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Inequilibrium

23 Melbourne, Australia Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Mar 11
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a fairly introspective and reserved person, and I don't like talking about myself, especially not publicly... so I don't know how much I can put on a public profile. I don't want to be one of those generic "I have no idea what to write here!" people, I just find I can explain myself much better in a personal conversation, or to meet particular prompts/questions that let me go into detail on relevant topics. Otherwise I'd go into detail on everything and never shut up.

I tend to like just listening to other people, learning about them and how they think, rather than saying a lot myself... Until an issue I have a strong opinion on or a topic I'm passionate about comes up, then it's hard to shut me up.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Uni now, not much of a clue what comes next. I'm studying Commerce at Melbourne Uni, with a major in Economics, which I swear is much less tedious and more interesting than most things that come to mind when you hear "Commerce".
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rambling on about a topic in terrifyingly obsessive detail long after whoever I'm talking to has stopped caring.

And listening. I'm a great listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably how completely awkward I seem to make every situation. Well, and that I tend to be pretty quiet unless I have something of substance to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
If I try to answer this, I'll probably go on forever, because there are so many things I love for different reasons, and few can be called "favourites" above any others. But I'll do my best to keep it brief...

Books: Haven't read nearly enough since finishing school, but some of my old favourites would be anything by Douglas Adams (The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, etc), the His Dark Materials series, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, and To Kill a Mockingbird.

Movies: Usually things that are a bit different to the norm. Fight Club, Donnie Darko, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Scott Pilgrim... Also Pixar and Disney animated movies, and a few anime films like Summer Wars and The Girl Who Leapt Through Time.

TV Shows: I'll try to keep it short, since I watch far too many.
Sitcoms - Arrested Development, Community, Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, and anything else that's clever, original and does not have a laugh track/audience.
Anime - Anything really good. Fullmetal Alchemist, FLCL, Cowboy Bebop, Welcome to the NHK and Durarara are a few favourites.
Other Stuff - Joss Whedon (Buffy/Angel/Firefly/Dollhouse/Dr Horrible), of course. Bryan Fuller's shows (Dead Like Me, Pushing Daisies) if they didn't keep getting cancelled so damn fast. Doctor Who/Torchwood. Chuck. Veronica Mars. Breaking Bad.

Games - This isn't actually part of the question! Disappointing, OKCupid. Anyway, I've found lots of favourites over the years, but I'd start by mentioning Mario, Zelda, Phoenix Wright, and anything else awesome I can find time for. I like games that incorporate lots of puzzles, but are not strictly puzzle games (hence Zelda).

Music: I'm bad at this. Don't really have favourite bands or genres. I tend to mainly listen to music that I've heard in some other context, like a movie/TV show/game. I'm somewhat obsessed with music used for storytelling purposes. Also, musicals are great.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I need six things? Is that meant to suggest there's stuff I can't do with just my computer and phone?

Well, for four more, there's the fridge, bed, shower and clothes. I guess.

Or if I'm gonna be less specious, my life would suck more without video games, TV shows, my ability to think rationally and open-mindedly, and my friends.

I probably put friends last because, clearly, I'm an antisocial shut-in. But I still need them. Sometimes I'll start to go crazy if I can't get some quiet time by myself, but feeling alone in the world is far, far worse.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Over thinking is my speciality.

If there's one thing my mind spends a lot of time fixated on, it's probably the nature of society, stereotypes, labels, prejudices, social pressures, and anything else that relates to who we are and how we judge others. I like to talk about them in ways that help others open their minds to looking at things from a different perspective.

One prominent example of ways in which societal expectations and conditioning piss me off is gender and sexuality. I think labels are simplifications, and often poor ones - for example, while my profile claims that I'm "bisexual", that's a pretty big generalisation for something as complex and multi-dimensional as sexuality. I don't really know what my sexuality is, so I'm just figuring it out as I go.

Oh yeah, and I like ranting about random philosophical and psychological crap. Evidently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Haha, this is a loaded question implying that I have a life. I'm not biting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
[Insert sexual fantasy of your choosing here.]

I tell people private things once I feel like I can trust them.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't really need any special reason, I guess. I'm kind of indifferent. But I guess if I didn't want to communicate with people in some way, I wouldn't be here.

As far as active encouragement goes: if you're a decent, trustworthy, honest, open-minded person, then please go ahead and message me.

Oh, also, I like weird/different people. Don't be too normal. That's boring.