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27 M Topeka, KS

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:27pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I read this quote elsewhere and thought it was beautiful. I feel like it expresses my feelings on love, so I had to steal it...

"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you... every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." - Bob Marley

For the most part I have sworn off making first contact. I am tired of spending time writing a thought-out to people who never have the courtesy of a response. However, I do make exceptions for people that seem thoroughly interesting.

I am fairly laid back and often let others make decisions. People often confuse that with apathy. I care but usually have no strong preference, so if the other person does I will go along with that because I am happy either way. Although I am laid back, I have no problem stepping up and taking leadership when needed. I am caring and empathetic, and I believe in chivalry and romance. I will go out of the way to hold doors, help carry things, and help out in general. I am extremely eager to please. I am also completely comfortable and willing to hold a purse when needed. I believe in a good relationship making the other person happy should make you happy. I like flowers, candles, cuddling, and little surprises to let the other person know you were thinking of them. I have 4 new candles in my closet that I haven't opened yet. One of my favorite places to be is cuddling in bed talking. I also find cooking together to be very fun and romantic. Make an entire evening out of it - cooking and eating with a glass of wine, cleaning up together and then cuddling on the couch to watch TV or a movie. I have a good attitude and sense of humor, albeit my humor can be fairly dry or sarcastic at times. I love to smile and laugh and make others do the same. I am very caring and empathetic, which I believe is part of the reason I love working with patients in the hospital. I am a fan of open affection in relationships - kissing, holding hands, touching the other persons shoulder when walking by, ect...

I will step up into leadership roles if need be. I am told I have good leadership qualities. I believe in chivalry and romance. I will always try to hold doors for women and want to help by carrying things and such. I am willing and completely comfortable with holding a purse when needed. At work many of my coworkers come to me with problems, questions, or in need of clarification before going to their supervisor. I tend to procrastinate when I can, but will always have things done well and on time. I find I work the best and most efficiently if a deadline is coming up. I have a good attitude and sense of humor, although my sense of humor is typically dry. I am very compassionate and tend to have a lot of empathy - I believe this is why I do so well with patients in the hospital. In relationships I really try to do whatever I can to make the other person happy. I believe that in a good relationship making the other person happy should make you happy - you want to please. I believe in romance and chivalry - I make an effort to open doors and help out in general. As with romance, I like flowers, candles, cuddling, and little surprises to let the other person know you were thinking of them. One of my favorite places to be is cuddling in bed talking. I really love everything about it. I feel that it is intimate, being able to talk, feel the other person's skin, the warmth of their body, and lavish in their company.
What I’m doing with my life
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I earned my B.S. in Biology and then decided to go back to school after taking a semester off. I am not preparing to graduate from nursing school this May. I want to do ER and trauma nursing. I have had lots of exposure in those areas working as a phlebotomist while I finish my degree. Once I am established socially and in my career, I would like to go back for my masters or to PA school to be a mid-level practitioner.

I absolutely love kids and wish I could spend more time at the hospital holding the newborns. I am a family guy and would love to have kids and a wife when the time and person are right.
I’m really good at
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I am an excellent phlebotomist, but I don't think they are wanting medical skills listed here...

I enjoy cooking and baking - my favorite is making pies from scratch. I am also good with electronics and computers - I have built and helped build several desktop systems. It seems I do well brewing beer also with my second batch turning out quite well recently.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People have told me often how nice and polite I am. People my mother's age regularly tell her or I how I am going to make someone a great husband someday. No matter how much that happens it still makes me slightly uncomfortable to have women telling me that. Or perhaps it is the frequency with which it happens that makes it all the more uncomfortable?

People also notice my sense of humor once conversation starts and we are both able to relax some.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are several TV series I like to catch when on: Scrubs, Big Bang Theory, 30 Rock, Dirty Jobs w/ Mike Roe, Survivorman, Bizarre Foods w/ Andrew Zimmern, MythBusters, Family Guy, House, Seinfeld, Robot Chicken, House, and Futurama. Also really like True Blood but haven't made it past the second season. Recently I watched the entirety of Supernatural, Archer, and How I Met Your Mother.

Favorite books would have to be Moby Dick, The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings series, Terry Goodkind's Sword of Truth novels. I haven't done much reading outside of textbooks in the past few years.

I really enjoy live theater and have seen quite a few shows. Some of my favorites were seeing Chicago in London, Avenue Q, Cabaret, Urinetown, and Rocky Horror Picture Show. Spamalot is also great!

For music I like classic rock, modern rock, alternative and alternative rock. Country music is OK, but not my favorite, but I will listen to it over rap and hip-hop, which I find rather irritating. I do however really like Garth Brooks. For anyone in this area, my car radio is programmed to 96.5, 98.9, 99.3, 100.3, 101.1, and 101.5. Some of my favorite bands are Alice in Chains, STP, Mars Mushrooms, Sublime, Beatles, R.E.M, Hootie and the Blowfish, Goo Goo Dolls, Barenaked Ladies, The Who, and then just a variety of other songs by various artists.

I love just about all food. I am a bit of a beer snob and brew my own beer. I appreciate good food and drink and am willing to try anything once or twice as long as it won't kill me. The few things I have found I don't like to varying degrees are tripe, surströmming, and wasabi (and anything radish-related). I still have haggis and lutefisk on my list of strange foods to try. As a foodie, when I travel I try to seek out good food and local specialties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family
2) Friends
3) Education
4) Good food
5) Good drink
6) Electronics/Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend the vast majority of time thinking about school and work.

I also like to have deep philosophical debates at times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically at home. Other than my roommates, pretty much all of my friends I used to hang out with are out of town or state at this point. Or they have gotten married and have kids.

I am switching to third shift at the hospital because it will go better with my school schedule for the last couple months before I graduate. So every other Friday night I will be working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Candles and microbrewery beer are the only two things I will impulse buy. I always enjoy trying new beers, and I have probably half a dozen candles in my closet waiting to be used.

Also, even though I live with two other guys, I still always put the toilet seat down.
You should message me if
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you actually made it through that dissertation, reached this point, and are still interested in me as a person.

It may be less satisfying to the romantic side for the woman to contact the guy first, but I respect someone willing to take the first step. I also figure if one doesn't make the first move when interested, the other may never find them on the internet to initiate contact.