"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you... every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." - Bob Marley
For the most part I have sworn off making first contact. I am tired of spending time writing a thought-out to people who never have the courtesy of a response. However, I do make exceptions for people that seem thoroughly interesting.
I am fairly laid back and often let others make decisions. People often confuse that with apathy. I care but usually have no strong preference, so if the other person does I will go along with that because I am happy either way. Although I am laid back, I have no problem stepping up and taking leadership when needed. I am caring and empathetic, and I believe in chivalry and romance. I will go out of the way to hold doors, help carry things, and help out in general. I am extremely eager to please. I am also completely comfortable and willing to hold a purse when needed. I believe in a good relationship making the other person happy should make you happy. I like flowers, candles, cuddling, and little surprises to let the other person know you were thinking of them. I have 4 new candles in my closet that I haven't opened yet. One of my favorite places to be is cuddling in bed talking. I also find cooking together to be very fun and romantic. Make an entire evening out of it - cooking and eating with a glass of wine, cleaning up together and then cuddling on the couch to watch TV or a movie. I have a good attitude and sense of humor, albeit my humor can be fairly dry or sarcastic at times. I love to smile and laugh and make others do the same. I am very caring and empathetic, which I believe is part of the reason I love working with patients in the hospital. I am a fan of open affection in relationships - kissing, holding hands, touching the other persons shoulder when walking by, ect...
I will step up into leadership roles if need be. I am told I have good leadership qualities. I believe in chivalry and romance. I will always try to hold doors for women and want to help by carrying things and such. I am willing and completely comfortable with holding a purse when needed. At work many of my coworkers come to me with problems, questions, or in need of clarification before going to their supervisor. I tend to procrastinate when I can, but will always have things done well and on time. I find I work the best and most efficiently if a deadline is coming up. I have a good attitude and sense of humor, although my sense of humor is typically dry. I am very compassionate and tend to have a lot of empathy - I believe this is why I do so well with patients in the hospital. In relationships I really try to do whatever I can to make the other person happy. I believe that in a good relationship making the other person happy should make you happy - you want to please. I believe in romance and chivalry - I make an effort to open doors and help out in general. As with romance, I like flowers, candles, cuddling, and little surprises to let the other person know you were thinking of them. One of my favorite places to be is cuddling in bed talking. I really love everything about it. I feel that it is intimate, being able to talk, feel the other person's skin, the warmth of their body, and lavish in their company.