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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 27
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi I'm Steve.

First, I'm in a polyamorous/open relationship with my wife, BriarRose1987, meaning it's OK that I'm here! Also, congratulations if you're still reading!

I'm here looking to expand my social circle. Whether that's in the form of friendship, romance, or something in between, it's all good.

I'm a huge geek as I enjoy video games, board games (especially), science, and computers. I also love to explore the outdoors, such as parks and beaches. I am a big fan of nature, really.

I believe in the freedom of people to be who they want to be as long as it isn't hurting others. Who am I to tell people what they can and can't do?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working with boring databases and programming 5 days a week for my job.

Outside of that I'm trying to expand my knowledge of all things and just enjoy my life as best I can!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh. I can usually hone in on someone's sense of humor pretty quick.

Listening is a strong point of mine, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, which sometimes are gray and sometimes deep, dark blue.

That I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Of Mice and Men is my favorite by far. It is a nice book about friendship and came around at a critical point in my life.

Hiroshima is a great book too as it tells the tale of various people who survived the first atomic bomb ever used in warfare.

Movies: Good Night, and Good Luck is a great look into how journalism worked during the McCarthy "red scare" era. It's fantastically entertaining for reasons that don't usually come around in movies.

Punch-Drunk Love is the perfect love story to watch if you are socially awkward when it comes to relationships. It shows how to overcome your awkwardness and that someone will love you for who you are as long as you're willing to come out of your shell.

The Fifth Element is a fantastic movie with the proper blend of plot and action. The characters and acting are very well done and I could watch this one over and over. While it is sci-fi, it doesn't make a big deal about that with fancy computer screens, hacking, or any bull crap you might see in other movies.

Music: Ben Folds is by far my favorite artist. Every song is one I could listen to many, many times. It always resonates with me somehow. His music also helped bring my wife and I together!

Food: If it tastes decent, I eat it. A FAVORITE though is peanut butter. It's so good.

Video Games: Too many to list here. Ask me if I've played a game and I'll probably say "yes" and why I like or don't like it.

Board Games: Euchre, Cribbage, Scrabble, Ticket to Ride, Qwirkle, Carcassonne, Finca, Dominion, Descent: Journeys in the Dark, and more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. Everything about it. Why things happen, what consequences they cause, among other things. My mind never stops.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding friends to hang out with. It doesn't matter what we do as long as we're all having fun doing it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like girls in green. I don't know why. I'm also a sucker for glasses and by extension, nice eyes.
You should message me if
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-You're OK with me being in a polyamorous/open relationship with my wife, BriarRose1987

-If you're interested in what you've read.

-You want to make a new, geeky friend

-You have any questions to ask.