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36 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:31pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I had been married to my job for way too long and because of the hours I kept, it was difficult to get out there and meet someone nice. And so I decided I needed to make space for a special someone to share my life with!! So I quit my job, and started my own company and I'm going to do what makes me happy. I decided this year, that the workaholic lifestyle has to change and that I need to go out and enjoy everything life has to offer. I'd love to chat with you if you are looking to start something real.

I have a soft spot for:
* Southern drawls
* A guy that's handy
* Epic movies (read: Braveheart, James Bond...)
* Someone who loves what they do
* Manners

I'd prefer a good home-cooked meal to a fancy restaurant any day. I'm working on making myself better everyday, whether mentally, physically, or emotionally.

Kindness to others is totally a turn-on. I've traveled the world and the thing it's taught me is that I just want to see more of it!
What I’m doing with my life
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This year is about making myself the best I can be...(not in a GI Joe sorta way), but in a "I want to look the best I've ever looked, be the happiest I've ever been, and enjoy my life and the people around me as much as possible" kind of way.
I’m really good at
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I'm good at:
*Making someone feel completely adored and cared for
*Making new acquaintances in random social environments
*Riding motorcycles
*Being charming, warm, and thoughtful.
*Being 5 min early for everything
*Misplacing my keys (amongst other things)... it seems like I've got a knack for misplacing stuff!
*Being responsible for people's kids (people always ask if they can leave their kids with me! What gives?)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm always making sure everyone is having a good time. It makes me happy when those around me are happy! :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Any cook book with photos or any Mitch Albom book
Movies: Drive, 300, Inglorious Bastards, Marley & Me, Shawshank Redemption, anything visually stimulating, I'm pretty easily entertained!
Shows: It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Dexter, Boardwalk Empire, Bones, How I Met Your Mother
Music: I listen to a bit of everything; from R&B, Hip-Hop, Indie Pop, Reggae,Country Music, pretty much everything except for Rock/Death Metal
Food: I eat pretty much everything, but I stick to a pretty clean diet of organic protein and veggies/fruit, but I don't deprive myself of other stuff if I want to eat it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My family & friends
2) My dogs, Rocco & Lola
3) My wheels
4) Weekly home-cooked meals with friends
5) The gym and a good heart-pumping workout
6) Mini-vacations/get-a-ways
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a TON of time thinking about how I'm going to fund my new venture. I also spend a lot of time thinking about what sort of trouble I can get myself into next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually making dinner at home for friends, or catching up all the week's shows on my DVR. Or getting out to happy hour!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've got a black belt in whiskey. :)
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