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InnCic20

35 M Charlotte, NC

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 25
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm honestly not sure whether this will work, but I have a couple friends who have had some success with this, so I figured I'd give it a try.

As for me, I a pretty laid back kind of person. I try not to take life too seriously. I believe in having fun and spending time with wonderful people. I am a very loyal person, and value this quality in others. I love to laugh, and really enjoy a good, harmless practical joke, whether I am playing it on someone else, or if someone is playing one on me. I definitely don't take myself too seriously, and I can absolutely take a joke. I have a good sense of humor and, if the stars are aligned just right, I can be pretty witty... hee hee.

I consider myself to be a pretty intelligent person, but sometimes the blonde-ness in me comes out, and I can be a little flighty. It's ok - I own it :-). I try my best to be a good person, but just like the rest of the world, I am not perfect. I make mistakes. I don't regret the mistakes I have made, but I do try my best to learn from them (sometimes that's more easily said than done).

OK... since this is just supposed to be a summary, I will end here and answer the other questions this website will undoubtedly ask. If you want to know anything else, please feel free to ask, or continue reading.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work in higher education in Charlotte, NC. I really enjoy what I'm doing, and plan to do some version of it for the rest of my career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Typing - I am an excellent typer... haha!! Actually, I think I am really good at talking to people and helping people. I have been told many times that I am an easy person to talk to, and, for some reason, people tell me very intimate things about themselves. I take it as a complement, and I take it very seriously. It's because of this that I tend to be a very trustworthy person - and I am VERY good at keeping a secret.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and my blonde hair (yes, they are both natural). I think people also notice my non-judgmental and open attitude. I will pretty much talk to anyone and talk about anything. I don't really shy away from any topic. I think that's a good thing, and I wish more people were like that. However, I will admit that it sometimes forces me to put my foot in my mouth. I wouldn't change it for anything, though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books include, Harry Potter, Stephen King, and anything supernatural (except Stephanie Meyer - she had destroyed the legend of the vampire!!).

My favorite movies/TV include anything Sci Fi or Supernatural as well. I love anything with vampires (minus Twilight), ghosts, witches, aliens, etc.

As for music, I like a lot of Top 40 stuff, but some older stuff (now): Britney, Madonna, Janet, Mariah, Michael Jackson. I enjoy a lot of pop music and anything I can dance to, but I also really enjoy anything with really good lyrics. One of my favorite artists that most people have not heard of is Poe - her music is amazing, and her lyrics are astounding!!!

As for food, I'm pretty much a meat and potatoes kind of guy. I admit that I do not eat as healthy as I should, but that is something that I am currently trying to change.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My CDs (iPods are too unreliable)
My stereo (I gotta play the CDs on something)
My laptop (so I could continue writing)
My friends (I'm going to count them all as 1)
An endless bottle of wine
(I'll leave the 6th slot open for emergencies :-)).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about story ideas. I write as a hobby, and I have a lot of ideas in my head for some really great stories - I just need to get them out of my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This question is pretty hard, because I don't know that I have ever really had a "typical" Friday night. Every Friday night is different. Sometimes I am clubbing with friends, sitting at a bar with friends, sitting on a back porch with friends, and sometimes I am just sitting at home with a good book or whatever is on my Tivo. All of this can change at the drop of a hat as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy the Disney channel. OK... there... I've said it. It is my guilty pleasure. I think it's because the shows are so bad that it's like watching a house burn down. But, whatever the reason, if there is nothing else on TV, I will, inevitably, turn to the Disney channel. Please don't judge me... eh, what the heck... judge away, I can take it!! Hahaha!!
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are a good person; if you are someone who is looking for something long-term. I don't know yet if I'm looking for forever, but I know I am looking for something that will go past the first or second date. I don't want to say that looks are not important, but that is not the only thing I am looking for. However, I need to be attracted to the person I am dating - however, I really don't have a "type" and could potentially be attracted to anyone. I am also looking for someone who is loyal and honest - I absolutely do NOT put up with liars, and I promise to give you the same respect. I would like to be with someone I can have a conversation with, whether we agree with each other or not. I don't want someone just like me; that would be boring. I like differences, and I feel that differences in people only complement each other.

I'm sure there are other things, but I want to leave some things for us to talk about later ;-).