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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 27
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: Is there some law about women making first contact on here? I simple "Hello" would suffice. ;-)

Dream as if you'll live forever...Live as if you'll die today - JD

I am different. I am me. A unique combination of brains and heart. I try to think outside of the box or look at the world through a different pair of glasses...

I am a hopeless romantic trapped in a realist's body.... I want forever, but one step at a time.....

I'm looking for strength and ambition in a woman with a little bit of a bad girl edge... Someone that takes life seriously when they need to, but still knows how to have fun and let go....

I am so over meeting people in a bar or club... I can never get a word in with the music and mutual attraction is only one part of the equation... I want a partner that will arrive with me and leave with me, accept me for who I am, flaws and all...

Besides, I'm a bit shy when it comes to approaching people I find attractive....

Genuinely interested in people, I can be entertained for hours by the intelligent banter of whomever I am with... The snapshots of a life I have shared with my inner circle could be a complete novel... Remembering to love deeply, to follow my dreams and try to remember every mind-blowing detail because the only thing that I can't get in this life is more time....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for my next really good band.... Raising my son to a gentleman...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The four right chords...I work on music best at odd hours... 4:00am.... no traffic, still dark.... There's a serenity to it the allows me to just flow.... I'm sure my neighbors appreciate it....


Using my intelligence, imagination and creativity to amuse myself...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll ask and get back to you...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Completely random... Generally, either horror/Vampire fiction or a technical resource manual for my job...

TV - I am down to Dexter, Bones, Fringe, House and educational....

Movies - Depends on the company..Tarrantino, Kubrick...dark, psychologically haunting or the flip side...immature and absolutely hilarious or the third side of the coin (can you balance a quarter on it's edge?)...cute flicks like Juno, Benny and Joon....

Music -
Pink Floyd (forever), Pink(yeah (I dig her a lot), Coldplay, Alanis Morissette, Anna Nalick (guilty pleasure), Audioslave, Beastie Boys, Ben harper, Black Eyed Peas, Bush, Clapton, Dead Can Dance, Dido, Enigma, Evanescence, Everlast, Fort Minor, Garbage, Gorillaz, Green Day, Guns N' Roses, Hooverphonic, Imogen Heap, Incubus, Janis Joplin, Jay-Z, Jimi Hendrix, Joseph Arthur, Joss Stone, Korn, Linkin Park, Massive Attack, Mazzy Star, Mike Ness, Matchbox 20, Natalie Imbruglia(guilty pleasure), No Doubt, Norah Jones, Oasis, Outkast, , Poe, Portishead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Robert Bradley, Ray Charles, Sarah Mclachlan, Seether, The Sex Pistols, Sisters of Mercy, Social D, Soundgarden, Stabbing Westward, Staind, Stephen Lynch, Sublime, Switchblade Symphony, The Cure (forever), The Verve, The Wallflowers, Toad the Wet Sprocket, Tom Waits, Erotic Lounge, Velvet Revolver .... Anything deep from any genre....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, my memories, my guitar, a blank journal and my imagination....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How did I get here?...or better yet...Why?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my son...Maybe out... Not much of a drinker, but I don't need to be chemically enhanced to have a good time...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am someone that you can bring home to meet your parents...

I am also someone that you could introduce to your dominatrix....

I am a man of many talents and few limitations

I'm a charming mess...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find my rant appealing....

You are completely dissatisfied with normal men...