that sex should come after love.

You should message me if

You are sensitive, and can handle someone with baggage. (mentally and physically) I am trying to lose weight, but it's going to be slow, so for now, be happy and deal with it. I am not fat, but I have some extra. I'm only 5 2 but i'm 140lbs. I need someone with a sense of humor, and who is easy going. I don't want a long term right away. I would like to simply build a friendship and see where it goes. I want someone who can be there for me. I've got a lot going on family wise, and need a dependable guy.

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