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36 Bloomington, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 9:26am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Very busy.
Entrepreneur, adventure, altruism, respect. These are words that some people like.

I have a one year old daughter, something that has completely changed how I see women. I want her to grow up strong and independent and able to overcome sexual objectivity. I don't know how, but it consumes me sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning, studying, buying, imbibing, cycling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Proofreading your documents and subtly and not-so-subtly insult your writing style.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some people say I look like a famous scientologist. I'm not too into that, but I have a beard and eyes and other regular human features.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, LOTR, The Silmarillion, The Neverending Story, anything by Alex Garland, Eckhart Tolle.

Shows: ST:TNG, Louie, Always Sunny, The Soup, Game of Thrones, Bob's Burgers, Community, I hate reality shows but I'll watch them to indulge other people, except the gypsy shows.

Music: All India Radio, Thievery Corporation, Feed Me, The Chemical Brothers, Daft Punk, audiobooks(I listen to them. I made the executive decision to list audiobooks as music), Beats Antique, ATB, Paul van Dyk, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, The Smashing Pumpkins, Stone Temple Pilots
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my darling baby daughter,
internet access,
being in control of cooking the hot wings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How could Sansa potentially sit on the Iron Throne. Or Arya. But never the Khaleesi. I think that ending is too easy. It's gotta be a Stark. Maybe Bran, but I really hope it's one of the girls.

I think about how much I hate the Jon Snow storyline. I try and try, but it sucks.
Update: it sucks less in A Dance with Dragons.

Maps. Choropleth, isopleth, symbology, data, space. It's GIS and you probably don't get it, yet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating food or resting or in a daze, not really knowing it's Friday, or if I do know, I don't usually care
You should message me if
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You know how to get to Lothlorien. You look amazing in blue. You have an interest in sustainability, permaculture, or local food. You think the internet needs to reach more people in developing nations and underdeveloped nations.

If you are ok with open relationships, if you think you might be ok with open relationships, if you're not ok with them but think I'm sexy enough to consider changing your mind, or if you think you're a magical fairy that can turn me monogamous.

Also, if you're into Game of Thrones, I'd love to geek out and speculate on plotlines, characters, if GRRM will die before he finishes, etc.