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35 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Updated, February 13th, 2015...

I identify myself in a few different ways…

Poly, Poly Friendly...
I’m a Kinkster…
I’m a Business Owner…
I’m a Gamer (Mostly PC)…

I've been poly friendly for some time now but am now venturing into actually being poly myself. I have a primary but currently no secondary. I’m interested in meeting other poly people, be it socially or something more involved.

I’ve seen friends and acquaintances get the shaft from people that, in my opinion, do poly wrong. I’m no expert but I don’t believe poly should be used to trade up, or as an excuse for bad decisions. I know it happens but if you’ve done it multiple times you should probably reevaluate what you think poly is.

I’m a Kinkster. I enjoy other people’s kinks, often the kinks of the person I’m playing with will also become mine. Play does not necessarily mean sex. I’m interested in finding play partners for a variety of things. It’s probably best to just ask what they are.

My business takes up a fair amount of my time. I work every day, not all day but there are things I have to periodically check and I’m effectively always on call, but it allows me flexibility as well. In a perfect world I’d find a partner that would also be a partner in business.

Yes, I play video games! I have been a gamer for almost as long as there have been games to play. It is something you either can accept or better yet would also be into. My platforms are PC, Xbox One and WiiU.

I'm a firm believer in feminism, maybe not your version of feminism, but the version where a woman can choose her own path. Regardless of what that path might be high powered job, stay at home mom, or sexual deviant. Feminism means a lot of different things to a lot of different people but if we can't agree that it’s about being able to make your own choices then we don't need to talk.

I can be stubborn and hard to get through to. Yet I am also a great listener and pretty good at giving real relevant advice, by real I mean truthful and not necessarily what you wanted to hear.

I'm a loyal person. I'm the guy you can call and will help you move. I'm the friend that will help you talk it out. Need some honest perspective I'm your guy. Need the truth/reality of a situation rather than being told what you want to hear, yup I'm that friend. I think outside the box and can usually help you avoid dumb decisions if you can actually accept and follow good sage like advice.

My dream girl is smart, she's adventurous, motivated, independent, sex positive, she gets turned on if another woman flirts with me the idea of me having my way with another woman gets her wet, or us having our way with another woman. Watching her seduce a man and have her way with him is definitely a turn on. I’m happy to help fulfill her fantasies... but we don't cheat if we do something with someone else(s) we've discussed it either the situation or that person specifically. And she's kinky as fuck.

PS - If I rate you highly it doesn't necessarily mean I want to date you, fuck you or marry you. It may just be as simple as I respect what your profile represents or says. Maybe something in it moved me or I appreciated your outlook on something. Try not to read into it too much or just ask.

Also I am not in Rochester, I’m in Geneva, that’s east and roughly 40 minutes away as long as you don’t drive like an old lady.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Losing Weight
Hitting the Gym
Getting Kinkier

Gaming... is a part of who I am, if that's something you can't abide then you need to move along. I'm mainly a PC gamer but I'm currently giving Xbox One a try.

GTA V on Xbox One
Forza Horizon 2 on Xbox One
Dragon Age Inquisition on PC
Elder Scrolls Online on PC when I have time.

Right Now, editing my profile...?!?!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Offending People... (Unintentionally)
Not Being Offended...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sex toys
buffalo wing based foods
like minded individuals
oh and those things that keep me alive (water air videos games tv emissions etc)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How Awesome Would it be if Purple Hair made a person taste like grape?!?!

How Blanket Forts Are Awesome! (until someone farts in it)

Why people take pictures with their hoarder pile in the background?

Why the IRS insists my inner child doesn't count as an exemption!?!?

BDSM, LOI, DV, DP, DA... stuff like that!

Assuming the world is round and that time is infinite would you like some flapjacks?

Why Slut Shamming is a thing...?

Why "You're as Hot As My Balls on a hot summer day!" isn't a winning pickup line?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym...

I currently workout at the gym 4-5 times a week (1½ to 2 hours usually) and I supplement that with workouts at home. Weights or P90X. Friday is usually a workout day mainly because most people don't go on Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Have you read my profile... seriously you want more than that...

I don't judge... very little you can say will shock me...

You should be willing to admit that if you matched with me above 90% that you have _ _ _ _ _ y or _ _ _ _ y tendencies...
You should message me if
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If you can figure out which parts of my profile are humorous and which are serious...

You think dominating a girl together is a good couples activity, or you want to be that girl.

If you eat beef, chicken, turkey, pork and all their cousins and their tasty variations or at least won't piss and moan when I do. I'm working hard to eat more veggies but eating them more is as far as that will go... and try to take away my cheese and I'll cut you.

You have a fetlife account and know how to use it.

You know how to tell someone what you want.

You've been secretly stalking me and I haven't noticed!

You're sweet and innocent and would like to change that. <- Is that too creepy?