I am quirky, generous, and supportive.
My Self-Summary
Hi guys. I've been on this site for awhile, but decided last year
that meeting people was less important than learning how to have
fun, be present/confident in myself and be goofy-happy, something
I'm still working on but have made great strides with. Now, I
figure, I like people, so meeting some new ones might help with the
goofy-happy. ;) Hmm. About me. First, I will say that I am a
notorious homebody, so if you're looking for a party girl barstar
to giggle at your pec-dancing routine, I'm not her. I find that I'm
attracted to guys who can make me laugh, because being able to
laugh is truly one of the best things in the world. That's probably
why I love making people laugh so much as well, which you'll pick
up on pretty quickly if we spend time together. Okay, confession
time. I'm a huge sucker for nerds. Chances are if you were getting
beat up in gym class or salivating over the new Frank Miller
graphic novel coming out, I was swooning in the corner and you had
no idea. (No, I haven't read graphic novels, but I work in a
bookstore so chances are we can still have a good conversation
about them, or any other books you're into.) I'm one of those
people who doesn't have a big group of friends, but those who are
in my life are hugely important to me. I'm also really close to my
family. I genuinely like all of them and we love hanging out when
we can, playing games, talking and laughing. I think I've hit the
high points, if you've stayed with me so far and actually want to
know more, well, I guess that's what the other boxes are for...
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated last year from the psychology program with an honours
degree, but since even an BA honours inevitably ends with the
phrase, "...and do you want fries with that?" I'm taking a couple
years to get some prerequisites and some work experience, and then
plan to apply for the masters program in school and counselling
psychology. I also went to Ireland, England and Wales for a month
last May with my best friend and her sister, and when we went to
Ireland I realized it was possible to get a crush on a country.
It's not outside the realm of possibility for me to go and live
there for awhile someday.
I’m really good at
Listening, making people laugh (as previously mentioned), and for
some reason I am a sponge for pop culture knowledge, so I usually
know an actor's name or the name of a movie if you can't think of
it. I'm a bit embarassed about it, I feel like I should harness
that for something, you know, not completely useless and vapid, but
there it is.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, I suppose, I've gotten comments on them (sometimes in kind
of bizarre ways) a few times.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Jane Eyre, The Year of Living Biblically and The Guinea Pig
Experiment by A.J. Jacobs, The Glass Castle, The Time Traveller's
Wife, The Birth House, anything by Christopher Moore, stuff by
Marian Keyes (ultimate guilty-pleasure chick-lit), Emotional
Intelligence by Daniel Goleman, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
series, Farenheit 451, Clockwork Orange (it made me feel a bit sick
but I couldn't put it down)... Okay, I'll stop now...
Movies: Moulin Rouge, Love Actually, Hitchhiker's Guide to the
Galaxy, Kill Bill (but mostly volume II), The Princess Bride, When
Harry Met Sally, V for Vendetta, anything by Christopher Guest but
especially Best in Show, Monty Python: Quest for the Holy Grail
(the others I saw were okay but fewer laughs), Robin Hood: Men in
Tights, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Stranger than
Fiction, Dirty Dancing (I know, shhh...) I just saw Invention of
Lying and it was pretty good
Music: I will go on FOREVER, so I'll just say I gravitate toward
mellower indie stuff, but I love things that make me do the dorky
butt wiggle in my chair because I just can't help it, which for me
at the moment is stuff like I Got a Feeling by the Black-eyed Peas,
the Glee versions of Don't Stop Believing and Sweet Caroline,
Fireflies by Owl City, Grace Kelly by Mika, and Shake it by Metro
Station. Oh, and I hate heavy metal. Stop yelling and take the
pills already.
Food: I love my mom's pepper steak, ice cream, fresh veggies,
Vietnamese food, sushi, and of course, chocolate. I also like to
cook so sometimes I experiment, and I have a weird obsession with
lemon juice.
The six things I could never do without
1. Friends/family
2. Music
3. Movies
4. Showers
5. Books
6. Oh, um, food. Duh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I'm at and where I'm going, my friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, watching a movie, sometimes having some
drinks or going out to eat (wallet permitting!).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I talk to myself. I know it's weird, but I always have, even as a
kid, and it sort of help me make sense of things sometimes.
You should message me if
You actually read to this point and you think we might have some
things in common. I'm crossing my fingers that I have some more
positive experiences this time around, and I think it helps if we
both go into it thinking we could be friends and let it develop
from there (if it does). That said, I don't think I'd by
comfortable with someone more than 6 or 7 years older than me. At
that point I think we're at different points in our lives and it
might get weird. Kudos to you for sifting through the inane jabber,
thanks for taking the time!