Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I identify myself in a few different ways…
Poly, Poly Friendly...
I’m a Kinkster…
I’m a Business Owner…
I’m a Gamer (Mostly PC)…
I've been poly friendly for some time now but am now venturing into
actually being poly myself. I’m interested in meeting other poly
people, be it socially or something more involved.
I’m a Kinkster. I enjoy other people’s kinks, often the kinks of
the person I’m playing with will also become mine. Play does not
necessarily mean sex. I’m interested in finding play partners for a
variety of things. It’s probably best to just ask what they
I can pretty much guarantee my business is not what you'd expect. I
work every day, not all day but there are things I have to
periodically check and I’m effectively always on call, but it
allows me flexibility as well. In a perfect world I’d find a
partner that would also be a partner in business.
Yes, I play video games! I have been a gamer for almost as long as
there have been games to play. If this isn't something you can
accept then please don't bother. My platforms are PC, Xbox One and
I'm a firm believer in feminism, maybe not your version of
feminism, but the version where a woman can choose her own path.
Regardless of what that path might be high powered job, stay at
home mom, or sexual deviant. Feminism means a lot of different
things to a lot of different people but if we can't agree that it’s
about being able to make your own choices then we don't need to
I can be stubborn and hard to get through to. Yet I am also a great
listener and pretty good at giving real relevant advice, by real I
mean truthful and not necessarily what you wanted to hear.
I'm a loyal person. I'm the guy you can call and will help you
move. I'm the friend that will help you talk it out. Need some
honest perspective I'm your guy. Need the truth/reality of a
situation rather than being told what you want to hear, yup I'm
that friend. I think outside the box and can usually help you avoid
dumb decisions if you can actually accept and follow good sage like
My dream girl is smart, she's adventurous, motivated, independent,
sex positive... And she's kinky as fuck.
My needs from a partner... support in staying fit, is at the top of
that list. I need someone that if she isn't going to the gym or
working out or running or biking or hiking with me she's at least
encouraging me and pushing me to do those things. She's also aware
of what I eat and tries to encourage better habits especially if
I've gotten complacent with my own efforts.
PS - If I rate you highly it doesn't necessarily mean I want to
date you, fuck you or marry you. It may just be as simple as I
respect what your profile represents or says. Maybe something in it
moved me or I appreciated your outlook on something. Try not to
read into it too much or just ask.
Also I am not in Rochester, I’m in Geneva, that’s east and roughly
40 minutes away as long as you don’t drive like an old lady.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hitting the Gym
Gaming... is a part of who I am, if that's something you can't
abide then you need to move along. I'm mainly a PC gamer but I'm
currently giving Xbox One a try.
GTA V on Xbox One
Forza Horizon 2 on Xbox One
Dragon Age Inquisition on PC
Elder Scrolls Online on PC when I have time.
Right Now, editing my profile...?!?!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Offending People... (Unintentionally)
Not Being Offended...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: There's so much good TV out there... I'm just going to list
BSG. Firefly. Stargate. Breaking Bad. Walking Dead. Better Call
Saul. Band of Brothers.
Books: I'm not a big reader, I was growing up. I read most of
Tolkien's published works long before they were made into epic
movies, multiple times at that. Harry Potter... I read these when I
wasn't much of a reader so I could compare them to the movies...
and the Choose Your Own Adventure series... you would make a
decision at then have to go to a certain page and continue
reading... I wouldn't call it quality but they were great when I
Movies: I can't even begin to choose a favorite. I love the current
Marvel Franchise I just hope they can maintain the entertainment
level, and I hope they don't water down sequels (cough ironman3)
just to put something out there. I have a love hate relationship
with really bad/cheesy movies. LOTR/Hobbit definitely a huge fan.
Star Wars... Love the original trilogy and I'm very excited to see
the new movies that are being worked on and planned. That other
trilogy I have mixed feelings. Star Trek I like both new and old...
RIP Spock. And of course comedy everyone needs a laugh. And I have
a habit of watching movies people say are a waste of time and
sometimes they're right and sometimes I love them and sometimes I
love them because they were soo bad.
Music: I can listen to just about anything. I do lean towards Rock,
Metal, Heavy Metal and its variations. Sometimes I crave classical
music. I'm a fan of 2Cellos largely because of their covers but I
listen to their classical stuff as well. I don't listen to much
R&B I do get my dose through other people, movies, shows, I
don't hate it but I'm not drawn to it either.
Food: Americana, BBQ, Italian, Mexican, Indian, Chinese, etc... I'm
willing to try new things. I'm a pretty good cook. I can't chop and
dice like they do on TV but enjoy cooking, I have a few recipes
that I call my own... and I enjoy cooking something for the first
time and then cooking it again and changing it up to be more me.
I'm a firm believer that people should cook together way more than
they do, it should not require the alignment of the planets or a
solar eclipse or a blue moon to get it to happen, or some silly
holiday that's been over commercialized so the man can sell more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
buffalo wing based foods
like minded individuals
oh and those things that keep me alive (water air videos games tv
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How Awesome Would it be if Purple Hair made a person taste like
How Blanket Forts Are Awesome! (until someone farts in it)
Why people take pictures with their hoarder pile in the
Why the IRS insists my inner child doesn't count as an
BDSM, LOI, DV, DP, DA... stuff like that!
Assuming the world is round and that time is infinite would you
like some flapjacks?
Why Slut Shamming is a thing...?
Why "You're as Hot As My Balls on a hot summer day!" isn't a
winning pickup line?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym...
I currently workout at the gym 4-5 times a week (1½ to 2 hours
usually) and I supplement that with workouts at home. Weights or
P90X. Friday is usually a workout day mainly because most people
don't go on Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Have you read my profile... seriously you want more than
I don't judge... very little you can say will shock me...
You should be willing to admit that if you matched with me above
90% that you have _ _ _ _ _ y or _ _ _ _ y tendencies...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want someone to watch Game of Thrones from the beginning
If you can figure out which parts of my profile are humorous and
which are serious...
You think dominating a girl together is a good couples activity, or
you want to be that girl.
If you eat beef, chicken, turkey, pork and all their cousins and
their tasty variations or at least won't piss and moan when I do.
I'm working hard to eat more veggies but eating them more is as far
as that will go... and try to take away my cheese and I'll cut
You have a fetlife account and know how to use it.
You know how to tell someone what you want.
You've been secretly stalking me and I haven't noticed!
You're sweet and innocent and would like to change that. <- Is
that too creepy?
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