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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:48pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Has kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an athetistic, opinionated, liberal, that smokes almost a pack of cigarettes a day. I believe in equal rights for everyone, regardless of skin pigment, sexual orientation, gender, or any other distinguishing feature.

I've had this profile for a number of years now and have gone on a few dates, had a number of relationships, and have had a couple of flings. But every single time, I have not found what I am looking for.

I could tell you that I have a number of different qualities that may be the ones listed in your profile as ones you are looking for, but I don't think it would really matter. It really appears that online dating is more about what a person looks like, and less about the type of person they are. It is as if it is more about sex and sex appeal, than it is about quality of personality.

Over the years, I have sent out countless messages in hopes of striking up a conversation only to never receive a reply. I'm not talking about messages composed of 'Hey there sexy. How are you?' Or even the dreaded 'Hi'. I am referring to messages that take a moment to compose, that usually makes refence to something in the profile of the person that I messaging.

Call me odd, but not sending a reply back to someone that took the time and effort into personalizing their greeting has always seemed a bit rude. Even a simple, 'Not interested'. I guess I am expecting too much.

Or maybe that isn't such a bad thing, since I crave communication, openness, and compassion above all else. If I message someone and they don't reply, that can be considered a sign that communication isn't what they are really looking for, even if it is listed in their profile. Someone that isn't open to the possibility that I may be the one that inspires butterfly wings to be felt with, when we are together, because my wrapping is a little frayed. Someone that isn't compassionate enough to take a few moments out of their busy lives, to create dialogue between two human beings.

Maybe I am too much of a dreamer and romantic. Maybe I am too open to the possibility that the next woman I start chatting with could be the gal I have been looking for, for too long. Maybe I care too much about wishing to find someone with similar principles, desires, and hopes. Maybe. Just maybe.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I wish I could say something like I am living my life to its fullest and following all of my dreams.

The honest answer is, I am living my life day by day. Moment by moment. Making ends meet and dreaming of a better day.

I have been going through one of those rough patches in life, that we all go through, and am sort of like a raft caught out at sea. Drifting along in the current. Direction less, with no land insight.

It has taken a bit of searching and ingenuity, but i finally have the materials to make a compass. The problem is, I don't know which direction to travel. I am willing and able to make the journey. I just need a bit of hope and a beacon to guide me home.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I could tell you that I am good at any number of things. I could sit here for hours listing them all out. The truth is, the only truly important things that I am good at are being understanding, being compassionate, and willing to trust. All of the other stuff is just fluff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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If it deals with science, science fiction, geekdom, beauty, love, or truth I will probably listen/watch/read it.

I could make long lists of things that have impacted me emotionally, stirred my imagination, or have made me want to become a better person, but I won't. I am much more than the sum of the media that I have consumed over the years.

I will mention that, when it comes to food, I lean more and more towards a vegetarian lifestyle. That doesn't mean I won't eat meat. I embrace the inner carnivorous side, from time to time, but if given the choice of a plate full of veggies and tofu or a steak, I will typically choose the veggie plate. Sushi would be the one exception to that. If I had the means to do so, I would probably eat sushi/sashimi many times a week.