Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


53 F Woodstock, GA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Disclaimer: I really don't take myself too seriously

I work hard because I have to but enjoy taking time off to enjoy the downtime. I walk every morning giving me time to plan, dream, pray, concentrate on being at peace. I have varied interests but more importantly is the companion I am with than the activity. I get a charge out of spontaneous dates/trips/activities but can plan and enjoy an evening/event that will be memorable.

I am educated, well read, socially acceptable and refined. I am also homespun, reliable and laid back. I love country back roads as much as cityscapes. Most men find me charming, engaging, kind and easy to be with. I am not a type A personality. I am extremely feminine and enjoy being that way. I will never apologize for being a woman. In my closet you will find stilettos, cowboy boots, athletic shoes and flats. I am not pretentious or a snob. I can enjoy high brow and down home. I was once described as a dichotomy and I liked that.

I am a widow of 9 years with a college aged son that lives away. I am available and emotionally ready to date. I have had hardships in my life but prefer to learn from those and move forward instead of becoming bitter or dragging along old baggage. I have learned to be independent although look forward to a day when I can be dependant on my man. I am very traditional in many ways.

I am a woman of faith and would love a companion to be by my side in church. My Christian faith is my foundation which all decisions are measured by. I am not a regular church attender although enjoy it and need it when I make the time for it. I just hate being alone at church.

I am not into playing games unless it is on the court, field or green. I enjoy meeting honest men who are independent, smart, witty and confident because I am the same. I am not afraid of meeting you in person and prefer to do so quickly rather than later. Sometimes emails tend to go on and on.

I think it is still fun to discover things together so you must like adventures! I love when a man notices the small stuff. I want a man to be a man, strong, opinionated and willing to take the lead. I grew up with secure, tall men in my life and have always been drawn to that type. He also needs to be compassionate and giving, someone that can carry on a conversation with insight and interest. I love a man that challenges me to think and not merely follow others opinions. I am a learner so enjoy being introduced to new activities and subjects.

If you are someone that thinks it is sexy for a woman to hang on your every word but challenges you to be articulate, to walk beside you hand in hand but wants to be wrapped in your arms on the sofa, to be dressed to the nines but can be dirt smudged digging in the garden than you might like me. I have a big heart and I love being an encourager.
I’m really good at
Making you smile . . . oh and I can cook
The first things people usually notice about me
Of course it is my bright and shining smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy a good book, play, movie, fine wine and someone special to talk with. I love the theatre and attend as much as possible. I love live music in all forms. I have a huge respect for anyone that is talented enough to share their gifts publicly. I have raised a son that loves sports therefore I love them also. It is fun to follow a team whether it is the local high school team or the professional league. I enjoy being a fan. Some of my favorite times have been watching him play sports, including college ball.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why OK Staff Robot dude says I am more adventurous but less energetic than other straight women my age - maybe I should say I am gay - will that turn the ratings more in my favor??? Totally offended ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Wondering if I look like a loser if someone sees me on OKCupid on a Friday night!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That some of my answers I did while playing scrabble, intoxicated while dancing around the room.

I also dont know how to log out of the OKcupid app so it shows me ALWAYS online
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
The last man I dated for any length of time replied to me via email: "You probably simply need to find a centered, Christian, tall, strong, well established, viral and healthy man who is independent but interested in a traditional role, intelligent but practical, caring and fun, but an authoritative leader with more than enough time, libido and respect for you."

I was amazed at how on the money he was. If you are this kind of man, I am looking for you.

I would also like to add if you haven't spent the time to really decide what you want in a relationship it might be a good idea. If you contact me wanting FWB be honest, although that is not what I am seeking. If I find out after date two it kinda sucks. Even strong confident women are just little girls at the heart level.