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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 48–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am the founder and director of a non-profit on the forefront of Social and Emotional Learning that has and is introducing an innovative communication program to high school students and teachers and now in colleges. Among other things we demonstrate how to articulate our needs and feelings without blaming others. It just takes a little practice like practicing a sport or an instrument.

I am committed to personal and social transformation and I am grateful to wake up each day and do something I believe in, to be a part of something bigger than myself. I'm a meliorist and my work has been my deliverance. The project is on the verge of widespread recognition and about to become newsworthy. I've just completed a book on the work, but more on this if we meet.

The pitch! On a good day I'm: a hands-on guy who can make and fix things – put up shelves, throw clay, cook, run a business, garden, fix a flat, etc. I am seeking a significant other who will be my ally and dare I say, my spiritual partner.

I've taken classes in swing and Argentine tango and on a good day my feet move in the right direction. I'm definitely up for more lessons (together). I enjoy time by the sea (Can you believe it), vintage shops and flea markets, and exploring the streets of New York, the capital city of the world. I used to be a tour guide way back, but my memory is still sharp when it comes to the endless history and culture of Manhattan.

I'm a vegetarian, but it's not a religion. I don’t preach or sabotage relationships over diet. I want to know about the being-ness of you more than the doing-ness. Experiences and activities are interesting, but secondary to character and spirit.

The films I mention below are a good indication of the cinema that moves and inspires me.

What makes two people click can be elusive, but I think a similar sense of humor and worldview can go pretty far toward generating compatibility and attraction.

We all have a vision about what the "right" relationship looks like. Mine happens to include things like taking out the garbage and running errands together in addition to all the fun and romantic things.

Setting the table for one, I'm looking forward to sharing meals with a significant other, a best friend and more. I believe I have learned and will always be learning how to create a space for a woman to feel safe and beautiful. I like to hold hands.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making a contribution daily is the world I live in and I also know how to lighten up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people figure out what's possible beyond the conditioning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The purple Mohawk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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12 Years a Slave, Lincoln, The Intouchables, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Temple Grandin, Cloud Atlas, The Artist, Water, Brother Sun Sister Moon, Meet John Doe, Avatar, Forks over Knives, Earthlings, The Day the Earth Stood Still (the original), Powder, Amalie, Juno, It's a Wonderful Life, Midnight in Paris, Motorcycle Diaries, Secret Lives of Others, Westside Story, Star Man, Glory Road, 500 Days of Summer, When Harry Met Sally, The Reader, Milk, Lives of Others, Silver Linings Playbook, Dallas Buyer's Club., The Imitation Game, Boyhood, Unbroken.
TED, NPR, The Philharmonic and the Metropolitan Opera in Central Park.
Dr. Sean Stephenson's Dance Party, google it or click on it here.

Jazz, Blues, some classical, Most African, favorites are Papa Wemba and Angelique Kidjo. Chet Baker, Jerry Lee Lewis, Sinatra, Gershwin, Bernstein, Berlin, Beebop, Richie Valens, Buddy Holly, The Beatles, Cream and most of the musical change makers of that period. A musician friend said, (Music like the Beatles created comes along once every 200 years."

Harville Hendrix, Eckhart Tolle, Malcolm X, Frederick Douglass, (NVC), Blue Truth, Pete Hamill's Downtown, quantum physics, Siddhartha, Lao Tzu.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fruits and vegetables, dogs, a sense of purpose, inspiration, comedy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not thinking
What was before time
What the composition of matter is
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I'm afraid of failing, like on this site where I can get lost in a sales pitch rather than being authentic and vulnerable!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are either inspired, moved, amused or all of the above. if your cell phone is not your main source of connection, I'm your guy. Can be kind of goofy sometimes, even often.