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29 Los Angeles, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:37pm
Straight, Sapiosexual, Questioning, Heteroflexible
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I try to live my life by the following philosophy:

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." - Mark Twain

I'm on a mission to wring every drop of awesomeness out of life. I'm not interested in a "normal" life, whatever that is. Life is too short to not take advantage of every second.

I'm a strange cross between a nerd and an adventure junkie. I like to step beyond the edge, explore, and have adventures. I skydive, BASE jump, ride motorcycles, snowboard, rock climb, hike, swim, and swing on ropes and generally try to have as many awesome adventures as possible. Can't do that all the time though, and I wouldn't want to, so I spend a lot of time reading books, playing video and board games, exploring the strange place that is the internet, having philosophical discussions, and geeking out over new science and tech stuff. On the creative side of things I'm a photographer, I dabble in graphic design, and I do some video filming and editing.

You should also know that I'm in a relationship and very much in love with my partner, marastara. Why am I still on here? Because we have an open, non monogamous, and polyamorous relationship. She dates people. I date people. Sometimes we happen to date the same person at the same time. I'm looking for meaningful connections, not just sex (although sex is super awesome). I'm looking to meet awesome people who I can become friends with, and, if we have chemistry, see where things lead. I believe in letting relationships be what they want to be, whether that takes the form of being friends, lovers, GF/BF, or something else entirely. I like to let each relationship evolve in its own unique way.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a fine art photographer, wingsuit instructor, and parachute rigger. I'm also involved with a digital women's startup magazine as a photographer and designer. I'm also always on the lookout for the next adventure or thing for me to try.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jumping off things. Cooking and baking. Having adventures. Sewing. Taking sexy photos of people. Having intellectually stimulating conversations on a variety of topics. Painting my nails. Keeping it fun and laid back.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my nails since they're usually painted.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- I love reading books and I have so many favorites that it would be hard to list them all. So here's a sampling (in no particular order) of authors whose books I've loved. Neil Gaiman, J.R.R. Tolkien, George R.R. Martin, C.S. Lewis, Michael Crichton, Phillip Pullman, Jules Verne, Jacqueline Carey, Mark Twain, Douglas Preston, Antoine de Saint-Exupery, Douglas Adams, Lincoln Child, Steven Pressfield, Chuck Palahniuk, and Jeffry Deaver.

Movies- If I'm not reading in the evening I'm probably watching a movie. Some favorites include (again, no particular order) Blood Diamond, The Fountain, Avatar, Cloud Atlas, My Fair Lady, Europa Report, Point Break, Pan's Labyrinth, Sunshine, The Lego Movie, Forbidden Planet, The Prestige, Inception, The Princess Bride, Wall-E (And pretty much every Pixar movie.), Alien, Aliens, the original Star Wars trilogy, My Man Godfrey, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Fifth Element, The Dark Knight trilogy, Minority Report, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Pitch Black, Serenity, Unbreakable, and Ben Hur. I think that will give you an idea of my taste in movies.

TV Shows- Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, Sherlock, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, The Walking Dead, True Blood, Lost, Top Gear, Castle, Dexter, House, Heroes, The IT Crowd, The Office, and Danger 5.

If you've never seen Danger 5 then you should watch the trailer, or just head straight over to Hulu and watch the first episode.

If you like this then I'm sure we'll get along great! If you don't, well, I'm sure we have other stuff in common besides a love of hilariously weird things.

Music- Pretty much anything. From Mozart to Evanescence, Pink Floyd to Deadmou5, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs to Regina Spektor, Queen to Leonard Cohen. What I listen to depends on my mood and what I'm doing.

Food- I love pretty much every cuisine. I especially love pizza, falafel, good southern home cooking, and good, authentic, ethnic cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order other than number one.

1. Love (and all the people I love)
2. My SV650
3. A camera
4. Adventures
5. Books
6. Music
7. Smiles

(Seven is a nicer number than six I think, so I'm going with seven.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How amazing the double decker couch from The Lego Movie would be. I want one so bad! It would be totally rad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical. I could be spending the night in watching movies or playing games, walking the streets with my camera, out at a rock gym, at a bar with friends, or sneaking into a building so I can jump off it. I just do whatever seems fun on any given day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use the word rad a lot. It should still be a thing.
You should message me if
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You think I seem like someone you'd like to get to know, and you are some combination of intelligent, adventurous, sexy, fun, happy, cute, nerdy, vivacious, bodacious, and/or awesome. You don't have to have some crazy exciting life. I'm just looking for real people who are happy with themselves and with their life and who want new things.

Warning: if you just write one or two words I'm going to delete your message. Just because I'm a guy doesn't mean I'm not picky about who I message or message back. Write me something interesting that tells me something about you!