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40 M Indianapolis, IN

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 28–41
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I once made minute-rice in 58 seconds.
I occasionally pretend that the laws of physics don't apply to me.
I like to hold the door open for people who are far away, just to watch them run towards me.
When I was 11 years old, I took my parents car out for a spin on a Saturday night, and got caught while heading up the driveway.
I used to be a Type-A personality, but worked on it a bit and now consider myself a Type-B+.
I was hung over when I took my SAT's in high school.
I've never been to a state fair, county fair or Lilith Fair.
If your profile pic is a car, I will assume that you're a Transformer.
Speaking of cars, there's no need to hide your keys from me. I'm past the joyriding days of my youth.

Outgoing, energetic, educated, well-traveled semi-alpha type with a sarcastic sense of humor; entrepreneur imported from Ohio who loves dogs, craft beer and socializing. Self-taught in all the construction trades, I build, remodel, construct and design shit in my spare it the renovation of my 1931 house or a certain piece of furniture I've had my eye on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
It’s important to note that I never wear dresses, panties or pumps. This is a key, since most of the guys on this website are closet cross dressers. Haha – totally kidding.
I stay pretty active, but not over-the-top kind of active. I work out regularly, am pretty social, optimistic and value human connection. I like to think that I'm pretty funny, engaging, ever-so-slightly intelligent with a penchant for boyish exuberance at times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease. I typically ask a host of questions because I'm curious about people, whether I've known them for five minutes or five years.
I'm also pretty good at initiating conversations and keeping them going. It can be exhausting sometimes, especially if I'm with someone who is essentially boring. Please don't be boring. Please. Don't.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Head, shoulders, knees and toes...knees and toes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Yes, yes, yes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I feel fortunate for what I have in life, but I would like to think that I could lose it all and still maintain a healthy outlook. Any philosophy buffs out there familiar with Seneca and his writings on Stoicism? Anybody?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we make this dating thing so difficult. There seems to be a "tyranny of choice" on OKC: Logic suggests that having options allows people to select precisely what makes them happiest. But, as studies repeatedly show, abundant choice often makes for misery.

But when I'm not thinking of that, I also think about things like:
- What does the third "W" in BW3's represent?
- Why can't dogs cough?
- How much do all the insects worldwide weigh?
- How many people know that the population of California is greater than Canada...or that Pluto is smaller than Russia?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I typically meet friends for beer, revelry and general delinquency.
You should message me if
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I'm really just looking for someone who hates the same things as I do. And if she has freckles and/or dimples, well...we should just make wedding plans right now (j/k).
Oh, and please, please...if every one of your photos is a group shot, don't make me play "Where's Waldo?" trying to figure out which one is you.

P.S. The "Located anywhere" response in the I'm Looking For" section above is a tad misleading. While my job allows for a tremendous amount of freedom and travel, I'm not looking to date a woman in Budapest. So, let's use a radius of 180 miles as a starting point and see how that goes.

Also, I'm not 40 years old.