First off my name is Paul.
I am a very open minded and easy going person.
I enjoy nature. I enjoy playing video games (mostly RPGs), card games, board games, hanging out with friends when I can, hiking, camping, ice skating, inline skating *For some reason I can't seem to find anyone that wants to go with me or try to learn*.
I try to get to the gym at least every other day.
I love going to renaissance festivals and go every year.
I'm an affectionate person.
I have taken Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
I took a few Kenpo classes.
I am starting to learn Tai Chi.
I like playing pool. I have my own slate table but I'm not really good at it.
I have a degree in applied science in information technology. I graduated with highest honors. Almost a 4.0 but I really disliked on class so I got a B+.
I consider myself to be a jack of all trades.
I have a very technical background.
I use to be a Technical Analyst but have been promoted to Applications and Development for the Healthcare vertical.
I implement, design, build, troubleshoot Server/Computer networks and software.
I am a self taught software programmer.
I can create programs for Windows, IOS *iPhone/iPad* and Android.
I am a fire performer - I spin fire poi, fire staff, firework staff.
I was an automotive technician for 10 years.
I create chainmaille armor along with other odds and ends outside armor.
I can sew.
I try to play the Djembe.
I have attempted playing the electric guitar.
I can even put a roof on a house as I use to be a roofer.
Just recently I learned how to repair a furnace as the technician I paid to come out had no idea what the issue was. I tracked down the issue all the way to which component on the circuit board was bad.
I enjoy animals but allergic to cats but after my sinus surgery i don't seem to have allergies like I use to.
I have a chinchilla and a hybrid wolf that will be 5 weeks old on 4/2/12.
I have a tattoo on my right upper arm. Hopefully this doesn't bother you because its kinda there to stay. Its a custom drawing of Mjölnir (Thor's hammer), Odin's Vulknot and a pentacle.
I am not a sports person what so ever. I don't watch them and don't care to. I have no issues with others watching them. I don't have issues playing certain sports with friends but I can't watch them.
I am looking for someone who is caring and trusting, someone who doesn't have a short fuse. Someone who can laugh but when needed be serious. Someone who knows who they are. Someone that can be a friend along side or a partner. Able to speak their mind if something is bothering them. Someone that can take care of them self and not rely on others just to survive. Someone that can return the feelings that I give, back to me. If something is bothering me I will bring it up and I expect you to do the same. I don't let things linger and don't see the point. If there is an issue about anything I like to sort it out the moment its brought up.
You have to be able to handle a guy that actually cares about you because it seems a lot of people have no idea how to handle that which makes no sense at all.
If your done being treated like you don't matter, hidden in public because some reason or another by people that you have been with, looking for a great man, well I'm him.
No I don't have a god complex, the way I treat people that I care about is exactly what I want to feel in return from someone i'm with and that doesn't ever seem to happen or last long. I've had people tell me i'm to nice???? I'm sorry but how is that even a factor.....
I'm not a millionaire or live in a castle but i'm a damn good choice for someone and that's just that. I own my own house, car, make good money and have a career I love.
*although I would like to have my custom house built one day that might as well be a castle lol*
I also want a moat around it so I can drive a wave runner around it.
I will always be and do my best for the person I am with and I hope to have that in return.
I prefer someone who doesn't smoke, but if you do you should not expect me to be around you while you do. Fair warning.
The below applies if your looking for a relationship but if your just looking for a friend then it's not a huge deal but I still wont have anything to do with it.
If you do any kind of drugs you are not for me and might as well quit reading my profile. If you have done them in the past then you need to keep all your stories to yourself because I don't want to or care to hear them.
I am not looking for someone that lives on drama. I don't care that people swear but I'm not looking for someone that uses it as every other word in a sentence all day long.
I am not looking for a person who likes to raise their voice just to get a point across. I ignore anyone that tries to start an argument or raises their voice just to be heard. You must be able to communicate as a balanced person.
I am not looking for someone who's job is being a stripper. Not my thing nor do I care about going to a strip club. Whats the point?
I am not looking for someone that likes to get revenge on people for doing them wrong. Let karma take care of it.
You will also need to accept the fact that I talk to a lot of my ex's as they are my friends and I will not change that for anyone. If you are going to be someone that gives me a hard time about talking to them or hanging out with them, we will not get along.
If we dated and did not work out I would still keep you as a friend.
You also need to accept the fact that I'm an Eclectic Pagan. I don't care what you believe in because if it works for you then I am glad. To each their own. I wont push anything I do on you and I don't want anything you do pushed on me. I am open minded and always enjoy learning about new paths and views.
BTW to the closed minded people *I DO NOT BELIEVE IN THE DEVIL OR SACRIFICE ANIMALS*
Sorry I hear that alot and its pretty annoying.
I use this app on my phone so I may or may not have actually meant to show up under visitors to your profile as I tend to hit random things at times trying to do something else on my cell.
I don't play the "chase me" games either so if your interested message me.
Now regarding your profile - What I am not looking to see:
1: Anything like 69 or perverted related in your name
2: Any up close pictures showing off certain parts of your body
Seriously people you probably are complaining that you can never find a good guy ...etc ...etc well what do you think would happen posting such things to the public. I'm not saying I don't have a perverted side but its not exactly what you would post looking for Mr. Right unless you want someone only interested in one thing.