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57 M New York, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 10:41pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am the founder and director of a non-profit on the forefront of Social and Emotional Learning that is introducing an innovative communication program to high school students and teachers. Among other things we demonstrate how to articulate our needs and feelings without blaming others. It just takes a little practice. I am committed to personal and social transformation and I am grateful to wake up each day and do something I believe in, to be a part of something bigger than myself. My work has been my deliverance. The project is on the verge of widespread recognition and about to become newsworthy, but more on this if we meet.

The pitch! On a good day I'm: a hands-on guy who can make and fix things – put up shelves, throw clay, cook, run a business, garden, fix a flat, etc. I am seeking a significant other who will be my ally and dare I say, my spiritual partner.

I've taken classes in swing and Argentine tango and on a good my feet move in the right direction. I'm definitely up for lessons together, I enjoy time by the sea (Can you believe it), vintage shops and flea markets, and exploring the streets of New York, the capital city of the world. I used to be a tour guide way back, but my memory is sharp I can still blow your mind about the endless history of Manhattan. I'm a vegetarian, but it's not a religion. I don’t preach or sabotage relationships over diet. I want to know about the being-ness of you more than the doing-ness. Experiences and activities are interesting, but secondary to character and spirit.

The films I mention below are a good indication of the cinema that moves me.

Setting the table for one, I’m looking forward to sharing meals with a significant other. I believe I have learned and will always be learning how to create a space for a woman to feel safe and beautiful. I like to hold hands in public.
What I’m doing with my life
Making a contribution daily is the world I live in and I also know how to lighten up.
I’m really good at
Helping people figure out what's really going on behind the conditioning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
12 Years a Slave, Lincoln, Temple Grandin, Cloud Atlas, The Artist, Water, Brother Sun Sister Moon, Meet John Doe, Avatar, Forks over Knives, Earthlings, The Day the Earth Stood Still (the original), Powder, Amalie, Juno, It's a Wonderful Life, Midnight in Paris, Motorcycle Diaries, Secret Lives of Others, Westside Story, Star Man, 500 days of Summer, The Reader, Milk, Lives of Others, Silver Linings Playbook, Dallas Buyer's Club.
TED, NPR, Sean Stephen's Dance Party, google it or click on it here.

Jazz, Blues, some classical, African: Papa Wemba, Angelique Kidjo. Chet Baker, Jerry Lee Lewis, Sinatra, Gershwin, Berlin, Beebop, Richie Valens, Buddy Holly, The Beatles, Cream and most of the musical change makers of that period.
Harville Hendrix, Eckhart Tolle, Malcolm X, Frederick Douglass,(NVC), Blue Truth, Pete Hamill's Downtown, quantum physics, Siddhartha, Lao Tzu.

Can listen to this for hours and I have.
The six things I could never do without
Fruits and vegetables, sense of purpose and sense of humor, New York, the library.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Not thinking
What was before time
What the composition of matter is
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I'm afraid of failing, like on this site where I can get lost in a sales pitch rather than being authentic and vulnerable!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 48–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are either inspired, moved, amused or all of the above and if your cell phone is not your main source of connection, I'm your guy. Can we be kind of goofy sometimes? That would be such great fun!