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InOaktown

33 / F / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:24pm
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I have been married to my job for way too long & bc of the hours I run, it makes it difficult to get out there and meet someone nice. And so I decided...F it all! So I quit my job, and started my own company and I'm going to do what makes me happy. I decided this year, that the workaholic lifestyle has to change and that I need to go out and enjoy everything life has to offer. (Edit: I think the entrepreneurial life has made me even more of a workaholic... so much for my first theory!) Shoot me a msg if you don't mind hanging out with a girl that has no set schedule and will enjoy random moments of time in life with you & then might be whisked away for another week or 2, and then comes back bc she misses your company, your smile, and your time.

I have a soft spot for:
* Southern drawls
* A guy that's handy
* Epic movies (read: Braveheart, James Bond...)
* Someone who loves what they do
* Manners

I'd prefer a good home-cooked meal to a fancy restaurant any day. I'm working on making myself better everyday, whether mentally, physically, or emotionally.

Kindness to others is totally a turn-on. I believe in the power of "Please" and "Thank you!"

I've traveled the world and the thing it's taught me is that I just want to see more of it! :)
What I’m doing with my life
This year is about making myself the best I can be...(not in a GI Joe sorta way), but in a "I want to look the best I've ever looked, be the happiest I've ever been, and enjoy my life and the people around me as much as possible" kind of way.

Strengthening my faith everyday.

Rediscovering my love/hate (mostly HATE) relationship with burpees... mostly left over from my Crossfit days... Oh how I miss Crossfit, but I don't think my back can put up with too many move OH squats/lifts.. :(

Figuring out how to use the fancy navigation in my new car... LOL
I’m really good at
Hmm...how do you go about this without sounding completely into yourself?

I'm good at:
*Making someone feel completely adored and cared for
*Cooking/Hosting/Entertaining
*Sniffing out people's BS
*Making new acquaintances in random social environments
*Riding motorcycles
*Being 5 min early for everything
*Misplacing my keys (amongst other things)... it seems like I've got a knack for misplacing stuff!
*Being responsible for people's kids (people always ask if they can leave their kids with me! What gives? lolz)
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know really, you've got to tell me when you meet me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: Any cook book with photos or any Mitch Albom book
Movies: Drive, 300, Inglorious Bastards, Marley & Me, Shawshank Redemption, anything visually stimulating, I'm pretty easily entertained!
Shows: It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Dexter, Boardwalk Empire, Bones, How I Met Your Mother
Music: I listen to a bit of everything; from R&B, Hip-Hop, Indie Pop, Reggae,Country Music, pretty much everything except for Rock/Death Metal
Food: I eat pretty much everything, but I stick to a primarily Paleo/Primal diet but I don't deprive myself of other stuff if I want to eat it!
The six things I could never do without
1) My friends & family
2) My faith
3) The gym and a good heart-pumping workout
4) Weekly home-cooked meals with friends
5) My dogs
6) Mini-vacations/get-a-ways
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a TON of time thinking about how I'm going to fund my new venture & counting grams of protein and timing out meals, and how the hell I can look like Laura Michelle Prestin... (If you know who she is.... you'll know it ain't gonna be easy!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Now that I no longer work in a bar, I'm usually making dinner at home for friends, or catching up all the week's shows on my DVR.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Put in the effort and ask, I've got nothing to hide!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you'd like. No pressure, no promises, no expectations.