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31 M Astoria, NY

My Details

Last Online
Feb 14
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Polish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Louis, an NYC transplant originally from Ohio (no judging a book by its cover please ;). I moved here in 2007, almost 7 years ago. It's been a wild ride and it's amazing how fast time flies when you're having fun. I've paid my dues, earned my stripes, and working toward the next phase of my career and life.

I'm into art, adult beverages (bourbon, beer, or wine), city parks, coffee, comedy, dive bars, fashion, museums, music, philosophy, photography, reading, road trips, sports (long distance running, college basketball & football, Major League Baseball, snowboarding), tea, tattoos, traveling the world, and outdoorsy stuff like biking, hiking, camping, and boating. I also have a healthy obsession with 90s music & movies.

My life revolves around setting attainable goals, working smart, and playing hard. I am interested in meeting a special lady who is affectionate, supportive, and loyal.

If wit, drive, sophistication, class, and a little nerdiness are descriptive words often used about you, then chances are we will get along really well.
What I’m doing with my life
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in five parts:
1) business development in the music industry on Wall Street (best irony ever!)
2) independent record label + music publishing company owner
3) performing solo artist
4) notary public, state of New York
5) TaskRabbit helping out fellow New Yorkers
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
following through with commitments, communicating with all personality types, putting life into perspective, and not capitalizing the first word in sentences ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
blue eyes and friendly smile. people have told me on several occasions that I resemble Kurt Cobain, a complement I am flattered to accept.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: A Farewell to Arms, Ernest Hemingway
A Long Way Down, Nick Hornby
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, Judith Viorst
Harry Potter Series, J.K. Rowling (... yes, call it a guilty pleasure!)
High Fidelity, Nick Hornby
John Coltrane, Bill Cole
Slaughter-House-Five, Kurt Vonnegut
The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Stephen Chbosky
The Shack, William P. Young
This Side of Paradise, F. Scott Fitzgerald

movies: 25th Hour, About Schmidt, Almost Famous, American Beauty, An Inconvenient Truth, The Big Lebowski, Bottle Rocket, Can’t Hardly Wait, Closer, The Dead Poet's Society, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Garden State, Good Will Hunting, The Graduate, High Fidelity, I Heart Huckabees, Immortal Beloved, Juno, The Life Aquatic, Little Miss Sunshine, Lost in Translation, Mallrats, Office Space, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Santa Clause the Movie, Say Anything, Sideways, Spinal Tap, Spaceballs, The Sure Thing, That Thing You Do, Trainspotting, The Virgin Suicides, The Wedding Singer, While You Were Sleeping, Without Limits...

shows: Suits, Doctor Who, 24, Doug, Family Guy, Californication, The Simpsons, Fringe, House, Futurama, Ren and Stimpy, Rocko's Modern Life, Roundhouse, Scrubs, Boy Meets World, Legends of the Hidden Temple, Nickelodeon GUTS, Workaholics, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Hatfields & McCoys, American Pickers, Pawn Stars, American Restoration...

music: Adele, Aimee Mann, Arcade Fire, The Beach Boys, The Beatles, Beck, Ben Folds (Five), The Black Keys, Blonde Redhead, Bob Dylan, Brand New, Cara Salimando, Copeland, The Cure, Damien Rice, Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Depeche Mode, Elliott Smith, Explosions In The Sky, The Fray, Foo Fighters, Fun., Gotye, Gregory and The Hawk, Green Day, Gustav Mahler, Imogen Heap, Ingrid Michaelson, Iron and Wine, Jacks Mannequin, Jack White, Jeff Buckley, Jenny Owen Youngs, Johnny Cash, John Coltrane, John Lennon, Keane, Kelly Clarkson, The Killers, Led Zeppelin, Matchbox Twenty, MGMT, Miles Davis, Modest Mouse, Muse, Neon Trees, Nirvana, Norah Jones, Passion Pit, Pavement, Phoenix, The Postal Service, Queen, Radiohead, Regina Spektor, Saves The Day, The Shins, Simon and Garfunkel, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths, Snow Patrol, Something Corporate, Stephen Malkmus, Sufjan Stevens, Third Eye Blind, Thom Yorke, Vampire Weekend, The White Stripes, Weezer...

food: Italian, Thai, Indian, Japanese and Chinese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) love
2) family & friends
3) music
4) meaningful conversation
5) laughing until I cry
6) parties
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
in three parts:
1) how young people in New York City tend to have Peter Pan syndrome (that's why dating is challenging!)
2) the meaning of life (I mean seriously, who doesn't wonder about why we live to work, not work to live in America?)
3) the reality that regardless of elaborate planning or preparedness in life, everything falls into place one way or the other; often for the best -> aka not sweating the small things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
checking out a band, catching up with friends, or most likely staying in to catch up on lost sleep from a busy workweek. Actually, my favorite nights to go out, especially on dates, are weeknights:
1) it's quiet so we don't have to yell to each other over the noise
2) there are actually seats at the bar
3) bartenders aren't overwhelmed by crowds so service is way better.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
nada, gotta leave some mystery for later ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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keeping the messaging to a minimum is okay. I would rather meet in person and take the time to get to know you.