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Insulinde

29 / M / straight / Single

Irvine, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am Loyal, Honest, and Complex.

My Self-Summary

I am a pretty mellow guy, but I think I stand out in three things: loyalty, compassion, and honesty. The people in my life are very important to me and it makes no sense to burn bridges. I also often find myself lending an ear to my friends, and I do think that I am pretty good listener. Lastly, I am not afraid of saying what's on my mind, and I mean what I say (though I am mindful of my deliveries). I am just too lazy to keep track of lies anyhow. :) Unfortunately, I am bad at sweet talking; I am no good around the kitchen (though pretty good at doing dishes); I am also terrible at the guessing game. But, I'll try my best, because I not a quitter.

The person I am looking for, is somebody who is open to all things: old and new, fun and scary, near and far. I am by no means an adventurer / explorer, but I do love to travel! It’s not traveling unless you have an companion, that person to share memories of little (or not so little) adventures with. Simply put, I am looking for somebody to cry and laugh with, somebody to journey through live with, and somebody to grow old with. I hope this doesn't sound too scary to you. :)

I know I said nothing concrete, but so much is lost in translation anyways, even when you are face to face. :/ I promise that I am NOT emo, clingy, workaholic, or unstable. If that sounds good to ya, hit me up with a wink or e-mail, and we’ll take it from there.:)

What I’m doing with my life

I am finishing up my 3rd year in grad school, and finally started to fulfilling my dream of seeing the world with my own eyes! Recently stopped eating meat to lessen my ecological impact, and began to get back into the art gallery/ theatre scene. And yes, these thing aren't related, other than the fact that I am doing them! >.~

I’m really good at

Thinking! I love the constant mental/ intellectual stimulation, and I'd fall asleep when I am bored.

Being a good friend! I believe that it's the people around you that makes your life worthwhile. I am always grateful to my friends and thus I do my best to be a good friend in return.

Not freaking out! Stressing out doesn't work for me. I maintain calm so I can work my way out. Nothing is the end of the world after all. :D

The first things people usually notice about me

I am not your socially awkward Asian guy, and I can carry a conversation if YOU want to. >.~

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I don't really have favorite of anything. I don't have the habit of ranking things, and I just have things that I enjoy/ like.

The six things I could never do without

Outside of biological needs, I'd have to say . . . LIFE! There isn't anything that I can seriously live without. On the other hand, there isn't anything that I'd trade for something else either. Life isn't all fun and games, but that's why it's beautiful!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Anything and everything! For example, I was thinking about shaved ice 2 hours ago; definition vs connotation an hour ago; and now I am thinking about how hot it is today and maybe I should go get more shaved ice! :D

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends, cooking dinner, watch "What Not to Wear" on TLC, reading, etc.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll check out your shoes and tell you what I think of them (maybe). :D

You should message me if

You are interested in having conversations with substance (in any subject), and not afraid of say what's on your mind! :)