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Instrumentation

51 M Charlotte, NC

My Details

Last Online
May 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hi, and thanks for taking a minute to read about me. It’s my hope to meet someone whose interests are similar, whose concern for fellow-man is well founded, whose heart is open and whose voice is full of melody.
My most fervent interest is music. All types. It's a total passion, and also been part of my work since college and even before. Note: a good match should feel no pressure to be a music fanatic - everyone loves some type of music and it's highly likely that we'll have some common favorites. I'm a great listener, solid speaker (I've produced and hosted radio shows up until recently), generally pleasant guy and pretty slow to anger. I can be considered smart, but understated, and you certainly won't find me pompous or condescending (few things are worse than that). I can hold a conversation.
I'm legally separated (it's over - just waiting on the legal system) and love spending time with my 9-year old regularly. I’m a “together” guy who would like to get together with a lovely, smart, fun-loving, caring lady in the near future.
I'm open to hearing the music from another.
What I’m doing with my life
Dancing (Contra currently is my favorite - taking Bachata lessons, too) Concerts (usually not the stadium type, but I can be flexible). I care for my kiddo; I have a beer with my buddies, play softball, run a soundboard at church, go to music festivals, play disc golf, work out at the gym (recently added yoga - now I understand).
I’m really good at
Taking care of business.
The first things people usually notice about me
Some people say I have a nice voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: This could go on for weeks, but as a cross-section, favorites include masters like The Beatles, James Brown, Johnny Cash, The Ramones and R.E.M. and newer artists like Radiohead, The Avett Brothers and Neko Case. Other favorite from 2012 (AKA if you're adventerous check these out: Electric Guest, Dr. John (w Dan Auerbach), Nada Surf, Lumineers, Yellow Ostrich, Lee Fields, The dB's, Kelly Hogan, Wedding Present, Steep Canyon Rangers, Kishi Bashi, Alabama Shakes, Grizzly Bear, and Tift Merritt. I've worked with Bettye LaVette, Pat DiNizio and Natalie Merchant in the recent past.
Books: Freakonomics and many biographies. Several books by Adam Hamilton and I also like Tony Campolo.
Food: Really open to all types of food from all locales - just can't handle the very hot stuff. Love sushi, Italian, dim sum, Vietnamese and Mac's BBQ.
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Faith
Music
A Mind to Use
A Chance to Expand
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Women (let's be real), music, justice, family and especially my boy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a beer with my buddy or spending some time with my kiddo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Rub or scratch my back and I melt into a puddle. You can get pretty much anything you want that way...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are not afraid to start the conversation, have a question, or just have something you want to say.