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Inkwizitiv

63 / M / Straight / Single

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

His Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Yiddish (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm confident speaking, or even singing, to 1,000 people, but get me one on one and I'm as awkward as the Pope at a Bar Mitzva ... I haven't dated much and I'm no Don Wonder at it.

But don't get me wrong. I'm considered attractive in some circles (like the uninhabited tundra of the Arctic Circle, for example).

While I am comfortable by myself, it has drawbacks:

- Conversations are far too predictable (at least I get to win most of the arguments),
- When things go wrong, there's no one to blame, and
- Sex ... well, I can handle it, but romance is fleeting.

I've got lots of interests - reading, playing music (guitar and singing), drawing, photography, writing, cooking, watching movies (I'm a sucker for thrillers and romantic comedies), or taking long walks.

I'm intellectually adventurous, morally traditional and emotionally tentative. I love debate, but I know winning an argument has nothing to do with being right. I'm a critical thinker with a talent for big-picture synthesis, but discrete details – names, dates, etc. – evade me constantly.

Good qualities? - I'm faithful, forgiving (of others; less so of myself), open, insightful, adaptable, trusting and trustworthy. I'm truthful (to a fault), reliable and quick-witted (half the time).

Not-so-good qualities? - I'm impatient and contrary. Despite being productive, I tend to procrastinate. I'm also addicted to puns - even (especially?) bad ones - and yes, I confess, I still sometimes laugh at fart jokes (I'm not proud of that ... Really!).
What I’m doing with my life
I'm semi-retired. Still do some consulting and teaching. Mostly I get to follow my bliss ;-). Working on a novel and my artistic portfolio.
I’m really good at
Not super-great at anything, but pretty good at lots

Actually, I guess I'm a great critic - but that's not always appreciated
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pretty eclectic - depends on my mood.
The six things I could never do without
Humour
Curiosity
Kindness
Honesty
Dialogue/discussion
Good shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What makes people tick - individually and collectively. Why do we do the things we do?
On a typical Friday night I am
Movie, walk, read, play guitar ... whatever appeals at the moment
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If it's private, why would I admit it so publicly?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You've got a pulse ;-)