InfraredGuru
24 Waukegan, IL
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My self-summary
first off, i do not date black guys!!! im not racist, i just have my own preference. if you are under 26 & not local please dont message me. 2nd off, i am not on here for sex, i can go to the bar if i want that. 3rd i will not meet you the first day of talking to you & don't try to convince or pressure me into doing so cus it won't work. too many crazy psychos out here. if you dont understand that, your loss. and 4th just because i have black hair & piercings it does not make me gothic people! lol anyway, i am 26 years old. i have a full time job & a car. im very spontaneous & definitely a smart ass so keep up ;) i speak my mind as you can see. i'm not high maintenance at all, i like to enjoy the simple things in life. i am country but with a twist of rock. lol i have 9 tats & 28 piercings. i'm also a bigger girl, if not your preference, no hard feelings just move along. :) i want to hang out & see where it goes from there. i would eventually like a relationship but i am not desperate and definitely in no hurry. if we dont click its cool, maybe i'll get a cool ass friend from it :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an entrepreneur that enjoys challenges and am not averse to risk-taking. I am not too interested in retiring soon. I've started a new company, a new product and it is crazy rewarding. My personal and company slogan: Vision...Clarity...Focus... BUT, I have time to romance a woman and pay attention to her. I consider myself a one-woman man and am looking for a woman who is searching for the best last relationship of her life (Am I being redundant here?).

I'm a hopeless romantic AND a hopeless entrepreneur.
I’m really good at
Listening, organizing, solving problems, massaging out your aches and pains and, last, but not least, kissing. Pecking is not for me. I tend to be interested in long, slow, passionate kisses.
The first things people usually notice about me
The third eye in the middle of my forehead. Then, that I'm mostly smiling, often joking, always focused.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I mentor teens on how to read and understand the Classics. So, Classical literature leads the pack. My top five (and they shuffle from time to time) are:
Paradise Lost, Moby Dick, Anna Karenina, Don Quijote, Heart of Darkness. There are too many to name others, but a contemporary piece of genius is Toole's "Conferderacy of Dunces." Briliant. I love Mozart. He is King, but my iTunes library is packed with jazz, country, Rock AND Rap. I prefer Classical and Jazz, but I love it all. I really like Ballads: Springsteen's Jungle Road, El Paso, 8 mile..

Ben-Hur, Casablanca, Lawrence of Arabia (well, anything by David Lean), Shakespeare in Love, Sunset Blvd, Sideways, The Dresser. Truly, I love cinema and what a city to love it in. Right? This is a good place to make mention of my guilty pleasure; I love Star Trek, the latest iterations by J.J. Abrams, were quite good. But alas, I have a soft spot in my heart for the Kirk v. Kahn classic (based upon Moby Dick, of course!!) Come on, The Wrath of Kahn is a classic!!!
:-)

Oh, food. I'll eat most anything. I prefer Indian and/or Thai, but I do enjoy discovering cuisine from anywhere. So, I'm pretty open. I really like Mexican and Italian and Tex-Mex too. I enjoyed an extensive chef school cooking course many years ago and really enjoy creating and cooking in the kitchen.
The six things I could never do without
Well, you know, there's a serious list and then there's funnyrediculous. RIGHT?

A mix:
First, really, the love of my kids
My iPhone
MacBook Pro
Music
DVR
Sex
You
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make my company better. What to write about. How I should improve this silly profile. If I'll meet a woman who really jazzes me. How my kids are doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't barhop or go clubbing. It's a waste of time. If I'm not on a real date, dancing and having a nice dinner, I'm at home relaxing and reading or writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't imagine retiring for awhile.....

Hold on! I have a little pet peeve about this section!!!! Why do most of you women write "not here" or "THEN IT WOULDN'T BE PRIVATE!" or "I won't disclose private issues on the internet!" or something close? The sentence reads "The MOST private thing..." Not "REVEAL A VERY PRIVATE THING." So, have fun and don't disclose deep stuff!
You should message me if
You are open to the possibilities and wonders of Life. OH!!! As per the above section: NEAR ME could mean: San Francisco, San Diego, New York or London. Places I travel to or visit often or would easily be able to relocate to.... if love so dictated :-) (yes, I'm a hopeless romantic).

Oh, wait, that was way too deep and serious.

You should message me if you would like to get together or liked anything I wrote.
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