Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! Ima Heckler should let you know that I am quick witted and
value humor. I've had one really wonderful love in my life. He was
absolutely terrific but has moved on. I'm happy with who I am. I
love creativity in all formats; I paint, sculpt and write, but
truly love music, photography, dance, theater and anything
handmade. I am not so much an outdoor person, but who can beat the
redwoods or the ocean for inspiration and peace? I am moving back
to the bay area in July. I've lived in Austin and San Francisco
before moving to the East Coast, Ithaca, NY. I had no idea winters
were so cold. I suppose it doesn't help that I have lived along the
I'm a big woman with a lot of class. I love beautiful clothes and
I'm nuts about lingerie....it leaves a lot to the imagination! Once
had a BLT Party (Black Tie, Lingerie or Toga)! You just wouldn't
believe what people will wear in public! Plus I scored a literally
unknown talent to provide the music for my party......Alejandro
Escovedo. I'd love to meet up with him again and ask if he
remembers the crazy broad in the black bustier at that party back
in Austin, TX!
I have a compassionate, caring side, a rebel side (related to truth
and justice) and a "let it rip" side, am spontaneous and
I have always had a thing for feeding the hungry. I prefer dogs,
but do not currently have one, prefer chocolate to any other
decadent treat, and hotels over camping.
I'm completely baffled by "chemistry" ~ I'm open to everyone
because I just don't know who will have that certain je ne sais pas
that relates directly to chemistry. Humor is on the list; I know
that I like to laugh. You'll have to be your own judge.
What I’m doing with my life
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I had two years in Ithaca, NY and it's definitely time to move on.
Having worked for a peace organization for the previous five years,
I'm ready for a new adventure..........I am currently the host of
an airbnb business. I have met some truly wonderful people from all
walks of life, every age level and from all parts of the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
friendship, creative endeavors, planning, organizing and caring for
people. I trust easily enough but have had my fair share of scam
artists trying to pull one over on me. I'm kindhearted but there is
no sap who lives here. I'd rather give my money to the guy on the
corner with a cardboard sign or someone playing music on the
streets. They are transparent enough for me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my sense of humor. I'm quick witted, somewhat sarcastic, easy to
be around and really love to laugh ~ even at myself!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Book: FATHER JOE THE MAN WHO SAVED MY SOUL by Tony
Favorite Movies: I love a good baseball movie, so Bull Durham, 42.
Also love Pretty Woman, Gravity was awesome.
Favorite Show on Television: Mad Man; I love any good story!
Newsroom, The Good Wife and Steve Harvey are also thought
provoking, complicated and funny. Downton Abbey, Charlie
I like all kinds of music. My least favorites are jazz &
Nashville Country.......although there are exceptions to every
rule, like Latin Jazz and Texas "Country" if you can call it
that......Lyle Lovette, Jimmie Dale Gilmore, Willie; it's hard to
have lived in Austin and not like the music scene.
Favorite Food: Chocolate (like duh!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ready to go out for dinner and plan the weekend!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was once top seeded in a tennis tournament only to fall to my
defeat because both bra straps broke. It was funny and sad and
totally embarrassing. It was before there was such a thing as
You should message me if
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loves to kiss, someone who has the capacity to inspire and lives
within 50 miles of the Ithaca, NY area and........ is a man who
loves women of substance both with curves and brains, please say
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