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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-41
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:41am
Open relationship
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm always curious, always looking for fun, novelty, adventure, and new experiences. People are fascinating to me and getting to know a new, interesting person is a total turn on. I love art, literature, and film. I love creative people and those who view the world from their own particular perspective. Boredom is my biggest enemy.
I'm fine with you being married, single, attached, unattached, whatever. A flexible or evolved view of relationships on your part will probably lead to us getting along well. (informed consent - I'm attached, poly, and looking for a partner in crime)
What am I looking for? See the first paragraph. Someone new to talk to, learn about, and enjoy. Someone to share music and movies with, talk about authors with, talk about people and life with, and laugh with. Someone to marvel at the absurdities of trying to be a responsible adult with. Someone to flirt with and give me butterflies. Someone to give butterflies to.
And whatever follows or doesn't, I am open to.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being passionate about my job, which means thinking, talking, and developing new perspectives on life.
Enjoying friends.
Being solitary.
Being social.
Seeing live music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, talking, understanding.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. That I'm easy to talk to. That I know a lot. That I'm alternatively a little too confident and a little too self-effacing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
David Foster Wallace. Jonathan Franzen. Kafka. Nabakov. Delillo. Dostoyevsky. David Mitchell. Kundera. Rushdie.
The Smiths, David Bowie, Foxygen, Father John Misty, St. Vincent, Parquet Courts, The White Stripes, The Cure, The Walkmen, The Black Keys, The XX, The National, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Velvet Underground, Arcade Fire
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good food, good drink, good conversation, fascinating people, interesting sex, art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being a homebody reading and watching movies.
Or out getting drinks with friends.
Or having friends over for dinner, games, and drinks.
Or out at the Pageant, the Firebird, Plush, or Off Broadway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have lots of secrets, but no more than you do. We should get together and share some.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're open minded. Intelligent. Ready for something new. Hate being bored. Just a little crazy, but not too crazy.