I identify myself in a few different ways…
I’m a Gamer (Mostly PC)…
I’m a Kinkster…
I’m a Business Owner…
My business takes up the bulk of my time. I work every day and not all day but there are things I have to periodically check and I’m effectively always on call, but it allows me flexibility as well.
I play video games but usually not in excess. Maybe on release days and they’re my go to for stress relief. Usually I maintain a good balance. ...but yes I would game a lot more if time allowed it.
I’m an out of practice Kinkster. I was in a vanilla relationship for a time and hope to get back into kinky things in the near future. I feed off the person I’m playing with so your kink becomes mine. Play does not necessarily mean sex. I’m interested in finding play partners for a variety of things.
That being said I'm a firm believer in feminism, maybe not your version of feminism, but the version where a woman can choose her own path. Regardless of what that path might be high powered job, stay at home mom, or sexual deviant. Feminism means a lot of different things to a lot of different people but if we can't agree that it’s about being able to make your own choices then we don't need to talk
I can be stubborn and hard to get through to. Yet I am also a great listener and pretty good at giving real relevant advice, by real I mean truthful and not necessarily what you wanted to hear.
I am not religious at all. If God exists he either gave up on us long ago or got bored and created someone else to play with. I do at times go through some of the motions of religion, for my family's sake and because I do believe tradition is extremely important. I wish I had more of them in my life that weren't based on an imaginary friend or that didn't involve a recovery process of 18 to 72 hours. I do believe in the power of prayer and the church but not as something divine, I believe in a person’s ability to channel their own strength and I believe that community can come together to overcome adversity.
I'm a loyal person. I'm the guy you can call and will help you move. I'm the friend that will help you talk it out. Need some honest perspective I'm your guy. Need the truth/reality of a situation rather than being told what you want to hear, yup I'm that friend. I think outside the box and can usually help you avoid dumb decisions if you can actually accept and follow good sage like advice.
My dream girl is smart, she's adventurous, motivated, independent, sex positive, she also happens to get turned on if another woman flirts with me the idea of me having my way with another woman gets her wet, or us having our way with another woman. She also wants hers... and I’m happy to help fulfill her fantasies... but we don't cheat if we do something with someone else(s) we've discussed it either the situation or that person specifically. And she's kinky as fuck.
PS - If I rate you highly it doesn't necessarily mean I want to date you, fuck you or marry you. It may just be as simple as I respect what your profile represents or says. Maybe something in it moved me or I appreciated your outlook on something. Try not to read into it too much or just ask.
Also I am not in Rochester expect to drive at least 40 minutes (from Rochester) if you're truly interested.