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Inkarnit

28 / M / straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am intelligent, loyal, and honest.

My Self-Summary

I'll need some time to really compile something here. Suffice it to say, for now, that I will talk to you about anything you want to know.

I am a dog lover. I have 2 great dogs, a 4 year old Boston Terrier named Izzy and a 5 year old Scottish Terrier/Black Lab mix named Johnny Cash. They mean the world to me and I would never give them up.

What I’m doing with my life

I own a financial services firm, focusing on helping Middle American clients identify and resolve critical financial needs of which they may not even be aware.

I previously spent time in the Navy as a nuclear electronics technician. When I got out, I came to Jacksonville as a systems engineer working on cancer treatment equipment. Last August I got laid off and instead of going back into the job market, I decided I no longer wanted to work for someone else and decided to go into business for myself. Now, I control my income.

I’m really good at

Listening, sharing my feelings about things, and problem solving. If I put my mind to something, I usually succeed at it.

Anything tech-related is in my repertoire of things I can do. My friends and family usually ask me to fix their broken computers and whatnot. I'm not the best at it or anything, certainly not compared to professionals, but I can hold my own.

The first things people usually notice about me

My love for life. If we're talking physically, I guess people notice that I look pretty young for my age.

I'm also in pretty decent physical shape. I'm 5'9" and about 175 lbs. Admittedly, I could be in better shape, and as such I have recently started a gym membership, but I don't use it as often as I would like. In fact, there are a lot of things I used to do on a regular basis that I need to get back into. Recently I began attending a weekly volleyball game too. I would really like to do more in the activity department though.

That all being said, I don't feel like there is anything wrong with a relaxing night in, either. There is definitely something to be said for spending alone time at the house with a good movie. Going out to dinner and a movie can be good fun too, but shouldn't be the only date idea ever. I like to go play pool or bowl on occasion as well.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite book series is the Song of Fire and Ice series by George RR Martin. My favorite single book, however, is Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged. The majority of my reading is sci-fi and fantasy books, however. I will also admit that I recently read the Twilight series. No comments...

There are too many movies I really like to start naming favorites.

I listen to almost all music, even a little country and rap. I'm a big fan of the Beatles, Johnny Cash, and old school Metallica.

I'm a fan of food of just about all types. I will try just about anything once. I REALLY enjoy going out for sushi and will almost ALWAYS say yes to sushi dates! In fact, I like most Asian cuisine.

The six things I could never do without

1. My family (including significant others)
2. My friends
3. My 2 dogs
4. Air conditioning
5. My cell phone
6. My laptop

These questions always stump me. I want categories. Like, what 6 inventions could I never do without? Which 6 people could I never do without? I don't know. I'm pretty sure I could ACTUALLY do without many things, including the 6 items on my list. I am pretty adaptable, and as such would be able to, eventually, get through losing anything.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I really want, expect, and deserve out of life. I wonder sometimes if there is something I am meant to do that I have not figured out yet.

On a typical Friday night I am

Talking to my friends, trying to figure out if anything is going on worth leaving the house for. I don't have a "typical" Friday night though really. If something is going on, I might go do something, otherwise I'll just hang out at the house. I don't HAVE to always be doing something, but it certainly is nice to have someone to go out with.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll admit anything if you ask. You already know that I'm using the internet to assist in dating, so that's something.

I'll also admit that I was previously in an unsuccessful marriage. I was married for 3 years, together for 4.5. It ended when I discovered evidence of her affair. I offered to try reconciliation by going through counseling and seeing if there was anything to salvage but she had already decided that it was over and the cheating was her way of letting me know. The day I confronted her was the day she moved out and in with her boyfriend. There's no greater kick in the ego than being cheated on.

You should message me if

you are looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman and is passionate about life and if you feel the same is true about you. I'm also a very sarcastic person, so you should have a good sense of humor.