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42 M Decatur, GA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 22–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:46pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I had a very long profile on I want to try taking the mysterious approach.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting one one one (or few on not just talking about sexually!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I usually have about three books going at one time, ususally one fiction, one non-fiction, and one Buddhist/spiritual. Ken Wilber , David Deida, Chogyam Trungpa and Eckhart Tolle are my favorite authors at the moment. All-time favorite authors are Aldous Huxley and Herman Hesse. Also enjoy science fiction (especially the classics: Asimov, Heinlein, Herbert) and fantasy. Yes, I have even read all the Harry Potter books. Other influential books on my life: The Alchemist, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Shambhala Sacred Path of the Warrior, Sex at Dawn

TV: only watch TV shows on Netflix or HBO. Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Battlestar Galactica (I frakkin' love that show!). Star Trek, Californication, Arrested Development(at least the first three seasons), Better Off Ted, My Name is Earl. Always Sunny, Louie, New York Jets football games

Movies: Are you really going to read this ridiculously long list? Don't you have something better to do (obviously I didn't when I wrote it!)
Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, Fight Club!, LOTR trilogy, Batman Dark Knight Series, Original Star Wars Trilogy, I Heart Huckabees, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fear and Loathing in Los Vegas, V is for Vendetta, A Scanner Darkly, The Usual Suspects, The Fifth Element, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Snatch, Pan's Labyrinth, The Wicker Man(1973 version), Donnie Darko, Casablanca, The Science of Sleep, The Last King of Scotland, The Lives of Others, 28 Days Later, Godfather 1 and 2,One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest, 12 Angry Men, Pulp Fiction, Raiders of the Lost Ark, The Silence of the Lambs, The Matrix, Memento, American Beauty, A Clockwork Orange, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Baveheart, Bladerunner, The Thing, Bound, Borat, Jackass 1 and 2, Harold and Kumar go to White Castle, Something about Mary, Clerks, Zack and Miri Make a Porno, The Life of Brian

Video Games: . I enjoy RPGs and adventure games with good story lines. Love the Zelda, Uncharted and Mass Effect series.

Music: I love music!!!! It really depends on my mood: Classic Rock(even the semi-cheesy Billy Joel and Journey), Alternative Rock( Alanis Morrisette, Tori Amos, Edie Brickell, Jewel, Ben Folds Five, Bare Naked Ladies, Radiohead, Red Hot Chili Peppers),Metal(especially old school: Iron Maiden); but also new like System of a Down, Avenged Sevenfold), Jazz fusion/Mixed Genre stuff (Bela Fleck, Al DiMeola), Classical (esp Baroque), Chanting, Classical and Flamenco guitar.

Food: vegetarian.(I don't discriminate in my friends and lovers, but for a long-term partnership this would be a requirement) I love Indian, Thai, Mexican and Italian. A good New York style or Chicago deep dish pizza! Good Beer, Wine, or Scotch(in moderation of course!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and more sex!

Just kidding! (A joke for the women on here always complaining about guys on OKC talking about sex in the first IM conversation.)

I do love sex, like all men, and definitely have a kinky side, but it really is not the be all and end all of a relationship.

The real list:
My children(not really "things" I know), Books, Music, "The Internets", Good Friends, Coffee, Meditation, and Breaking rules like listing only six things!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I really want to manifest in all aspects of my life, including relationships, career, money and leisure time.

What research am I going to propose to do in my next grant proposal that I'm actually really interested in AND that the federal government will actually fund.

Integral Philosophy(it explains everything!).

My next artistic creation.

What needs to get done to provide for my children's health and happiness.

Oh yeah I do think about sex quite a bit, especially when I'm not getting much!

The best is when I am able to not think and just be in the moment. The space between your thoughts is where enlightenment begins!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
..maybe on a date with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not so much into causal sex but do do casual relationships, as well as very deep and profound relationships.
You should message me if
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You want to talk with the aim of meeting up in relatively short order to see what type of dynamic exists between us.