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46 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
The honey badger is my spirit animal. I keep my overhead expenses low so I can go crazy on dining and travel vs. rent and commuting. I love the feeling of falling asleep smiling. I despise writing self-summaries but grudgingly admit they're probably a good idea.
What I’m doing with my life
Hating on cliches, literally - so if I find a partner in crime who is dying to meet me, that "crime" might turn out to be a murder-suicide.

Wondering if the guys who post the shirtless, headless, self-held bathroom mirror pics are actually onto something... Genius, right?

Plotting escape from traditional workplace to a higher level of play, on a global scale.
I’m really good at
being modest, succint.
The first things people usually notice about me
cinnamon and sugary and softly spoken lies
you never know just how you look through other people's eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There used to be lots of stuff here.

I like the empty space better.

It feels like I can appreciate more without trying to collect cool points.
The six things I could never do without
Only 3:
- a plan to live an amazing life
- skills and resources to make it happen
- some challenges to make the story interesting

3 Nice to haves:
- smart, unconventional, kind-hearted and big-souled companions for the journey
- good food, music, art, books
- moments of bliss in nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
an experiment where researchers would try to cut in a line of office workers waiting to make copies. When they asked "would you mind if I cut in front of you?" their requests were rejected. When they said "would you mind if I cut in front of you, because I have something to copy?" they were allowed to cut.

Is it really that easy? Do I just need to say"because" to you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like decisive, spontaneous and forthright people who manage their logistics and handle their baggage. I don't always pick up on social cues so sometimes when girls try to play hard to get, I just assume that they're stupid. My bad...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Really? Isn't that the whole point?

Also, definitely contact me if you've ever scared guys with fragile egos away by being too gorgeous, smart, successful or competent. I'll be too busy appreciating you to bother being intimidated.