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27 Topeka, KS Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 12
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I work as an emergency nurse and I love it! Some days can be exhausting both physically and emotionally, but I love what I do. I want to advance into trauma nursing. I like being at work and have tended to work a lot of overtime - while I am single, I do not have many other commitments. I figure the extra income is nice while I can get the hours.

When I am off work I tend to watch Netflix or stay in and relax from work. When the weather is nice, I like to go on walks, hiking, or doing some camping. I have been kayaking in the Ozarks a couple of times and want to go back again for that. I like good food and craft beer. I enjoy cooking, especially with someone else. I used to make pies with my grandmother, so I always make pies from scratch. I have also dabbled in some home brewing. Thus far I have only tried brewing with extracts, but would like to get the materials to do all-grain brewing.

I also love to travel! I have been to seven countries. The most recent travel I have done though has been inside the US. I went to Portland a few years ago and Boston this summer. Both were excellent trips!

I am a fairly laid back/easy going individual, but often step up and take leadership or will take control of a chaotic situation. I have also found I really enjoy teaching and mentoring.

I believe chivalry is not dead. I am polite and hold doors for others, always say "please" and "thank you," and am comfortable holding someone's purse when needed. I am also a bit of a romantic and like to cuddle.

(I found this quote and thought it was really good...)

"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you... every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." - Bob Marley
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as an ER nurse, with plans of eventually going back to become a practitioner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Animated gestures/facial expressions, some vocal impressions, baking pies, making others laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People have told me often how nice and polite I am. People my mother's age regularly tell her or I how I am going to make someone a great husband someday. That never stops getting weird.

People also notice my sense of humor once conversation starts and we are both able to relax some.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are several TV series I like to catch when on: Scrubs, Big Bang Theory, 30 Rock, Dirty Jobs w/ Mike Roe, Survivorman, Bizarre Foods w/ Andrew Zimmern, MythBusters, Family Guy, House, Seinfeld, Robot Chicken, House, and Futurama. Also really like True Blood but haven't made it past the second season. Recently I watched the entirety of Supernatural, Archer, and How I Met Your Mother.

Favorite books would have to be Moby Dick, The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings series, Terry Goodkind's Sword of Truth novels. I haven't done much reading outside of textbooks in the past few years.

I really enjoy live theater and have seen quite a few shows. Some of my favorites were seeing Chicago in London, Avenue Q, Cabaret, Urinetown, and Rocky Horror Picture Show. Spamalot is also great!

For music I like classic rock, modern rock, alternative and alternative rock. Country music is OK, but not my favorite, but I will listen to it over rap and hip-hop, which I find rather irritating. I do however really like Garth Brooks. For anyone in this area, my car radio is programmed to 96.5, 98.9, 99.3, 100.3, 101.1, and 101.5. Some of my favorite bands are Alice in Chains, STP, Mars Mushrooms, Sublime, Beatles, R.E.M, Hootie and the Blowfish, Goo Goo Dolls, Barenaked Ladies, The Who, and then just a variety of other songs by various artists.

I love just about all food. I am a bit of a beer snob and brew my own beer. I appreciate good food and drink and am willing to try anything once or twice as long as it won't kill me. The few things I have found I don't like to varying degrees are tripe, surströmming, and wasabi (and anything radish-related). I still have haggis and lutefisk on my list of strange foods to try. As a foodie, when I travel I try to seek out good food and local specialties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family
2) Friends
3) Education
4) Good food
5) Good drink
6) Electronics/Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend the vast majority of time thinking about school and work.

I also like to have deep philosophical debates at times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically at home. Other than my roommates, pretty much all of my friends I used to hang out with are out of town or state at this point. Or they have gotten married and have kids.

There is also a very good chance I will be working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Candles and craft beer are the only two things I will impulse buy. I always enjoy trying new beers, and I have probably half a dozen candles in my closet waiting to be used.

Also, even though I live with two other guys, I still always put the toilet seat down.
You should message me if
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You think we would get along well.

It may be less romantically satisfying for the woman to contact the man first, but I respect someone willing to take the first step.