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26 Raleigh, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:00am
Straight, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Deactivating here in a few days, so this is your last chance to drop me a line.

I'm passionate and creative, yet logical and organized. I love my career, though don't really want to talk about it. I keep my work at work.
My passion is writing, actually, music and writing are my lifeline.

I'm pretty sure when I had a blood transfusion the Doctor agreed that caffeine would serve me better than blood in my veins. =D

What do you want to know about me? Just ask!

The Maid of Honor - Deliberate Gentle Love Master (DGLM)
INFP - The Healer

Warning: This person is super huggable. Short periods of contact may result in the desire for a whole lot more. Loss of sleep, racing heart, straying thoughts, and rerouted blood flow may occur.

~ I may update this soon as the fancy strikes me.
(Profile last updated: 04/20/2015)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying my current job in the IT field, learning new things daily keeps me pretty stoked!
On that note, I work 2nd shift with Thursdays and Fridays off, so if that schedule doesn't work with yours don't bother messaging me. I like my schedule, and I'm not changing it anytime soon.

I love being outdoors in nature, planning a hike here in the next week or so, if I can wrangle a friend into it with me. Let's make good decisions, and get lost in the woods! =D

Trusting, but verifying.

I started on the Power 90 workout program 2 months ago now, and I honestly don't think I can ever go back to being that person who doesn't work out. I don't have a set plan for when I finish this program, but I know for sure I'll be doing something!!!

And yes, that feeling after a good workout is STILL BETTER THAN SEX!

Finding Inspiration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at driving people crazy, writing, being sarcastically humorous, and piquing your interest. ^.~
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first things people notice about me are probably my lips (or my smile if I grant you one), my nose, and my eyes. Personality wise; the mirth in my eyes, the bounce in my step, and my witty retorts.
I've been told that I have a bubbly personality. =)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is a long list, so let's go with most recent favorites!

A Song of Ice and Fire series by George R. R. Martin
Angels and Demons by Dan Brown
The Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan
Whiteout by Ken Follet
The Meredith Gentry series, and Anita Blake series, by Laurell K. Hamilton
Imajica by Clive Barker
Don't worry, there's a whole lot more. Ask and you shall receive!

Gangster Squad
Iron Man (I & II)
Sucker Punch
Water for Elephants
What the Bleep Do We Know?
Friends with Kids
Fight Club
Clive Barker's Book of Blood

Doctor Who
Game of Thrones
Once Upon A Time
Family Guy

Elfen Lied
Code Geass
Neon Genesis Evangelion
Attack on Titan
Full Metal Panic
Death Note
Sword Art Online
(This list is longer. Message for more.)

Well, my current Playlist is this;
When It Won't Save You - Conditions
Drown - Bring Me The Horizon
Geronimo - Sheppard
Under The Sheets - Ellie Goulding
Outside - Calvin Harris feat. Ellie Goulding
This Is Gospel - Panic! At The Disco
Sleep Well, Darling - Secrets
Hallelujah - Panic! At The Disco
Shut Up and Dance - Walk the Moon
Lose Myself [feat. Lynn Gunn] - Seven Lions
Your Biggest Mistake - Ellie Goulding
Break Free [feat. Zedd] - Ariana Grande

I'm also hopelessly addicted to!

- Tea from Teavana
- Red Wine (Specifically Cabernet Sauvignon)
- Ramune (On a Rainy Day, with Pocky)
- Fruit (Specifically berries or exotic such as Kiwano Fruit (Horned Melons), Goji berries (Wolf berries), Strawberries, Blackberries, Pomegranates, Pineapples, etc.)
- Italian or Tuscan cuisine
- Sushi! <3
& More to be added later
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My Tablet* or my smart phone*. I'm an Android girl.
2) My job. I love it!
3) My Kindle.
4) Caffeine.
5) My Yaris.
6) My family and friends. <3

In order from least to greatest.

* Tablet - Galaxy Note 10.1 2014 Edition
* Smart Phone - Sony Xperia Z3
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever news story I've recently been exposed to, and shaking my head. Realistic, but hopeful.

If love is the strongest force in the universe, then what happens if we love those who've wronged us?

Quantum Physics is much more interesting than IT.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Normally hanging out with friends, whether we're playing CAH, or headed out.
I LOVE catching live music!!! <3
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
‎"If you want to get under my skin, intense and brutal honesty coupled with raw emotion is it."

Also, Nyan Cat makes me feel ridiculously bubbly inside.

If I'm to lose myself, I'd rather go out in a blaze of glory than fade a slow meaningless death.
What we accomplish in life is all that remains, the grander and brighter it is, the more people will talk and the longer we live on.
Death is a small price to pay for immortality.
I'd rather fly once and never again, than hesitate and never fly at all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm picky about the following;
+ Career - Are you going somewhere? Do you have plans/goals for the future? Do you earn a decent wage?
+ Interests/hobbies - Do we have shared interests, hobbies, passions?
+ Social - Do you have your own friends? Will/Do your friends like me? Will/Do my friends like you? This extends to family if/when things get serious.
+ Communication - Are you able to communicate well orally? Do you know/use proper grammar?
+ Animals - Are you compassionate? Do you like animals? Having a pet that you can and do care for well is a plus!
+ Humor - Does our sense of humor mesh? Dry, sarcastic, witty, a little pervy? 
+ Intelligence - Can you hold a conversation about almost ANY topic? Are you logical? Are you emotionally intelligent? Must have a decent long and short term memory as well.
+ Direction/Drive - Do you know what you want out of life? Are you willing to do what it takes to get there?
+ Physical Attraction - Preferably you're taller than me. I have a weakness for blue, green, and hazel eyes. I also prefer dark hair. I don't mind a little extra weight, but to be honest, more than that and the thought of sex both confuses me and makes me a little nauseous. 
+ Lifestyle - You must be cleanly and organized
+ Bonus - A connection, a spark, undefinable.